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Dear marriage supporter,
Dr Joe Malone, a popular speaker on US university campuses, has researched the scientific basis for the benefits of man-woman marriage. You may not agree with his evolutionary worldview, but we think that his conclusions about the strengths of marriage are still well worth a listen.
Joe took some time out of his busy schedule to answer my questions, and you can listen to what he says here.
Joe explains how beneficial man-woman marriage is for men, women and their children. This is partly because humans “have a history of monogamy” which has “been the key to human development”.
Despite culture shifting against lifelong man-woman marriage, Joe states that this does not mean that the benefits of monogamy have been diminished. If anything, the shift towards ‘serial monogamy’ and ‘cohabitation’ has shown clearly how damaging moving away from traditional marriage can be, especially for women. For instance, he points out that ‘hook-up culture’ has been “extremely disruptive” for women, as it “raises their anxiety rates and … their depression rates”. And for men, it has a similar effect to “drug addiction … because it … hits all the same pathways in the brain”.
Joe explains how both men and women gain significant health benefits by getting married and having children. He tells us, for instance, how a mother or father holding their baby produces hormones in their bodies which help with their immune system. And marriage has been shown to reduce the risk of homicide, suicide and alcohol abuse in men.
At C4M, people of all kinds of worldviews and faiths come together to promote marriage, which throughout history and in virtually all human societies has been the union of one man and one woman. No other relationship type comes close in terms of positive outcomes and social benefits. Government, Church and media should join us and once again embrace, promote, and endorse real marriage, as the optimal form of relationship.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button below on our website at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
Dear marriage supporter,
Dr Joe Malone, a popular speaker on US university campuses, has researched the scientific basis for the benefits of man-woman marriage. You may not agree with his evolutionary worldview, but we think that his conclusions about the strengths of marriage are still well worth a listen.
Joe took some time out of his busy schedule to answer my questions, and you can listen to what he says here.
Joe explains how beneficial man-woman marriage is for men, women and their children. This is partly because humans “have a history of monogamy” which has “been the key to human development”.
Despite culture shifting against lifelong man-woman marriage, Joe states that this does not mean that the benefits of monogamy have been diminished. If anything, the shift towards ‘serial monogamy’ and ‘cohabitation’ has shown clearly how damaging moving away from traditional marriage can be, especially for women. For instance, he points out that ‘hook-up culture’ has been “extremely disruptive” for women, as it “raises their anxiety rates and … their depression rates”. And for men, it has a similar effect to “drug addiction … because it … hits all the same pathways in the brain”.
Joe explains how both men and women gain significant health benefits by getting married and having children. He tells us, for instance, how a mother or father holding their baby produces hormones in their bodies which help with their immune system. And marriage has been shown to reduce the risk of homicide, suicide and alcohol abuse in men.
At C4M, people of all kinds of worldviews and faiths come together to promote marriage, which throughout history and in virtually all human societies has been the union of one man and one woman. No other relationship type comes close in terms of positive outcomes and social benefits. Government, Church and media should join us and once again embrace, promote, and endorse real marriage, as the optimal form of relationship.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button below on our website at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage




![Revd Dr Joe Boot short clip from full interview with Dr Tony Rucinski https://youtu.be/gwpBEOALfTU
Please see full interview at https://youtu.be/gwpBEOALfTU
THE CHURCH MUST TAKE A STAND ON MARRIAGE
Dear marriage supporter,
Reverend Dr Joe Boot, founder of the Ezra Institute, recently joined me for a must-watch interview, offering essential guidance for all – and especially today’s church leaders. Dr Boot’s intellect and insight shed light on the urgent need for the Church to uphold man-woman marriage. Marriage, he says, is a foundational institution that transcends religious boundaries, with relevance to people from all faiths and none. The full interview is available here https://youtu.be/gwpBEOALfTU, along with this shorter seven-minute clip for those pressed for time.
In our conversation, Revd Dr Boot emphasises that “the message of the Gospel” includes “human identity and sexuality”. Revd Dr Boot offers practical advice on how busy pastors can find time to tackle these cultural challenges, stressing that this should be a vital aspect of their ministry.
He does not shy away from the reality that many non-Christians are deeply disappointed with the Church’s stand on these issues. He insists that “we have to show… compassion and kindness without compromising what is true”.
He quotes that marriage is “the cosmological key to the universe”, emphasising the profound significance of marriage to the stability of society.
The cultural attacks on marriage and family are not new, Dr Boot argues. But the Church cannot afford to stay silent. Emphasising the responsibility of the Church to engage in these cultural battles, he asserts: “You can’t leave that struggle to JK Rowling… [and] Sharron Davies”.
C4M believes that the restoration of real marriage will be driven by the silent majority speaking out. To support this effort, please forward this email to any church leaders you know and encourage them to listen to Dr Boot’s important message.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
https://www.facebook.com/coalition4marriage/
http://www.c4m.org.uk
https://www.facebook.com/coalition4marriage/ Revd Dr Joe Boot short clip from full interview with Dr Tony Rucinski https://youtu.be/gwpBEOALfTU](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Sgu9AP7pTe8/mqdefault.jpg)





