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A song comes on. Three minutes later, you don’t know if you just got sad or got healed. Maybe both.
That’s what a handful of songs do to me. Earth, Wind & Fire’s “That’s The Way of the World.” Enigma’s “Return to Innocence.” Supertramp’s “The Logical Song.” Pink Floyd’s “Another Brick in the Wall.”
Four different decades, four different sounds. Same wound. Each deeply resonated with me at various points in my life. I never knew exactly why at the time. Now I do.
Every one of them is about a kid who shows up wide open, and what the world does to shut that down. Oh, how I can relate to that.
I’ve linked to the songs referenced in the article. You can read the article without listening. If you can find the time, go down the rabbit hole with me and give them a listen.
The World Has a System, and the System Wants You Quiet
“The Logical Song” reads almost like a case file. A kid starts out amazed by everything, magical, mystical, alive with wonder. Then he gets sent off to be educated. Somewhere along the way, the wonder gets swapped out for something more useful to everyone but him. Logic. Responsibility. Straighten up and fit in if you want to succeed.
Pink Floyd names the same thing and turns it into a chant. “We don’t need no education”. No subtlety about who’s doing the shutting-down. The institution grinds kids through a system built for control, not curiosity. In the movie, there’s even a meat grinder as the kids are turned into something pliable and void of individuality. Extended movie version linked below.
Both songs are diagnoses. They tell you where it went wrong and who did it. Neither one tells you what to do once you know.
And honestly, that’s where most of us stop. We spend years confirming the diagnosis. Yes, the world did this to me. Yes, I can point to the exact moment. We go to therapy, and they tell us why we are the way we are. I was inspired to write this after seeing someone claim our entire personalities are just trauma responses. Yeah. It can seem that way, huge parts of them anyway.
Naming the wound is real work. It’s just not the whole job. Now that we know, what do we do?
Earth, Wind & Fire Named the Machine
“That’s The Way of the World” isn’t a diagnosis so much as a lament. It describes what the world rewards and what it costs you to keep up. This is the view from inside the compromise. The song doesn’t ask how you get free of it. It just tells the truth about what playing along does to you.
Supertramp and Pink Floyd show you the wall going up. That’s The Way Of The World shows you what it’s like to live inside it, knowing the game is rigged, playing it anyway, because everyone around you is doing the same thing.
Only One of These Songs Talks About Getting Back
I went back to all four of these songs years into doing grief work, and here’s what got me: only Enigma talks about the way back.
Not backward. You’re not un-learning anything. They call it a return to innocence. The video is brilliant, showing a life going backward, Benjamin Button style, as the old man becomes a baby again.
But the truth is more subtle. It’s forward, into something that got buried but never actually left.
The song barely has lyrics. It’s more chant than statement, more feeling than explanation. No instructions. Just an insistence that what got taken from you wasn’t taken forever. It’s still under there, somewhere beneath everything the world piled on top.
I didn’t understand why that distinction mattered until I found the word for it.
There Are Two Kinds of Innocence
Emanuel Swedenborg, the 18th-century theologian, drew a distinction that has captivated me since I first heard it a few years ago. I think it’s the missing instruction manual for all four of these songs.
He said there are two kinds of innocence.
The first is the innocence of infancy. The wonder-filled child Supertramp sings about, the beautiful creature EW&F talks about. The uncorrupted kid Pink Floyd names. They're all about the openness the world eventually shuts down. But look closely, that innocence is really ignorance. Ignorance is not used as a pejorative here. It’s literally not yet knowing. I think, in the case of our returns to Earth, it’s a matter of forgetting. Starting with a relatively blank slate. It’s not earned innocence. It’s a starting condition, handed to you before the world gets a chance to test you. You come in wide-eyed and open.
The second innocence is a different animal entirely. It only exists on the other side of experience. You can’t fake it, and you can’t stay young enough to skip needing it. It shows up after you’ve been out in the world, after you’ve lived what “That’s The Way of the World” describes, after you’ve felt the wall go up brick by brick. And you choose it anyway. Not once. Over and over. It’s what awaits at the end of The Wall album by Pink Floyd when the Wall is torn down.
The first innocence gets lost the moment life happens to you. Nobody ...
