Narcissists Frenemy: His/her Body (Psypedia Conference, Russia) @samvaknin
Narcissists Frenemy: His/her Body (Psypedia Conference, Russia)  @samvaknin
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Narcissist weaponizes and instrumentalizes his/her body

Somatic vs. cerebral narcissist

Othering failure: body fixation

Body as a shrine, sacred ground, fantasy (paracosm)

Auto-erotism vs. promiscuity (dark triad)

Body as seat of trauma ("the body keeps the score"): somatization (conversion), somatoform disorders

Body objectified, fluid, controlled, maxxed (e.g., plastic surgery)

Body as bait (narcissistic supply) via flagellation, mortification (proscial narcissism), endurance (athletics, sports)

Signaling: body as plaimpsest (e.g., in-group or gang affiliation tattoos)

Bodybuilding, martial arts, sexual conquests

Sartorial: normcore vs. ostentatious

Body idealized, devalued, but always persecutory (aging, disease, disability, death)

Body needs to be placated, maintained, renovated

Ambivamence, angst (body is anxiogenic): hypochondriasis (illness anxiety disorder)

OCD (e.g., injurious, ritualistic, excercise regimen (anankastia)

Dissociated body (estrangement), depersonalization

Narcissist with chronic illness, disability, or injury:

Schizotypal reaction (magical thinking)

Narcissistic rage

Schizoid reaction

Paranoid reaction or ideation

Masochistic reaction (self-punitive purging)

Exaggerated helplessness (control from the bottom, emotional blackmail)

Control freakery

Sadism

Body postures of the narcissist:

Hypervigilant-paranoid

Pleading-expectant

Dismissive-contemptuous

Superior-boastful

Impatient-scornful

Membership-gravitas

Converting-empathic

Observer-detached

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