Raising kids, not controlling them @Simplefarmhouselife
Raising kids, not controlling them  @Simplefarmhouselife
Uploaded September 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
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Homeschooling isn’t just about academics.  It’s about shaping character, habits, and family culture in the everyday moments.  In this conversation with Erin from Gentle + Classical Press, we talk about what the early years can look like without the pressure of early academics, how to raise children who know how to use their free time well, and why consistency matters more than perfection.  You’ll hear encouragement for the overwhelmed mom, perspective on kids’ different personalities, and practical ways to build a gentle and classical foundation in your home. If you’re looking for fresh vision and tangible ideas for your homeschool days, this is an episode you won’t want to miss!
In this episode, we cover:
- Erin’s family life with four children, 15 years of homeschooling, and a business run alongside homesteading
- A shift from academic goals to discipleship, character development, and strong family habits
- The meaning of a “gentle and classical” approach, blending Charlotte Mason influence with classical education in a soft, approachable way
- Preschool years centered on scripture memory, virtues through song, habit training, and life skills, with limited academics before age six
- Encouragement for overwhelmed moms: God equips you for the children He gave you, one hard day won’t undo everything, and comparison online is misleading
- The role of children’s personalities in shaping both family dynamics and parental growth
- Homeschooling with a deeper purpose of individualized learning, supporting specific needs, and cultivating family culture
- Lessons learned from the early years, including the importance of consistency in habits and the danger of overemphasizing grades or peer influence
- Recognizing readiness for formal learning by watching attention spans, keeping lessons short, and letting children progress in their own time
- Homeschooled kids often learn to use free time creatively, developing projects and play rather than becoming bored or dependent on screens
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