A song comes on. Three minutes later, you don’t know if you just got sad or got healed. Maybe both.
That’s what a handful of songs do to me. Earth, Wind & Fire’s “That’s The Way of the World.” Enigma’s “Return to Innocence.” Supertramp’s “The Logical Song.” Pink Floyd’s “Another Brick in the Wall.”
Four different decades, four different sounds. Same wound. Each deeply resonated with me at various points in my life. I never knew exactly why at the time. Now I do.
Every one of them is about a kid who shows up wide open, and what the world does to shut that down. Oh, how I can relate to that.
I’ve linked to the songs referenced in the article. You can read the article without listening. If you can find the time, go down the rabbit hole with me and give them a listen.
The World Has a System, and the System Wants You Quiet
“The Logical Song” reads almost like a case file. A kid starts out amazed by everything, magical, mystical, alive with wonder. Then he gets sent off to be educated. Somewhere along the way, the wonder gets swapped out for something more useful to everyone but him. Logic. Responsibility. Straighten up and fit in if you want to succeed.
Pink Floyd names the same thing and turns it into a chant. “We don’t need no education”. No subtlety about who’s doing the shutting-down. The institution grinds kids through a system built for control, not curiosity. In the movie, there’s even a meat grinder as the kids are turned into something pliable and void of individuality. Extended movie version linked below.
Both songs are diagnoses. They tell you where it went wrong and who did it. Neither one tells you what to do once you know.
And honestly, that’s where most of us stop. We spend years confirming the diagnosis. Yes, the world did this to me. Yes, I can point to the exact moment. We go to therapy, and they tell us why we are the way we are. I was inspired to write this after seeing someone claim our entire personalities are just trauma responses. Yeah. It can seem that way, huge parts of them anyway.
Naming the wound is real work. It’s just not the whole job. Now that we know, what do we do?
Earth, Wind & Fire Named the Machine
“That’s The Way of the World” isn’t a diagnosis so much as a lament. It describes what the world rewards and what it costs you to keep up. This is the view from inside the compromise. The song doesn’t ask how you get free of it. It just tells the truth about what playing along does to you.
Supertramp and Pink Floyd show you the wall going up. That’s The Way Of The World shows you what it’s like to live inside it, knowing the game is rigged, playing it anyway, because everyone around you is doing the same thing.
Only One of These Songs Talks About Getting Back
I went back to all four of these songs years into doing grief work, and here’s what got me: only Enigma talks about the way back.
Not backward. You’re not un-learning anything. They call it a return to innocence. The video is brilliant, showing a life going backward, Benjamin Button style, as the old man becomes a baby again.
But the truth is more subtle. It’s forward, into something that got buried but never actually left.
The song barely has lyrics. It’s more chant than statement, more feeling than explanation. No instructions. Just an insistence that what got taken from you wasn’t taken forever. It’s still under there, somewhere beneath everything the world piled on top.
I didn’t understand why that distinction mattered until I found the word for it.
There Are Two Kinds of Innocence
Emanuel Swedenborg, the 18th-century theologian, drew a distinction that has captivated me since I first heard it a few years ago. I think it’s the missing instruction manual for all four of these songs.
He said there are two kinds of innocence.
The first is the innocence of infancy. The wonder-filled child Supertramp sings about, the beautiful creature EW&F talks about. The uncorrupted kid Pink Floyd names. They're all about the openness the world eventually shuts down. But look closely, that innocence is really ignorance. Ignorance is not used as a pejorative here. It’s literally not yet knowing. I think, in the case of our returns to Earth, it’s a matter of forgetting. Starting with a relatively blank slate. It’s not earned innocence. It’s a starting condition, handed to you before the world gets a chance to test you. You come in wide-eyed and open.
The second innocence is a different animal entirely. It only exists on the other side of experience. You can’t fake it, and you can’t stay young enough to skip needing it. It shows up after you’ve been out in the world, after you’ve lived what “That’s The Way of the World” describes, after you’ve felt the wall go up brick by brick. And you choose it anyway. Not once. Over and over. It’s what awaits at the end of The Wall album by Pink Floyd when the Wall is torn down.
