Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
“You know Elcid, and they tie him to the horse in the very last scene? They’re just going to tie me into a raft and shoot me down the river.” – Patricia “Patso” Stow
Retired river guide Patricia “Patso” Stow is that rare mix of nurturing and no-nonsense, foul-mouthed with the biggest heart. A teacher, mentor, mother and friend, Patso sets the example of what a life well-lived can be.
Don’t Miss Patso: A River Life. | Full film premieres Mother’s Day 2026.
“You know Elcid, and they tie him to the horse in the very last scene? They’re just going to tie me into a raft and shoot me down the river.” – Patricia “Patso” Stow
Retired river guide Patricia “Patso” Stow is that rare mix of nurturing and no-nonsense, foul-mouthed with the biggest heart. A teacher, mentor, mother and friend, Patso sets the example of what a life well-lived can be.
Don’t Miss Patso: A River Life. | Full film premieres Mother’s Day 2026.







![Patso - A River Life
“I can’t imagine not having that [the river] in my life, ever. It has formed my life.” – Patricia Patso Stow
In 1979, Patrica “Patso” Stow joined the (mostly-male) crew of guides on California’s Stanislaus River. Her life—and the northern California boating community—would never be the same.
From guiding on the Tuolumne to meeting her husband Tim, learning to kayak alongside her teenaged sons at age 58 to tackling the SF American with her “posse”, Patso is a force of nature as fierce and nurturing as the rivers that continue to shape her life.
“My name is Patso Stow, I’m mommy, river mommy, wife, play companion, part of a posse, former teacher, Rock of Gibraltar for some….”
Filmed and directed by Greg Cairns
Featuring: Patso Stow
With support from NRS & Jack’s Plastic Welding Patso - A River Life](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_hc_ngkvT5M/mqdefault.jpg)


