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Blame-shifting: A general tactic where a person redirects responsibility or guilt away from themselves and onto an innocent person.
Projection: An unconscious defense mechanism where a person denies their own unacceptable faults, mistakes, or bad behaviors and accuses someone else of doing them instead.
Gaslighting: A form of emotional manipulation designed to make you doubt your memory, perception, or sanity by aggressively denying facts and rewriting the narrative of what happened.
Deflection: A defense mechanism used to dodge accountability by changing the subject or pointing out flaws in the other person instead.
Scapegoating: Singling out a specific person to bear the total blame for problems, conflicts, or faults that they did not cause.
Explore a detailed breakdown of defense mechanisms on Psych Central.
Read about emotional abuse patterns with the One Love Foundation.
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Blame-shifting: A general tactic where a person redirects responsibility or guilt away from themselves and onto an innocent person.
Projection: An unconscious defense mechanism where a person denies their own unacceptable faults, mistakes, or bad behaviors and accuses someone else of doing them instead.
Gaslighting: A form of emotional manipulation designed to make you doubt your memory, perception, or sanity by aggressively denying facts and rewriting the narrative of what happened.
Deflection: A defense mechanism used to dodge accountability by changing the subject or pointing out flaws in the other person instead.
Scapegoating: Singling out a specific person to bear the total blame for problems, conflicts, or faults that they did not cause.
Explore a detailed breakdown of defense mechanisms on Psych Central.
Read about emotional abuse patterns with the One Love Foundation.
If you'd like, let me know:
Is this happening in a personal relationship, at work, or with family?
Are they also trying to make you doubt your memory of the events?
I can help you figure out how to respond or set a boundary.

Psych Central
How Narcissists Blame and Accuse Others for Their Own Shortcomings
People with strong narcissistic tendencies and other dark personality traits tend to blame others for their own bad behavior. If they are lying, then they will ...


One Love Foundation
7 Signs of Gaslighting - One Love Foundation
They turn the story around to make it seem like you are at fault, deflecting attention and blame away from them to make you feel guilty. This type of emotional ...


Citron Hennessey Therapy
Why We Blame Others: Psychology & How to Stop | Citron Hennessey
Mar 5, 2025 — Blaming someone else for your problems is called deflection. It's a defense mechanism intended to preserve your self-esteem by painting yourself as the victim o...


Time Magazine
Gaslighting, Narcissist, and More Psychology Terms You're Misusing
It's often used to describe any act that's insensitive, a lie, or a difference of opinion. However, the term has been misconstrued in recent years. True gasligh...


Quora
What is the word or term for when someone is blaming you for being ...
August 27, 2021 — Terms for Blame Reversal: The primary terms for blaming someone for a fault that the accuser actually possesses are 'projection' (an unconscious defense mechani...
YouTube·The Wellbeing Show
1:06
Why Blaming Others Feels Easier | Scapegoats and Systems
AI can make mistakes, so double-check responses
