Letters to an Asexual #28 (Autism, Disability, Illness, Abuse, and More!) @swankivy
Letters to an Asexual #28 (Autism, Disability, Illness, Abuse, and More!)  @swankivy
Uploaded July 2015 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
This is #28 of a series in which I read correspondence between me and people who have questions, comments, or--more often--misconceptions about asexuality.

This video discusses an autistic person who felt their autism diagnosis rendered their asexuality inauthentic, and why I think autism does not invalidate asexuality or vice versa. I explain why and extend that concept to other frequently invoked invalidations for asexuality like disability, illness, medication, and abuse.
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Letters to an Asexual #28 (Autism, Disability, Illness, Abuse, and More!)

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