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“How come?” is a very, very common English expression that is important to learn. It is used all the time, but many textbooks and teachers don't teach it, because it is informal. In this simple video, I will teach you what “how come” means, how to use it, and when to use it. After watching, take the quiz at engvid.com/how-come to make sure you've got it!
TRANSCRIPT
Hello. My name is Emma, and in today's video I am going to teach you a very important expression for conversation. That expression is: "How come?" It's a very popular expression you may see in movies, on TV, or in conversation with English speakers. But it's a very good one to know because we do use it a lot.
So, what does "How come?" mean? Okay, well, first I have a question for you. I have here two sentences. "Why did you miss your plane?" and "How come you missed your plane?" What is the difference in meaning between these two sentences? Maybe you already know. Okay? So take a guess. The difference in meaning is actually they mean the same thing. "How come?" is another way to say "Why?". It's just a little bit more informal. Okay? So if you're writing, you're going to use "Why?", but if you're speaking you can use both. Okay? "How come?" is informal, it's an informal way to say "Why?" And so, by informal, I mean you use it with your friends, with, you know, people you're talking to on the street, but you wouldn't use it in an essay. Okay? Or for school.
Okay, so: "How come?" means: "Why?" So, when we're asking: "How come?" what we're asking about is... we want to know why something happened or the reasons why something happened. Okay? So, for example: "How come you missed your plane?" You know, a reason might be: "Oh, I was late getting to the airport" or "I slept in." Okay? So these would be the answers to a question like: "How come?" So, a lot of the time, teachers will ask this question. "You were late for class today. How come?" That means the teacher wants to know why you were late for class. So now let's look at the grammar of "How come?" and how we can use it in a sentence.
Okay, so again, "How come?" is an informal way to say: "Why?" So, we often use it in conversation. Now let's look at the grammar of "How come?" and how we make a sentence with "How come?" So, I have here: "How come", which is at the beginning, and then we have plus the subject. A subject is... It can be: "I", "you", "he", "she", "they", "we", or it can also be a thing, a place, or a person, but it's the doer of a sentence. Then we have the verb. So, for example: "play", "take", "listen", "sing", "eat", these are all verbs. And then finally we have an object, which comes after the verb in regular English sentences and usually those can be people, they can be places, they can be things, so these are the objects. If this is confusing, let's look at some examples, maybe that will help.
So, for example: "How come you"-is the subject-"take"-is the verb, and the object is-"the bus"? "How come you take the bus?" This means the same thing as: "Why do you take the bus?" So, here I actually have this written: "Why do you take the bus?" And you'll actually notice "How come" is easier in terms of grammar than "Why". If you look here: "Why do you take the bus?" you have this word, here: "do". Okay? In other sentences we say: "Why does he" or "Why didn't he", but there's always something like: "do", "does", "did", "didn't" here with "Why". And a lot of students forget to put this here. A lot of students will say: "Why you take the bus?" But this is not correct English. For "Why" we always need something here. Now, the nice thing about "How come" is you don't need this. Okay? If you look at "How come", if you can make an English sentence: "you take the bus", you can change this into "Why" just by adding "How come". So, the structure of this is just like a regular English sentence. We have the subject, the verb, and the object, and then we just add "How come" at the front of it.
So let's look at another example: "How come Toronto isn't the capital of Canada?" So, again, we have: "How come", we have "Toronto" which is the subject, we have "isn't" which is the verb, and we have "the capital", which is the object. So, if you want to make a regular sentence, I would just say: "Toronto isn't the capital", we can just add "How come" to this, and then it becomes a question, meaning: "Why isn't Toronto the capital?"
"How come John didn't come?" Okay? So here we have "How come" at the beginning, "John" which is the subject, and "didn't come", because it's negative form we have "didn't" here, so this is the past, past tense. "Didn't come" is the verb. Okay? This sentence doesn't have an object. Not all sentences in English need objects. The main thing is that you have a subject and a verb. Okay, so that might be a little confusing for you.
