Uploaded June 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 days ago
If you've ever felt conflicted watching hauls while trying to shop less – or wondered how to enjoy beauty content without falling into the overconsumption trap – this one’s for you.
✨ We’ll talk:
How creators buy differently (and why)
How to adopt the Adagio mindset as a viewer
What “intentional indulgence” really looks like
Tips on how to shift from a mindset of restriction to one of celebration
♡ Videos mentioned:
Makeup Collection: The Container Concept
youtu.be/jRM8BNDYu-g
What is the Adagio Mindset?
youtu.be/DGUaZl3f-Hc
One-Hand Haul:
youtu.be/lCz489wgbFo
Direct Product Comparison Playlist:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIizX-sELJfeZ2d2dqy2lyAg4
Project Panning:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIizEGn-eiOmj98oU2ua-2mxf
Declutter playlist:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIiy7bEb7rV0LRkoTDIdntm9W
💌 Join Club Adagio for bonus content and deeper conversations on beauty, joy, and mindful consumption:
On Patreon:
patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
On YouTube:
youtube.com/TheStyleStumbler/join
Both have the same content perks – I just offer both so you can choose what's more convenient for you.
💄 On my face:
(Afilliate links)
BOBBI BROWN | Vitamin Enriched Face Base
go.shopmy.us/p-18997013
BOBBI BROWN | Vitamin Enriched Eye Base
go.shopmy.us/p-18997090
AQUAPHOR | Lip Repair Stick
go.shopmy.us/p-14561167
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Magic Vanish Under-Eye Color Corrector
go.shopmy.us/p-14087515
SALT NEW YORK | Best Case Concealer Refills (Light Peach)
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
go.shopmy.us/p-18997286
LANCOME | Teint Idole Ultra Wear All Over Full Coverage Concealer
go.shopmy.us/p-14087404
ESTEE LAUDER | Double Wear Stay-In-Place Liquid Foundation
go.shopmy.us/p-18997459
HOURGLASS | Illume Sheer Color Trio
Discontinued
YSL | All Hours Hyper Blur Loose Setting Powder
go.shopmy.us/p-18998373
GUCCI | Sun-Kissed Glow Bronzer Powder
go.shopmy.us/p-18997835
LANCOME | Blush Subtil Blush Cedar Rose
go.shopmy.us/p-17233915
NATASHA DENONA | I Need a Warm Eyeshadow Palette
go.shopmy.us/p-18998083
MAC Liquidlast 24 Hour Waterproof Liquid Eyeliner
go.shopmy.us/p-18998334
KEVYN AUCOIN | Indecent Mascara
go.shopmy.us/p-18998152
LISA ELDRIDGE | Kitten Mischief Luxuriously Lucent Lip Colour
go.shopmy.us/p-18998477
LISA ELDRIDGE | Fawn Enhance And Define Lip Pencil
go.shopmy.us/p-18998559
♡ The microphone I use:
amzn.to/3Q2JPkO
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:37 What Is the Adagio Mindset™? (Slow Beauty Explained)
01:26 Why Beauty Influencers Can Trigger Overspending
02:07 Why Creators Buy So Much Makeup (Even If They Say "Low Buy")
03:32 Different Types of Beauty Creators (And What That Means for You)
04:14 How to Watch Beauty Content Without Getting Tempted
05:39 Balancing Adagio Beauty With the Fast-Paced Beauty Industry
05:55 Buying With Purpose: Channel vs. Personal Purchases
06:12 Wants vs. Needs: The Beauty Edition
07:14 Avoiding New Releases: Playing the Waiting Game
07:50 What's Really Behind the Urge to Buy?
08:29 What I’ve Learned—and How It Can Help You
08:51 Reframing Your Beauty Budget (Without Restriction)
09:22 Know Your Weak Spot (And Outsmart It)
10:14 Swatch Parties, Project Pans & Other Ways to Play
11:49 How to Watch Creators Without Overspending
13:02 Make Your Own Timeline (And Actually Enjoy It)
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Links & Discount Codes
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♡ If you shop through my affiliate links & use my codes, my channel makes a commission. It's a great way to support me if there's something that you plan to buy. But keep in mind: makeup is just dirt, and clothing is just a fancy loin cloth. The true joy comes from using what we have. 😉 ♡
♡ SALT NY: go.shopmy.us/p-11974406
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
♡ CALECIM: calecimprofessional.com/discount/StumbleInStyle
Use code StumbleInStyle on Calecim's site for 15% off your order
♡ ZEESEA COSMETICS: zeeseacosmetics.com/?ref=TheStyleStumbler
Use code StumbleInStyle at Zeesea for 15% off your order
♡ QUEEN MUSIA: go.shopmy.us/p-4373006
Use code StumbleInStyle on QM's site for 10% off your order
♡ UNIWIGS Top hair pieces: go.shopmy.us/p-9344075
Use code TSS15 on the Uniwigs site for 15% off your order
♡ INH HAIR: fbuy.io/insertnamehere/stephanie245
Using this INH link gives you 25% off orders over USD 100.
♡ ESUM Cosmetics: esumcosmetics.com/?aff=99
♡ NIRA at home laser treatment 25%-off link: nira.refr.cc/ReferralProgam/u/thestylestumbler
♡ SLEEP & GLOW Beauty Pillows: go.shopmy.us/p-18622066
Use code StumbleInStyle for $/€/£15 off pillows & blankets and 10% off the rest of the catalogue
If you've ever felt conflicted watching hauls while trying to shop less – or wondered how to enjoy beauty content without falling into the overconsumption trap – this one’s for you.
