Love Is Violent; Love Is Mundane @RahulSam

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"As we saw from André and Dorine Gorz, love is violent, violent to the point of suicide. But also, as we saw in my grandparents, love is mundane, mundane to the of being unnoticeable."

Original piece: theunhappyman.substack.com/p/love-is-violent-love-is-mundane

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James Cameron - Titanic (1997)

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$Love Is Violent; Love Is Mundane As we saw from André and Dorine Gorz, love is violent, violent to the point of suicide. But also, as we saw in my grandparents, love is mundane, mundane to the of being unnoticeable. Original piece: https://theunhappyman.substack.com/p/love-is-violent-love-is-mundane {Podcast} Substack: https://rsampod.substack.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4ryEqjut4r6SMtfxLdM1Le Anchor: https://anchor.fm/rahul-samaranayake {Website} https://rahulsam.me/ {Social Media} https://twitter.com/trsam97 https://www.instagram.com/name_is_rahul/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/rahul-samaranayake-981a9315b/ {Images & Videos used} James Cameron - Titanic (1997) If the ideas I discuss in this channel evoke your interest, consider visiting https://theunhappyman.substack.com/ Copyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, education and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statutes that might otherwise be infringing. If you are or represent the copyright owner of materials used in this video and have a problem with the use of the related material, please email me at mrrahulmaxcontact@gmail.com, and we can sort it out. Thank you.$ $Effective Java Item 7: Eliminate Obsolete Object References My disquisition on Item 7 of Effective Java by Joshua Bloch: Eliminate Obsolete Object References. I also cover garbage collection, WeakHashMaps and Weak References. GitHub repository: https://github.com/TRahulSam1997/Effective-Java-Joshua-Bloch/tree/main/src/main/java/Item7 Joshua Blochs GitHub repository: https://github.com/jbloch/effective-java-3e-source-code/tree/master/src/effectivejava/chapter2/item7 Book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Effective-Java-Joshua-Bloch/dp/0134685997/ Full playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcJ6nqGscKrd2UxeLTY-fIr0dzdMIOHAK {Podcast} Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4ryEqjut4r6SMtfxLdM1Le Anchor: https://anchor.fm/rahul-samaranayake {Website} https://rahulsam.me/ {Social Media} https://twitter.com/trsam97 https://www.minds.com/trahulsam/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/rahul-samaranayake-981a9315b/ https://trahulsam.medium.com/ https://www.instagram.com/name_is_rahul/ Facebook Group: https://goo.gl/JoL9CA {Reference Links & Resources For Further Study} https://java-programming.mooc.fi/part-5/4-objects-and-references https://www.baeldung.com/java-int-char-cannot-be-dereferenced Garbage Collection Algorithms: Mark Sweep, Generation Hypothesis and JIT code injection - https://youtu.be/ZhbIReLe-r8 Garbage Collection Algorithms: Concurrent Mark Sweep, Fragmentation and Compaction, Lost Writes - https://youtu.be/trkYGEGT6_w C Programming: What does Dereferencing a Pointer Mean? - https://youtu.be/VvHDY5STNhU https://stackoverflow.com/a/67656111/6367109 https://docs.oracle.com/en/java/javase/11/docs/api/java.base/java/lang/ref/WeakReference.html https://stackoverflow.com/questions/299659/whats-the-difference-between-softreference-and-weakreference-in-java https://wiki.c2.com/?CanonicalizedMapping https://www.philosophicalgeek.com/2014/09/03/practical-uses-of-weakreference/ https://www.geeksforgeeks.org/scheduledthreadpoolexecutor-class-in-java/ https://docs.oracle.com/javase/8/docs/api/java/util/LinkedHashMap.html#removeEldestEntry-java.util.Map.Entry- https://www.geeksforgeeks.org/asynchronous-synchronous-callbacks-java/ How to garbage collect callbacks with weak references in Java? - https://stackoverflow.com/q/74373440/6367109 https://stackoverflow.com/questions/65967486/android-difference-between-callback-and-listener https://www.baeldung.com/java-profilers If the ideas I discuss in this channel evoke your interest, consider visiting https://theunhappyman.substack.com/ Copyright Disclaimer under section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, education and research. 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