Uploaded July 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
This week I’m flying solo (Erica’s out with food poisoning — send her love!) and diving into the delightful chaos of the internet’s reaction to our recent Taylor Swift take.
I unpack the Beyoncé comparisons, why I’m not here for the nonsense, and why I genuinely love making content that sparks convo.
Plus: thoughts on the motherhood penalty, a Love Island mess, and my personal top 5 live vocal performances of all time (shout out to Cynthia Erivo for the inspo).
It’s giving joy. It’s giving perspective. It’s giving one woman, one mic, and one very good time.
Subscribe for monthly bonus episodes patreon.com/2Queens2Crowns
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/ @iamkjmiller
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▬ VIDEO CONTENTS ▬
00:00 Introduction and Solo Episode Announcement
02:39 Engaging with Comments and Controversy
20:51 Discussion on Motherhood and the Motherhood Penalty
21:45 Addressing the Buffalo Soldier Shirt
25:53 Back to the Motherhood Penalty
27:42 Navigating Career and Parenthood
36:04 Pop Culture Commentary: Lauren Sánchez and Love Island
43:14 Vocal Performances: Celebrating the Best in Music
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📲 LET'S CONNECT
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References:
NYT Article: Motherhood Should Come with a Warning Label:
nytimes.com/2025/06/25/opinion/motherhood-penalty-career.html
Cierra Exits Love Island:
apnews.com/article/love-island-cierra-ortega-exits-377356df4eb101e3818150017ca2938d
Cynthia Erivo’s Top 7 vocal performances:
ew.com/cynthia-erivo-top-7-vocal-performances-sisqo-thong-song-11744743
KJ’s Top 5 Live Vocal Performances:
Kelly Clarkson:
youtube.com/watch?v=AtNc_AwzTDY&list=RDAtNc_AwzTDY&start_radio=1
Whitney Houston:
youtube.com/watch?v=_n9bxfxE25Y&list=RD_n9bxfxE25Y&start_radio=1
Beyoncé:
youtube.com/watch?v=ZelBd4k6k20&pp=0gcJCfwAo7VqN5tD
Sara Bareilles:
youtube.com/watch?v=EX7ZB15y1tc
Fantasia:
youtube.com/watch?v=jhCyrgK7vs0&list=RDjhCyrgK7vs0&start_radio=1
This week I’m flying solo (Erica’s out with food poisoning — send her love!) and diving into the delightful chaos of the internet’s reaction to our recent Taylor Swift take.
I unpack the Beyoncé comparisons, why I’m not here for the nonsense, and why I genuinely love making content that sparks convo.
Plus: thoughts on the motherhood penalty, a Love Island mess, and my personal top 5 live vocal performances of all time (shout out to Cynthia Erivo for the inspo).
It’s giving joy. It’s giving perspective. It’s giving one woman, one mic, and one very good time.
Subscribe for monthly bonus episodes patreon.com/2Queens2Crowns
💡 SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE💡
/ @iamkjmiller
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▬ VIDEO CONTENTS ▬
00:00 Introduction and Solo Episode Announcement
02:39 Engaging with Comments and Controversy
20:51 Discussion on Motherhood and the Motherhood Penalty
21:45 Addressing the Buffalo Soldier Shirt
25:53 Back to the Motherhood Penalty
27:42 Navigating Career and Parenthood
36:04 Pop Culture Commentary: Lauren Sánchez and Love Island
43:14 Vocal Performances: Celebrating the Best in Music
---
📲 LET'S CONNECT
TikTok: / tiktok.com/@iam_kjmiller
tiktok.com/@leta_bitchknow
tiktok.com/@2queens2crowns
📧 JOIN MY MAILING LIST: https://mailchi.mp/ef53db75073f/join-my-mailing-list
📧 EMAIL ME: kidar@kjmiller.co
References:
NYT Article: Motherhood Should Come with a Warning Label:
nytimes.com/2025/06/25/opinion/motherhood-penalty-career.html
Cierra Exits Love Island:
apnews.com/article/love-island-cierra-ortega-exits-377356df4eb101e3818150017ca2938d
Cynthia Erivo’s Top 7 vocal performances:
ew.com/cynthia-erivo-top-7-vocal-performances-sisqo-thong-song-11744743
KJ’s Top 5 Live Vocal Performances:
Kelly Clarkson:
youtube.com/watch?v=AtNc_AwzTDY&list=RDAtNc_AwzTDY&start_radio=1
Whitney Houston:
youtube.com/watch?v=_n9bxfxE25Y&list=RD_n9bxfxE25Y&start_radio=1
Beyoncé:
youtube.com/watch?v=ZelBd4k6k20&pp=0gcJCfwAo7VqN5tD
Sara Bareilles:
youtube.com/watch?v=EX7ZB15y1tc
Fantasia:
youtube.com/watch?v=jhCyrgK7vs0&list=RDjhCyrgK7vs0&start_radio=1
