Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
The Lindsay Clancy and Travis Decker cases are both almost impossible to comprehend.
Six innocent children lost their lives, and in both cases serious questions have been raised about the mental health of the parent responsible or accused of their deaths.
But the public reaction to these two cases has been remarkably different.
In this video, I compare how mental illness, personal responsibility, compassion and accountability have been discussed in each case, and ask a difficult but necessary question:
Why does our response seem to change depending on whether the parent is a mother or a father?
This isn't about diminishing the seriousness of mental illness or deciding either case based on social-media opinion. It's about whether we are willing to apply the same standards of compassion and accountability to everyone.
Most importantly, we remember the six children whose lives were lost: Paityn, Evelyn, Olivia, Cora, Dawson and Callan.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health or emotional distress, help is available. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 or contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline online. Support is free, confidential and available 24/7.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988lifeline.org
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Men Need To Be Heard, is dedicated to bringing awareness to the issues men and boys face in today's society. Our goal is to help break the double standards and myths that surround boys and end the bias against them.
Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
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The Lindsay Clancy and Travis Decker cases are both almost impossible to comprehend.
Six innocent children lost their lives, and in both cases serious questions have been raised about the mental health of the parent responsible or accused of their deaths.
But the public reaction to these two cases has been remarkably different.
In this video, I compare how mental illness, personal responsibility, compassion and accountability have been discussed in each case, and ask a difficult but necessary question:
Why does our response seem to change depending on whether the parent is a mother or a father?
This isn't about diminishing the seriousness of mental illness or deciding either case based on social-media opinion. It's about whether we are willing to apply the same standards of compassion and accountability to everyone.
Most importantly, we remember the six children whose lives were lost: Paityn, Evelyn, Olivia, Cora, Dawson and Callan.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health or emotional distress, help is available. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 or contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline online. Support is free, confidential and available 24/7.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988lifeline.org
👀 Watch This Next: youtu.be/7u7hEW24vr0
🔴 Join me LIVE every Wednesday from 4:00-5:30pm ET over on @TheBoyMeetsSquirrelShow where my partner Lindsay aka @squirrelygirl1988 talk about the issues men and boys face in today's modern society. Come be part of the conversation, have a few laughs and learn more about how you can help bring change to the world
Here are links to even more great stuff!
📘 Check Out My Best Selling Book: Unveiling The Forgotten: The Plight of Male Victims of Domestic Violence & How We Can Help Them
Here: unveilingtheforgotten.com
👬 Join the Brotherhood of Men: Our Private Members Only Community Where You'll Get Access to Exclusive Videos & More Here: patreon.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
⚡ Support The Channel & Get Cool Merch: men-need-to-be-heard.creator-spring.com
🕸️ Visit Our Website: menneedtobeheard.com
Connect with Me On Social Media:
📱 Tik Tok: tiktok.com/@menneedtobeheard3
📱 Instagram: instagram.com/menneedtobeheard
📱 Twitter: twitter.com/MenNeed2BeHeard
📱 Facebook: facebook.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
📱 Rumble: rumble.com/user/MenNeedToBeHeard
This video was created & edited using Filmora: Get a Free Trial and 10% off by clicking here: filmora.wondershare.com/fission/invite?share_code=1Tiu4i6F0qY&referral_id=365
Men Need To Be Heard, is dedicated to bringing awareness to the issues men and boys face in today's society. Our goal is to help break the double standards and myths that surround boys and end the bias against them.
Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
Please Note: Some of these links go to one of my websites and some are affiliate links where I'll earn a small commission if you make a purchase at no additional cost to you.
