Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
It's easy to find what's wrong with people.
The awkward thing they said.
The mistake they made.
The habit that drives you crazy.
The flaw that feels impossible to ignore.
Criticism is easy. Most people can do it.
What takes courage is choosing to look deeper.
One of the greatest gifts Scott has given me is that he always saw more in me than my mistakes. He saw the awkwardness, the insecurities, the communication failures, and all the ways I still needed to grow.
But instead of defining me by those things, he guided me through them.
He didn't ignore my flaws. He helped me understand them.
He didn't shame me for my blind spots. He communicated with me, challenged me, and loved me through them.
Being loved that way changes you.
When someone consistently sees the good in you, even when you're struggling to see it in yourself, you start learning how to do the same for other people.
You become less interested in judging and more interested in understanding.
Less focused on flaws and more focused on potential.
Less concerned with being right and more concerned with being compassionate.
The older I get, the more I realize that finding fault in people isn't a talent. Finding the good in them is.
And sometimes the reason we're able to see the good in others is because someone first chose to see it in us. ❤️
It's easy to find what's wrong with people.
The awkward thing they said.
The mistake they made.
The habit that drives you crazy.
The flaw that feels impossible to ignore.
Criticism is easy. Most people can do it.
What takes courage is choosing to look deeper.
One of the greatest gifts Scott has given me is that he always saw more in me than my mistakes. He saw the awkwardness, the insecurities, the communication failures, and all the ways I still needed to grow.
But instead of defining me by those things, he guided me through them.
He didn't ignore my flaws. He helped me understand them.
He didn't shame me for my blind spots. He communicated with me, challenged me, and loved me through them.
Being loved that way changes you.
When someone consistently sees the good in you, even when you're struggling to see it in yourself, you start learning how to do the same for other people.
You become less interested in judging and more interested in understanding.
Less focused on flaws and more focused on potential.
Less concerned with being right and more concerned with being compassionate.
The older I get, the more I realize that finding fault in people isn't a talent. Finding the good in them is.
And sometimes the reason we're able to see the good in others is because someone first chose to see it in us. ❤️
