Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we’re not talking about basic bad time management — we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to “work on yourself” by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out — or at least knowing you’re not the only one sabotaging your own happiness.
00:00 Intro
03:49 Call Her Daddy
09:53 Reading slump
10:52 Backyard permit nightmare
14:34 Creating over consuming
16:11 Time management
32:34 Self sabotage submissions
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February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we’re not talking about basic bad time management — we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to “work on yourself” by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out — or at least knowing you’re not the only one sabotaging your own happiness.
00:00 Intro
03:49 Call Her Daddy
09:53 Reading slump
10:52 Backyard permit nightmare
14:34 Creating over consuming
16:11 Time management
32:34 Self sabotage submissions
WWS LINKS (what we are wearing/mentioning): shopmy.us/whatwesaidpodcast
FOLLOW US!
INSTA:
WWS: instagram.com/whatwesaidpodcast
Jaci: instagram.com/jacimariesmith
Chelsey: instagram.com/chelseyjadecurtis
TIKTOK:
WWS: tiktok.com/@whatwesaid?_t=8kxJ0oJZakJ&_r=1
YOUTUBE:
Chelsey Jade: youtube.com/@chelseygustafson?si=YT3Rjc7FmTkf9352
Jaci Marie: youtube.com/@jacimarie_?si=8wtZ9LYJmkGDLMkk
Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID
SPONSORS:
Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.
Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.
Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID.
