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But whether or not a friend is toxic can be challenging to determine, especially when we’re attached to this friend. For a significant part, whether someone’s behavior is desirable or not is pretty subjective. Also, people are rarely entirely bad; most (if not all) human beings have positive sides as well. So, how do we decide if a friend is actually an enemy in disguise? What are the signs of a toxic friend?
The Buddha may have some valuable answers to this question. The Sigalovada Sutta, a Buddhist text, teaches us the Buddha’s views on friendship. He rationally explains why we shouldn’t be hanging out with certain people and what kinds of people we should associate with if we consider our well-being.
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#toxicfriend #buddhism #fakefriend
00:00 - Intro
01:33 - Enemies disguised as friends
03:01 - The taker
04:29 - The talker
05:48 - The flatterer
07:16 - The reckless companion
But whether or not a friend is toxic can be challenging to determine, especially when we’re attached to this friend. For a significant part, whether someone’s behavior is desirable or not is pretty subjective. Also, people are rarely entirely bad; most (if not all) human beings have positive sides as well. So, how do we decide if a friend is actually an enemy in disguise? What are the signs of a toxic friend?
The Buddha may have some valuable answers to this question. The Sigalovada Sutta, a Buddhist text, teaches us the Buddha’s views on friendship. He rationally explains why we shouldn’t be hanging out with certain people and what kinds of people we should associate with if we consider our well-being.
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Buddha painting (3): commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Buddha_Fresco_Painting.jpg
Buddha painting (4): commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:HK_%E4%B8%AD%E7%92%B0_Central_%E9%A6%99%E6%B8%AF%E5%A4%A7%E6%9C%83%E5%A0%82_City_Hall_High_block_building_Exhibition_Gallery_art_item_%E4%BD%9B_Buddha_painting_July_2019_SSG_39.jpg
Buddha in Phuket photo: commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Big_Buddha_03.jpg
Sutta (1): commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Dhammacakkappavattana_Sutta_Inscription_-4.jpg
Sutta (2): commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Dhammacakkappavattana_Sutta_Inscription_-5.jpg
#toxicfriend #buddhism #fakefriend
00:00 - Intro
01:33 - Enemies disguised as friends
03:01 - The taker
04:29 - The talker
05:48 - The flatterer
07:16 - The reckless companion