“How come?” is a very, very common English expression that is important to learn. It is used all the time, but many textbooks and teachers don't teach it, because it is informal. In this simple video, I will teach you what “how come” means, how to use it, and when to use it. After watching, take the quiz at engvid.com/how-come to make sure you've got it!
TRANSCRIPT
Hello. My name is Emma, and in today's video I am going to teach you a very important expression for conversation. That expression is: "How come?" It's a very popular expression you may see in movies, on TV, or in conversation with English speakers. But it's a very good one to know because we do use it a lot.
So, what does "How come?" mean? Okay, well, first I have a question for you. I have here two sentences. "Why did you miss your plane?" and "How come you missed your plane?" What is the difference in meaning between these two sentences? Maybe you already know. Okay? So take a guess. The difference in meaning is actually they mean the same thing. "How come?" is another way to say "Why?". It's just a little bit more informal. Okay? So if you're writing, you're going to use "Why?", but if you're speaking you can use both. Okay? "How come?" is informal, it's an informal way to say "Why?" And so, by informal, I mean you use it with your friends, with, you know, people you're talking to on the street, but you wouldn't use it in an essay. Okay? Or for school.
Okay, so: "How come?" means: "Why?" So, when we're asking: "How come?" what we're asking about is... we want to know why something happened or the reasons why something happened. Okay? So, for example: "How come you missed your plane?" You know, a reason might be: "Oh, I was late getting to the airport" or "I slept in." Okay? So these would be the answers to a question like: "How come?" So, a lot of the time, teachers will ask this question. "You were late for class today. How come?" That means the teacher wants to know why you were late for class. So now let's look at the grammar of "How come?" and how we can use it in a sentence.
Okay, so again, "How come?" is an informal way to say: "Why?" So, we often use it in conversation. Now let's look at the grammar of "How come?" and how we make a sentence with "How come?" So, I have here: "How come", which is at the beginning, and then we have plus the subject. A subject is... It can be: "I", "you", "he", "she", "they", "we", or it can also be a thing, a place, or a person, but it's the doer of a sentence. Then we have the verb. So, for example: "play", "take", "listen", "sing", "eat", these are all verbs. And then finally we have an object, which comes after the verb in regular English sentences and usually those can be people, they can be places, they can be things, so these are the objects. If this is confusing, let's look at some examples, maybe that will help.
So, for example: "How come you"-is the subject-"take"-is the verb, and the object is-"the bus"? "How come you take the bus?" This means the same thing as: "Why do you take the bus?" So, here I actually have this written: "Why do you take the bus?" And you'll actually notice "How come" is easier in terms of grammar than "Why". If you look here: "Why do you take the bus?" you have this word, here: "do". Okay? In other sentences we say: "Why does he" or "Why didn't he", but there's always something like: "do", "does", "did", "didn't" here with "Why". And a lot of students forget to put this here. A lot of students will say: "Why you take the bus?" But this is not correct English. For "Why" we always need something here. Now, the nice thing about "How come" is you don't need this. Okay? If you look at "How come", if you can make an English sentence: "you take the bus", you can change this into "Why" just by adding "How come". So, the structure of this is just like a regular English sentence. We have the subject, the verb, and the object, and then we just add "How come" at the front of it.
So let's look at another example: "How come Toronto isn't the capital of Canada?" So, again, we have: "How come", we have "Toronto" which is the subject, we have "isn't" which is the verb, and we have "the capital", which is the object. So, if you want to make a regular sentence, I would just say: "Toronto isn't the capital", we can just add "How come" to this, and then it becomes a question, meaning: "Why isn't Toronto the capital?"
"How come John didn't come?" Okay? So here we have "How come" at the beginning, "John" which is the subject, and "didn't come", because it's negative form we have "didn't" here, so this is the past, past tense. "Didn't come" is the verb. Okay? This sentence doesn't have an object. Not all sentences in English need objects. The main thing is that you have a subject and a verb. Okay, so that might be a little confusing for you.

