Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
This short guided exercise takes you through 3 slow, deep breaths designed to activate your parasympathetic nervous system and bring your body into a calmer state.
The slow breathing rate and longer exhale is what makes this work. It stimulates your vagus nerve, slows your heart rate, and tells your body it's safe to relax. Just a few breaths can be enough to shift you out of a stressed, fight-or-flight state and into rest mode. Feel free to keep going after 3 breaths if it feels good.
Everyone's lungs are different. You can customize the inhale, exhale, and holds however you want with my app Pocket Breath Coach. Available on the App Store and Google Play. PocketBreathCoach.com
Should you breathe through your nose or mouth?
Go with what feels comfortable and relaxing to you, but here's what many people find helpful:
- Breathe in softly through your nose
- Breathe out through your mouth, like you're softly blowing on hot food to cool it down
- Or simply breathe in and out through your nose if that feels better for you
Let your belly expand on the inhale and soften on the exhale. Try to keep your chest still. When you breathe out, let your shoulders drop and relax. Keep the shoulders relaxed when you breathe in.
Breathe in deeply, but not so full it hurts. Calm, not forced.
How long should you do this?
Do what feels comfortable and relaxing to you. Most people enjoy between 1-20 minutes. If you're new to breathing exercises, just try it for a minute or two and see how you feel.
Breathing in a slow, steady rhythm helps signal safety to your nervous system. It activates the parasympathetic "rest and digest" response. Your muscles relax and your heart rate may go down. You may even notice your mind getting quieter. With regular practice, you can feel calmer, think clearly, and drift off to sleep more easily.
Disclaimer: For info and education only; not medical advice. Consult a doctor if you have heart or lung conditions. Never practice while driving. Stop if you feel lightheaded.
This short guided exercise takes you through 3 slow, deep breaths designed to activate your parasympathetic nervous system and bring your body into a calmer state.
The slow breathing rate and longer exhale is what makes this work. It stimulates your vagus nerve, slows your heart rate, and tells your body it's safe to relax. Just a few breaths can be enough to shift you out of a stressed, fight-or-flight state and into rest mode. Feel free to keep going after 3 breaths if it feels good.
Everyone's lungs are different. You can customize the inhale, exhale, and holds however you want with my app Pocket Breath Coach. Available on the App Store and Google Play. PocketBreathCoach.com
Should you breathe through your nose or mouth?
Go with what feels comfortable and relaxing to you, but here's what many people find helpful:
- Breathe in softly through your nose
- Breathe out through your mouth, like you're softly blowing on hot food to cool it down
- Or simply breathe in and out through your nose if that feels better for you
Let your belly expand on the inhale and soften on the exhale. Try to keep your chest still. When you breathe out, let your shoulders drop and relax. Keep the shoulders relaxed when you breathe in.
Breathe in deeply, but not so full it hurts. Calm, not forced.
How long should you do this?
Do what feels comfortable and relaxing to you. Most people enjoy between 1-20 minutes. If you're new to breathing exercises, just try it for a minute or two and see how you feel.
Breathing in a slow, steady rhythm helps signal safety to your nervous system. It activates the parasympathetic "rest and digest" response. Your muscles relax and your heart rate may go down. You may even notice your mind getting quieter. With regular practice, you can feel calmer, think clearly, and drift off to sleep more easily.
Disclaimer: For info and education only; not medical advice. Consult a doctor if you have heart or lung conditions. Never practice while driving. Stop if you feel lightheaded.