The first innocence gets lost the moment life happens to you. Nobody ...
![Love and Suffering: How Grief Awakens the Soul | Zach Beach on Compassion, Healing & Humanity
Can love exist without suffering? Can suffering deepen our capacity to love?
In this moving and deeply insightful episode of Grief 2 Growth, host Brian D. Smith welcomes Zach Beach — therapist, poet, spiritual teacher, and author of Love and Suffering: A Spiritual Guide for Helpers, Healers, and Humans. Together, they explore a powerful truth that every grieving heart knows: love and suffering are not opposites — they are intertwined.
🌱 Zach shares timeless spiritual wisdom, real-life guidance, and gentle practices to help us meet grief with compassion rather than resistance, and find transformation within pain. Whether youre grieving a loved one, struggling with emotional exhaustion as a healer, or simply navigating life’s everyday losses, this conversation will awaken something deep in you.
🧠 In this episode, youll learn:
Why grief is not a problem to fix, but a sacred process to be present with 🙏
The 4 essential components of true compassion and how to avoid empathy burnout 🧡
How love and suffering show up across spiritual traditions, from Jesus to the Buddha 📿
Why we must learn to “suffer well” and how mindfulness can help us do just that 🧘♂️
The difference between sympathy and empathy (and why presence is the real healer) 🤝
How we can transmute pain into purpose, even after unimaginable loss 💫
Why grief is a lifelong companion — and a profound teacher 👣
🗨️ Brian shares his own journey of losing his daughter Shayna, and how that heartbreaking moment became the soil for profound spiritual awakening. This episode is as real as it gets — full of soul, tears, wisdom, and unexpected moments of joy.
👂 If you’ve ever asked, “Why is there so much suffering in this world?” — this episode is for you.
Zach doesn’t offer easy answers, but he shares a path — from grief to growth, from sorrow to service, from pain to presence.
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00:00 – 🎧 Welcome + Introducing Zach Beach
Brian opens the conversation and introduces Zach Beach, poet, author, and advocate for love and emotional awareness.
02:25 – 🧡 Why Love and Suffering Are Inseparable
Zach shares the spiritual insight that where there is love, suffering often follows—and why that’s not a bad thing.
06:45 – 📿 Wisdom from World Religions on Grief and Compassion
From Christianity to Buddhism, Zach explores how major traditions hold space for suffering and the sacredness of compassion.
10:38 – 💭 Understanding Compassion vs. Empathy
The 4 elements of compassion and why simply “feeling what others feel” isn’t enough to truly help.
15:21 – 🙏 Why Trying to Fix Grief Can Be Harmful
We discuss the danger of rushing others through grief—and the healing power of presence and witnessing.
20:52 – 🧘♂️ The Role of Mindfulness in Holding Pain
How mindfulness helps us navigate the storms of emotion with grace and self-compassion.
25:10 – 🌌 Brian’s Personal Grief Journey
Brian opens up about losing Shayna and how that heartbreak became the ground for deeper spiritual growth.
30:44 – 🔥 Suffering as a Portal to Awakening
Zach shares how suffering can soften our hearts and make us more fully human.
36:12 – 👣 Learning to “Suffer Well”
What does it mean to be skillful in suffering? Zach explains how emotional maturity helps us carry pain with purpose.
41:36 – 💫 What Spiritual Teachers Get Right (and Wrong)
The difference between bypassing pain vs. transmuting it — and how spiritual growth requires emotional depth.
45:59 – 🕊️ Continuing Bonds After Death
We discuss maintaining a connection with our loved ones beyond physical life.
48:14 – 🧠 Tools for Emotional Resilience and Healing
Zach offers grounded, accessible tools for navigating grief, loss, and emotional overwhelm.
52:30 – ✨ Final Thoughts: Grief as a Gateway to Love
Closing reflections on how our deepest wounds can become doorways to deeper compassion and service.
54:42 – 📚 Learn More About Zach Beach
Where to find Zach’s books, courses, and podcast appearances. Love and Suffering: How Grief Awakens the Soul | Zach Beach on Compassion, Healing & Humanity](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/xSWWA0vJQjA/mqdefault.jpg)








