Uploaded November 2015 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
This is #31 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or--more often--misconceptions about asexuality.
This video features a YouTube commenter who opened with a declaration that we should stop whining and get laid. The conversation then devolved into blaming me for not getting the joke, refusing to apologize, telling me I needed to get professional help because I insist I'm being attacked, and the usual demand that asexuality education be delivered gently and politely--even to people who chose to start the conversation with insults.
This is #31 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or--more often--misconceptions about asexuality.
This video features a YouTube commenter who opened with a declaration that we should stop whining and get laid. The conversation then devolved into blaming me for not getting the joke, refusing to apologize, telling me I needed to get professional help because I insist I'm being attacked, and the usual demand that asexuality education be delivered gently and politely--even to people who chose to start the conversation with insults.


![Letters to an Asexual #18 (Ill convert you! Call me now, sweet meat!)
This is #18 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or more often misconceptions about asexuality.
This letter-writer propositioned me on OKCupid with some vile commentary about how asexuality isnt real, that I was too sexy to not have sex and was wasting my life, and that he wanted to offer me sex for my own benefit but only if I called him in the next six days to start [my] new adventure. As you might imagine, I was thrilled at this prospect and thanked him profusely for such a selfless, eye-opening opportunity. Not. Letters to an Asexual #18 (Ill convert you! Call me now, sweet meat!)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/v5e4zsdRbqQ/mqdefault.jpg)







