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The only thing between you and the life you want is the story you’ve been telling yourself. Seth Godin is one of the most influential thinkers of our time and the author of 21 bestselling books, including Purple Cow, Linchpin, and The Dip. He survived 800 rejection letters in a single year, has published a blog post every day for 26 years, and has spent decades helping people escape mediocrity. In this episode, he shares the frameworks for getting unstuck, why the best winners know when to quit, and how to untangle the invisible beliefs holding you back.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• The four horsemen of mediocrity: deniability, helplessness, contempt, and fear, and the habits that quietly keep you stuck
• How Seth turned 800 rejection letters into a competitive advantage by offering value instead of asking for favors
• Why the best work is made for people who care, not everyone
• The Jackson Pollock trap, why wanting two conflicting things keeps you stuck, and how to escape it
• Why great leaders seek responsibility instead of authority, and how to lead yourself first
___________
00:00:00 Introduction: Why Most People Choose Mediocrity Over Meaning
00:00:55 The Craft Ethic: 26 Years of Daily Blog Posts and Why Habits Beat Willpower
00:03:55 Strategic Quitting: Winners Are Quitters When It Matters
00:05:43 800 Rejection Letters in One Year: The Truth About Rejection and Iteration
00:09:38 Feedback Loops Are Everything: Stop Measuring What Mark Zuckerberg Wants
00:12:11 High School Is the Indoctrination: How to Tell If Your Desires Are Actually Yours
00:13:49 Thank You, It's Not For You: The Power of Ignoring the Wrong People
00:14:37 Personal Statements Over Mission Statements: Define Your One Thing
00:16:20 The Seven-Year-Old Bully Story: How to Insulate Yourself From Criticism
00:18:48 The Four Horsemen of Mediocrity: Deniability, Helplessness, Contempt, and Fear
00:23:00 Work That Matters for People Who Care: The Mantra That Cures Mediocrity
00:25:03 The Industrial Age Brought Compliance and Compliance Brought Fear
00:27:04 Managers Use Authority, Leaders Inspire Enrollment: Know the Difference
00:29:08 Lead Yourself First: How to Get Yourself to Change Your Mind
00:31:59 Optimism Is a Tool, Not a Personality: Put On the Right Hat at the Right Time
00:33:40 The Conspiracy of Stuck: Short-Term Conflict Avoidance and Misunderstanding Risk
00:37:56 You Can't Spell Rich Without Risk: The 18 Dollar Garage Sale Test
00:39:13 If No One Comes, No One Will Know: Seth's Mom and the Museum Story
00:41:44 Jackson Pollock and the And Versus But Trap: Why Success Can Break You
00:44:19 Create Things Just For You or You'll End Up Like Pollock
00:48:14 The Smallest Viable Audience: 24 Seats, Filipino Pop Songs, and Enough
00:51:13 Entanglements Feel Like Facts But They're Just Invisible Traps
00:52:31 Tell the Truth and Entanglements Wither: The Three Words That Set You Free
00:54:01 Writer's Block Is a Myth and Resistance Is Everywhere: Steve Pressfield's Gift
00:55:27 The Red Wine Story: You Just Don't Have a Big Enough Why
00:57:05 Comfortable Is Another Word for Stuck: Build New Habits, Not Willpower
00:58:54 I Am Playing the Role of Seth Godin: The Yellow Glasses Come Off
01:00:41 Set Up a Life You Don't Need to Escape From: The Alexander the Great Parable
01:03:07 The Four AM Hotel Lobby: Look at Those Poor Schmoes Escaping Their Lives
01:04:45 Problems Can Be Solved, Situations Cannot: The Final Word on Getting Unstuck
___________
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My new book, Own Or Be Owned, is all about building a business so good it doesn't need you. More profit, less pain. It's out September 18, grab your ticket to the launch event here: https://contrarianthinking.biz/bigdeal-godin - cs
And one more thing for the business owners: stop making million dollar decisions alone! Join the Contrarian Growth Boardroom and get a board of advisors to help with every decision: https://contrarianthinking.biz/bdbr
