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So, this is a spontaneous and unscripted video. This was made in good faith so please don't take anything I say to great heart. If Abby Shapiro can 'come out' as conservative, I can 'come out' as apoliticalβ. I just need some time to heal, but I appreciate your patience as I embark on this journeyπ...
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro -- Defining who I am | Why I'm making this video
3:54 Myth 1
11:34 Myth 2
13:58 why I don't "love" people
16:38 Myth 3 | Why I'm friends with people who hold different moral & political views to me
22:21 Myth 4
25:30 The overuse of 'privilege' | Myth 5
30:28 Thank you to my Patrons!
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So, this is a spontaneous and unscripted video. This was made in good faith so please don't take anything I say to great heart. If Abby Shapiro can 'come out' as conservative, I can 'come out' as apoliticalβ. I just need some time to heal, but I appreciate your patience as I embark on this journeyπ...
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro -- Defining who I am | Why I'm making this video
3:54 Myth 1
11:34 Myth 2
13:58 why I don't "love" people
16:38 Myth 3 | Why I'm friends with people who hold different moral & political views to me
22:21 Myth 4
25:30 The overuse of 'privilege' | Myth 5
30:28 Thank you to my Patrons!
Thank you so very much for watching and supporting the channel! Let me know what you think about politics, etc., in the comments below. I love hearing from you and reading about your thoughts and experiences.
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![Men reject women too. Thats why Im celibate.
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β The Gottman Institute [https://www.gottman.com/]
β Why women file for divorce more than men [https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men]
β Hereβs the No. 1 thing that βdestroysβ relationships, say researchers who studied couples for 50 years [https://www.cnbc.com/2023/03/03/no-1-thing-that-destroys-relationships-say-psychology-researchers-who-studied-couples-for-50-years.html]
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Divorce statistics:
β https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2019/02/13/8-facts-about-love-and-marriage/
β https://ifstudies.org/blog/replicating-the-goldilocks-theory-of-marriage-and-divorce/
β https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/feb/22/slump-younger-people-marriage-protect-cohabiting-rights-england-wales#:~:text=Amid%20a%20continuing%20decline%20in,than%20there%20were%20in%202011.
β https://news.sky.com/story/divorce-applications-highest-for-decade-as-no-fault-law-change-brought-in-12707470
Women & divorce:
β https://group.legalandgeneral.com/zn/newsroom/press-releases/the-divorce-gap-women-see-incomes-fall-by-33-following-divorce-compared-to-just-18-for-men
β https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5992251/
https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men
β https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/divorce-facts_n_5575693
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/jan/25/divorce-women-research
Pensions information:
β https://ifs.org.uk/news/first-time-men-and-women-reaching-state-pension-age-now-have-similar-state-pension-incomes
β https://group.legalandgeneral.com/en/newsroom/press-releases/british-women-hit-by-gender-pension-gap-at-every-stage-of-career
Divorce rates statistics:
β https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/divorce/datasets/divorcesinenglandandwalesnumberofdivorcesageatdivorceandmaritalstatusbeforemarriage
β https://time.com/5434949/divorce-rate-children-marriage-benefits/
https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/51/2/587/169435/Breaking-Up-Is-Hard-to-Count-The-Rise-of-Divorce
β https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2019/02/13/8-facts-about-love-and-marriage/
β https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/03/27/divorce-is-actually-on-the-rise-and-its-the-baby-boomers-fault/
β https://divorce.com/blog/divorce-statistics/#:~:text=The%20average%20age%20for%20newly,first%20time%20is%20about%2043%25.
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β https://www.verywellmind.com/why-is-dating-so-hard-5220113#:~:text=Data%20shows%20that%20nearly%20half,adjusted%20to%20uncertainty%20and%20vulnerability.
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β https://www.vulture.com/article/dahmer-monster-netflix-series-review-true-crime.html [The Problem with Dahmer - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story]
β https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/81287562?source=35 [Dahmer: Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story]
β https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/emily-in-paris-and-the-rise-of-ambient-tv [Emily in Paris and the Rise of Ambient Television]
β https://warwickboar.shorthandstories.com/ambient-television-why-streaming-services-are-focusing-on-the-background/index.html [Ambient Television: Why Streaming Services are Focusing on the Background]
β https://time.com/5825475/true-crime-victim-families/
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