![EASY ENGLISH CONVERSATION: “Let’s...”, “How about...”, “Why don’t we...?”
Learn three super-easy and very common conversation expressions: “Let’s”, “how about”, and “why don’t we”. You can start using these in conversations today! These expressions are commonly used in social situations. We use them when we are making plans with people. In this lesson, I will give examples of each of the expressions and you will also learn the grammar behind them. After watching, you can take the quiz to practice what you’ve learned. How about it? https://www.engvid.com/easy-english-conversation-lets-how-about-why-dont-we/
Watch my NEW video to learn 6 easy conversation responses: https://youtu.be/D9kcf6yzQiU
In this lesson:
0:00 Introduction
0:31 Lets
2:42 Lets not...
4:00 lets or lets?
4:53 How about we...?
6:40 How about: Grammar
8:34 How about in the negative
9:10 Why dont we...?
11:01 Why dont we...: Grammar
TRANSCRIPT:
Hello.
My name is Emma, and today I am going to teach you three easy expressions we use in everyday
English.
Im going to teach you lets, I will teach you how about, and I will also teach you
why dont we.
So these are important expressions.
Ill teach you the grammar as well as how we use them.
So lets get started.
The first one were going to look at is lets.
We use lets when we are making a suggestion.
We are presenting a plan or idea to another person.
So my first example is Lets go to the park.
What does this mean?
Well, lets means let us, so it means we.
Let us go to the park.
Lets go to the park.
And it just means my suggestion is we go to the park together.
Now its really important that you notice this little apostrophe here, because without
this apostrophe, lets has a different meaning.
Ill explain that in a moment.
My second example is Lets have lunch at 1pm.
What does this mean?
Well, it means my suggestion or my idea is we should have lunch at 1pm together.
So lets talk about the grammar of lets.
So when we use lets, again, it means let us, its followed by the base form of a verb.
So what does that mean?
Well, the verb does not have ed, it does not have ing, it does not have a conjugation;
its just the base form.
So lets look at some examples.
I could say Lets watch a movie.
Watch is the base form of the verb to watch.
I could say Lets see a show.
See is the base form of the verb to see.
Lets do art.
Do is the base form of the verb to do.
Or Lets eat a piece of cake.
And so, again, these are all suggestions on what you want to do with another person together.
So can you make a negative sentence with lets?
You sure can.
If you add not, you can make a negative sentence or a negative suggestion.
So for example, Lets not, and then you have the base of the verb.
Imagine somebody says to you, Hey, lets eat 30 hot dogs tonight.
I dont think thats a good idea, so you might say, Hmm, lets not eat 30 hot dogs together.
Or maybe somebody says, Hey, lets go camping tonight.
If you dont like camping, you might say, Lets not go camping tonight.
Lets do something else instead.
Maybe somebody wants to pull an all-nighter, stay up all night studying English at the
library.
You might say, Hmm, lets not study English all night at the library.
So these are some examples of how to use not.
So, again, it follows lets, and lets stands for let us, so Lets not do this.
So very important, many people make mistakes with lets.
Specifically, they confuse these two words, lets and lets.
You might think, Oh, well, arent these the same?
They have the same pronunciation.
Thats true, but the difference is this apostrophe.
Lets with no apostrophe means allow, so I can say, Oh, my mother lets me cook
turkey at Thanksgiving.
Or, The kids parents let him use his iPad all the time.
So it can mean allow.
This is different than lets with an apostrophe, which means let us, which is what weve
just talked about.
It means to give a suggestion.
All right, so lets now talk about how about.
How about is another way to make a suggestion for a plan or idea.
I can say, How about we learn English together?
So this means Im suggesting we learn English together.
Its my idea or my suggestion for a plan.
Heres another example.
How about we watch a movie tonight?
One thing I can also say about this is that sometimes in conversation, people will say
how bout.
So even though when we write it, its how about, you might actually hear a native
speaker say, How bout?
How bout we learn English tonight?
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