Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 4 hours ago
Dr. Rahmani is one of the most controversial psychologists out there and in this moment she completely flipped my understanding of boundaries.
We're told to set boundaries with toxic people. But she said something that stopped me: if you set a boundary with a narcissist, you're literally handing them the playbook on how to hurt you.
Boundaries are an inside job. You don't announce them. You quietly make a decision for yourself and stop performing it for them.
Because if they know what you value, what hurts you, what triggers you, they'll aim there. Every time.
If you've ever felt like the more you protect yourself, the more exposed you become, this is for you.
Comment BOUNDARIES below and I'll DM you the full episode with Dr. Rahmani.
#CraigSiegel #TheCLSExperience #DrRahmani #Narcissism #ToxicRelationships #Boundaries #EmotionalAbuse #MentalHealth #Healing #Relationships #SelfAwareness #SelfProtection #Psychology #Wellness
Dr. Rahmani is one of the most controversial psychologists out there and in this moment she completely flipped my understanding of boundaries.
We're told to set boundaries with toxic people. But she said something that stopped me: if you set a boundary with a narcissist, you're literally handing them the playbook on how to hurt you.
Boundaries are an inside job. You don't announce them. You quietly make a decision for yourself and stop performing it for them.
Because if they know what you value, what hurts you, what triggers you, they'll aim there. Every time.
If you've ever felt like the more you protect yourself, the more exposed you become, this is for you.
Comment BOUNDARIES below and I'll DM you the full episode with Dr. Rahmani.
#CraigSiegel #TheCLSExperience #DrRahmani #Narcissism #ToxicRelationships #Boundaries #EmotionalAbuse #MentalHealth #Healing #Relationships #SelfAwareness #SelfProtection #Psychology #Wellness
