Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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Becoming a mom didn’t just change my schedule — it changed my identity.
Today I’m talking about redefining myself in my 40s, motherhood, aging, style, and finding joy in evolving.

In this video, we’re chatting about:

• Losing and rediscovering your sense of self
• Motherhood and identity shifts
• Aging pressure & social media noise
• Style evolution (and yes… rented sweaters)
• Making new friends as a mom
• Finding joy in the messy middle

Last week I shared about coming back to YouTube.
This week feels like coming back to myself.

If you want the more thoughtful, less ramble-y version of these conversations, I write over on Substack - substack.com/@lisbug

Let’s keep the comments a space where we support each other. You are not alone in evolving.

— Lisa

Thanks for being here. Truly.

Instagram: @lisaschwartz
Substack: substack.com/@lisbug