The only thing between you and the life you want is the story you’ve been telling yourself. Seth Godin is one of the most influential thinkers of our time and the author of 21 bestselling books, including Purple Cow, Linchpin, and The Dip. He survived 800 rejection letters in a single year, has published a blog post every day for 26 years, and has spent decades helping people escape mediocrity. In this episode, he shares the frameworks for getting unstuck, why the best winners know when to quit, and how to untangle the invisible beliefs holding you back.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• The four horsemen of mediocrity: deniability, helplessness, contempt, and fear, and the habits that quietly keep you stuck
• How Seth turned 800 rejection letters into a competitive advantage by offering value instead of asking for favors
• Why the best work is made for people who care, not everyone
• The Jackson Pollock trap, why wanting two conflicting things keeps you stuck, and how to escape it
• Why great leaders seek responsibility instead of authority, and how to lead yourself first
___________
00:00:00 Introduction: Why Most People Choose Mediocrity Over Meaning
00:00:55 The Craft Ethic: 26 Years of Daily Blog Posts and Why Habits Beat Willpower
00:03:55 Strategic Quitting: Winners Are Quitters When It Matters
00:05:43 800 Rejection Letters in One Year: The Truth About Rejection and Iteration
00:09:38 Feedback Loops Are Everything: Stop Measuring What Mark Zuckerberg Wants
00:12:11 High School Is the Indoctrination: How to Tell If Your Desires Are Actually Yours
00:13:49 Thank You, It's Not For You: The Power of Ignoring the Wrong People
00:14:37 Personal Statements Over Mission Statements: Define Your One Thing
00:16:20 The Seven-Year-Old Bully Story: How to Insulate Yourself From Criticism
00:18:48 The Four Horsemen of Mediocrity: Deniability, Helplessness, Contempt, and Fear
00:23:00 Work That Matters for People Who Care: The Mantra That Cures Mediocrity
00:25:03 The Industrial Age Brought Compliance and Compliance Brought Fear
00:27:04 Managers Use Authority, Leaders Inspire Enrollment: Know the Difference
00:29:08 Lead Yourself First: How to Get Yourself to Change Your Mind
00:31:59 Optimism Is a Tool, Not a Personality: Put On the Right Hat at the Right Time
00:33:40 The Conspiracy of Stuck: Short-Term Conflict Avoidance and Misunderstanding Risk
00:37:56 You Can't Spell Rich Without Risk: The 18 Dollar Garage Sale Test
00:39:13 If No One Comes, No One Will Know: Seth's Mom and the Museum Story
00:41:44 Jackson Pollock and the And Versus But Trap: Why Success Can Break You
00:44:19 Create Things Just For You or You'll End Up Like Pollock
00:48:14 The Smallest Viable Audience: 24 Seats, Filipino Pop Songs, and Enough
00:51:13 Entanglements Feel Like Facts But They're Just Invisible Traps
00:52:31 Tell the Truth and Entanglements Wither: The Three Words That Set You Free
00:54:01 Writer's Block Is a Myth and Resistance Is Everywhere: Steve Pressfield's Gift
00:55:27 The Red Wine Story: You Just Don't Have a Big Enough Why
00:57:05 Comfortable Is Another Word for Stuck: Build New Habits, Not Willpower
00:58:54 I Am Playing the Role of Seth Godin: The Yellow Glasses Come Off
01:00:41 Set Up a Life You Don't Need to Escape From: The Alexander the Great Parable
01:03:07 The Four AM Hotel Lobby: Look at Those Poor Schmoes Escaping Their Lives
01:04:45 Problems Can Be Solved, Situations Cannot: The Final Word on Getting Unstuck
___________
MORE FROM BIGDEAL
🎥 YouTube: youtube.com/@PodcastBigDeal
📸 Instagram: instagram.com/bigdeal.podcast
📽️ TikTok: tiktok.com/@big.deal.pod
MORE FROM CODIE SANCHEZ
🎥 YouTube: youtube.com/@CodieSanchezCT
📸 Instagram: instagram.com/codiesanchez
📽️ TikTok: tiktok.com/@realcodiesanchez
OTHER THINGS WE DO
🌐 Our community: contrarianthinking.typeform.com/to/WBztXXID
📰 Free newsletter: https://contrarianthinking.biz/3XWLlZp
📚 Biz buying course: https://contrarianthinking.biz/3NhjGgN
🏠 Resibrands: resibrands.com
💰 CT Capital: https://contrarianthinking.biz/4eRyGOk
🏦 Main St Hold Co: https://contrarianthinking.biz/3YfGa8u
