Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
As husbands, we are commanded to love our wives as our own bodies (Eph. 5:28). But this assumes something most of us have never examined: that we actually love ourselves.
For many of us, our bodies are like condemned buildings — neglected, criticized, and quietly despised. And we bring that ruin into our marriages.
However, healing is possible. When you do the hard work of learning to receive Yah’s love for you, wounds and all — it transforms you.
Start there. Let Yah heal you first, and watch what happens to your marriage.
As husbands, we are commanded to love our wives as our own bodies (Eph. 5:28). But this assumes something most of us have never examined: that we actually love ourselves.
For many of us, our bodies are like condemned buildings — neglected, criticized, and quietly despised. And we bring that ruin into our marriages.
However, healing is possible. When you do the hard work of learning to receive Yah’s love for you, wounds and all — it transforms you.
Start there. Let Yah heal you first, and watch what happens to your marriage.










