Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
A guy emailed me something that a lot of men are quietly thinking but don’t want to say out loud…
“My wife used to be wild before me. Now she barely wants anything to do with me.”
This one stings. Because it forces you to compare yourself to her past—and wonder what changed.
In this video, I break down what’s really going on when a woman who once had a strong sexual side suddenly shuts it down in a long-term relationship.
We talk about:
• The science behind the honeymoon phase and why it fades
• Why novelty and newness play a bigger role than most people realize
• How some people are wired to need “new relationship energy” to feel desire
• Why this isn’t always about you—but sometimes it is
• What men can actually do (and what they can’t fix)
If you’re in a sexless marriage and feel like you’re not getting the version of her that other men got… this one will hit home.
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A guy emailed me something that a lot of men are quietly thinking but don’t want to say out loud…
“My wife used to be wild before me. Now she barely wants anything to do with me.”
This one stings. Because it forces you to compare yourself to her past—and wonder what changed.
In this video, I break down what’s really going on when a woman who once had a strong sexual side suddenly shuts it down in a long-term relationship.
We talk about:
• The science behind the honeymoon phase and why it fades
• Why novelty and newness play a bigger role than most people realize
• How some people are wired to need “new relationship energy” to feel desire
• Why this isn’t always about you—but sometimes it is
• What men can actually do (and what they can’t fix)
If you’re in a sexless marriage and feel like you’re not getting the version of her that other men got… this one will hit home.
Start here:
deadbedroomfix.com
If you want to talk to other men going through this and get real feedback:
helpformen.com/join
FOLLOW ME ON
💥 Facebook facebook.com/dadstartingover
💥 TikTok: tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over
💥 Instagram: instagram.com/dadstartingover
💥 X: twitter.com/dadstartingover
Our Books:
🌐The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
🌐Divorce Panic: divorcepanic.com
🌐Real Talk: helpformen.com/real-talk
Support Our Sponsors!
BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month! betterhelp.com/helpformen
