Uploaded October 2020 | Updated September 2026, 1 day ago
Over a years difference...I found the good ones - after years of fighting and crying and wanting to die I finally don’t have to feel pain. All I ever had to do was remove myself from the equation, stop surrounding myself with toxicity and allow myself the breathe. Once I did that I realised why I chose to stay, why I didn’t give up even though I had no hope. I now realise there is more to life then suffering...because I got up and did something to help myself. I stopped waiting for other people to fix themselves for me and instead fixed me for me.
Help yourself first. Never put anyone before you unless you are willing to bleed yourself dry for them. If you wouldn’t die for them, don’t put them before you.
Find those people you would bleed for and never let them go. They are the ones who get to be apart of your happiness.
Do not let people who hurt you share your happiness. Don’t let people who hurt you feed off your achievements.
Find people who will love and share your happiness with them.
Only people who make you happy should be able to be apart of that happiness.
If you keep letting people who hurt you into your happy moments they aren’t going to mean anything, down the road you’ll look at what should’ve been one of the best moments of your life and you’ll feel hatred because the happiness was sucked out by someone who hurt you.
Don’t let your happiness go to waste...please...
Over a years difference...I found the good ones - after years of fighting and crying and wanting to die I finally don’t have to feel pain. All I ever had to do was remove myself from the equation, stop surrounding myself with toxicity and allow myself the breathe. Once I did that I realised why I chose to stay, why I didn’t give up even though I had no hope. I now realise there is more to life then suffering...because I got up and did something to help myself. I stopped waiting for other people to fix themselves for me and instead fixed me for me.
Help yourself first. Never put anyone before you unless you are willing to bleed yourself dry for them. If you wouldn’t die for them, don’t put them before you.
Find those people you would bleed for and never let them go. They are the ones who get to be apart of your happiness.
Do not let people who hurt you share your happiness. Don’t let people who hurt you feed off your achievements.
Find people who will love and share your happiness with them.
Only people who make you happy should be able to be apart of that happiness.
If you keep letting people who hurt you into your happy moments they aren’t going to mean anything, down the road you’ll look at what should’ve been one of the best moments of your life and you’ll feel hatred because the happiness was sucked out by someone who hurt you.
Don’t let your happiness go to waste...please...
