Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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Rufus turned nine, so I drove to Lagos for a €45 red velvet cake I'm not allowed to eat. Almost broke down on the way. Also talked myself through the inner critic, why YouTube is all doom at the moment, and the job I'm three weeks into trying to get.

Wasn't going to upload this weekend, then remembered I said I would., so here's a rushed one with no plan and no script.

Thanks for still being here for the scaled-back ones.

Stef x