✨ We’ll talk:
How creators buy differently (and why)
How to adopt the Adagio mindset as a viewer
What “intentional indulgence” really looks like
Tips on how to shift from a mindset of restriction to one of celebration
♡ Videos mentioned:
Makeup Collection: The Container Concept
youtu.be/jRM8BNDYu-g
What is the Adagio Mindset?
youtu.be/DGUaZl3f-Hc
One-Hand Haul:
youtu.be/lCz489wgbFo
Direct Product Comparison Playlist:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIizX-sELJfeZ2d2dqy2lyAg4
Project Panning:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIizEGn-eiOmj98oU2ua-2mxf
Declutter playlist:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIiy7bEb7rV0LRkoTDIdntm9W
💌 Join Club Adagio for bonus content and deeper conversations on beauty, joy, and mindful consumption:
On Patreon:
patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
On YouTube:
youtube.com/TheStyleStumbler/join
Both have the same content perks – I just offer both so you can choose what's more convenient for you.
💄 On my face:
(Afilliate links)
BOBBI BROWN | Vitamin Enriched Face Base
go.shopmy.us/p-18997013
BOBBI BROWN | Vitamin Enriched Eye Base
go.shopmy.us/p-18997090
AQUAPHOR | Lip Repair Stick
go.shopmy.us/p-14561167
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Magic Vanish Under-Eye Color Corrector
go.shopmy.us/p-14087515
SALT NEW YORK | Best Case Concealer Refills (Light Peach)
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
go.shopmy.us/p-18997286
LANCOME | Teint Idole Ultra Wear All Over Full Coverage Concealer
go.shopmy.us/p-14087404
ESTEE LAUDER | Double Wear Stay-In-Place Liquid Foundation
go.shopmy.us/p-18997459
HOURGLASS | Illume Sheer Color Trio
Discontinued
YSL | All Hours Hyper Blur Loose Setting Powder
go.shopmy.us/p-18998373
GUCCI | Sun-Kissed Glow Bronzer Powder
go.shopmy.us/p-18997835
LANCOME | Blush Subtil Blush Cedar Rose
go.shopmy.us/p-17233915
NATASHA DENONA | I Need a Warm Eyeshadow Palette
go.shopmy.us/p-18998083
MAC Liquidlast 24 Hour Waterproof Liquid Eyeliner
go.shopmy.us/p-18998334
KEVYN AUCOIN | Indecent Mascara
go.shopmy.us/p-18998152
LISA ELDRIDGE | Kitten Mischief Luxuriously Lucent Lip Colour
go.shopmy.us/p-18998477
LISA ELDRIDGE | Fawn Enhance And Define Lip Pencil
go.shopmy.us/p-18998559
♡ The microphone I use:
amzn.to/3Q2JPkO
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:37 What Is the Adagio Mindset™? (Slow Beauty Explained)
01:26 Why Beauty Influencers Can Trigger Overspending
02:07 Why Creators Buy So Much Makeup (Even If They Say "Low Buy")
03:32 Different Types of Beauty Creators (And What That Means for You)
04:14 How to Watch Beauty Content Without Getting Tempted
05:39 Balancing Adagio Beauty With the Fast-Paced Beauty Industry
05:55 Buying With Purpose: Channel vs. Personal Purchases
06:12 Wants vs. Needs: The Beauty Edition
07:14 Avoiding New Releases: Playing the Waiting Game
07:50 What's Really Behind the Urge to Buy?
08:29 What I’ve Learned—and How It Can Help You
08:51 Reframing Your Beauty Budget (Without Restriction)
09:22 Know Your Weak Spot (And Outsmart It)
10:14 Swatch Parties, Project Pans & Other Ways to Play
11:49 How to Watch Creators Without Overspending
13:02 Make Your Own Timeline (And Actually Enjoy It)
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Links & Discount Codes
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
♡ If you shop through my affiliate links & use my codes, my channel makes a commission. It's a great way to support me if there's something that you plan to buy. But keep in mind: makeup is just dirt, and clothing is just a fancy loin cloth. The true joy comes from using what we have. 😉 ♡
♡ SALT NY: go.shopmy.us/p-11974406
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
♡ CALECIM: calecimprofessional.com/discount/StumbleInStyle
Use code StumbleInStyle on Calecim's site for 15% off your order
♡ ZEESEA COSMETICS: zeeseacosmetics.com/?ref=TheStyleStumbler
Use code StumbleInStyle at Zeesea for 15% off your order
♡ QUEEN MUSIA: go.shopmy.us/p-4373006
Use code StumbleInStyle on QM's site for 10% off your order
♡ UNIWIGS Top hair pieces: go.shopmy.us/p-9344075
Use code TSS15 on the Uniwigs site for 15% off your order
♡ INH HAIR: fbuy.io/insertnamehere/stephanie245
Using this INH link gives you 25% off orders over USD 100.
♡ ESUM Cosmetics: esumcosmetics.com/?aff=99
♡ NIRA at home laser treatment 25%-off link: nira.refr.cc/ReferralProgam/u/thestylestumbler
♡ SLEEP & GLOW Beauty Pillows: go.shopmy.us/p-18622066
Use code StumbleInStyle for $/€/£15 off pillows & blankets and 10% off the rest of the catalogue
