Uploaded October 2025 | Updated September 2026, 1 day ago
When every ad screams “limited time” and "best deal of the year," how do you stay calm enough to think clearly?
Black Friday can feel like a sport – and the marketing marathon starts earlier every year. In this video, I’m sharing mindset shifts and simple, practical ways to shop intentionally during sales season without the guilt, chaos, or regret.
We’ll talk about overspending vs. over-accumulating, how to set a written or space budget, what a “spontaneous joy purchase” is, and why slowing down might be the real luxury this Black Friday.
If you want to take it further, I’ve shared my full Black Friday Budget Breakdown on Patreon – how I’m planning, prioritizing, and spending with intention this year:
patreon.com/posts/budget-with-me-141513152
#BlackFriday #IntentionalShopping #MindfulSpending
📌 Videos mentioned:
Which type of sale shopper are you?
youtu.be/GiuPIn7RRX8
Budget with me for Black Friday video:
patreon.com/posts/budget-with-me-141513152
📌 If you'd like extra content, join Club Adagio on
Patreon:
patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
📌 The makeup I'm wearing in this video:
(Affiliate links)
ABH | Water-Resistant Eye Primer
go.shopmy.us/p-26601690
ESTÉE LAUDER | Double Wear Stay-In-Place Liquid Foundation
go.shopmy.us/p-26602108
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Magic Vanish (Shade 2, Medium)
go.shopmy.us/p-26602306
LANCOME | Teint Idole Ultra Wear All Over Full Coverage Concealer
go.shopmy.us/p-26602427
KEVYN AUCOIN | The Contrast Stick (Shape)
go.shopmy.us/p-26602642
WESTMAN ATELIER | Face Trace Contour Stick
go.shopmy.us/p-26602703
TOM FORD | Shade Illuminate Contour Duo
go.shopmy.us/p-26602809
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Hollywood Flawless Filter
go.shopmy.us/p-26603079
Custom Blush Palette based on:
MAKE UP FOR EVER | HD Skin Blush & Glow Longwear Cream Face Palette
go.shopmy.us/p-26603304
HUDA BEAUTY | Easy Bake Loose Baking & Setting Powder:
go.shopmy.us/p-26603515
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Beauty Glow Palette
Discontinued
HUDA BEAUTY | Pretty Grunge Eyeshadow Palette
go.shopmy.us/p-26605631
CLINIQUE | High Impact Mascara (Black Honey)
go.shopmy.us/p-24780845
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Hot Lips 2.0 (JK Magic)
go.shopmy.us/p-26604035
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Lip Cheat Lip Liner (Iconic Nude)
go.shopmy.us/p-26605455
ABH | Brow Wiz (Taupe)
go.shopmy.us/p-21913983
MAC Liquidlast 24 Hour Waterproof Liquid Eyeliner (Coco Bar)
go.shopmy.us/p-20831298
📌 The microphone I use:
(Affiliate link)
amzn.to/3Q2JPkO
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro – How to Stay Sane During Black Friday Sales
01:18 What Sales Really Are (and Why They’re Not for You)
03:03 The Power of a Written Budget – and Why It Actually Works
05:19 Make a List Like a Pro – Your Budget as a Puzzle Game
07:23 Budget for Spontaneity – How to Enjoy Sales Without Regret
08:44 Shop Strategically – Avoid the Black Friday Marketing Traps
10:24 Adjust as You Go – The Secret to Sticking to Your Plan
12:17 Use Sales Intentionally – Spend Less, Enjoy More
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
📌 Links & Discount Codes
If you shop through my affiliate links & use my codes, my channel makes a small commission. It's a great way to support me if there's something that you plan to buy. But keep in mind: makeup is just dirt, and skincare is just soothing goop. The true joy comes from using what we have. 😉 ♡
♡ SALT NY: go.shopmy.us/p-11974406
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
♡ CALECIM: calecimprofessional.com/discount/StumbleInStyle
Use code StumbleInStyle on Calecim's site for 15% off your order
♡ ZEESEA COSMETICS: zeeseacosmetics.com/?ref=TheStyleStumbler
Use code StumbleInStyle at Zeesea for 15% off your order
♡ QUEEN MUSIA: go.shopmy.us/p-4373006
Use code StumbleInStyle on QM's site for 10% off your order
♡ UNIWIGS Top hair pieces: go.shopmy.us/p-9344075
Use code TSS15 on the Uniwigs site for 15% off your order
♡ INH HAIR: fbuy.io/insertnamehere/stephanie245
Using this INH link gives you 25% off orders over USD 100.
♡ ESUM Cosmetics: esumcosmetics.com/?aff=99
♡ NIRA at home laser treatment 25%-off link: nira.refr.cc/ReferralProgam/u/thestylestumbler
♡ SLEEP & GLOW Beauty Pillows: go.shopmy.us/p-18622066
Use code StumbleInStyle for $/€/£15 off pillows & blankets and 10% off the rest of the catalogue
♡ Would you like to make your own affiliate links? Use the following link to join ShopMy: shopmy.us/join/thestylestumbler
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When every ad screams “limited time” and "best deal of the year," how do you stay calm enough to think clearly?
Black Friday can feel like a sport – and the marketing marathon starts earlier every year. In this video, I’m sharing mindset shifts and simple, practical ways to shop intentionally during sales season without the guilt, chaos, or regret.
We’ll talk about overspending vs. over-accumulating, how to set a written or space budget, what a “spontaneous joy purchase” is, and why slowing down might be the real luxury this Black Friday.
If you want to take it further, I’ve shared my full Black Friday Budget Breakdown on Patreon – how I’m planning, prioritizing, and spending with intention this year:
patreon.com/posts/budget-with-me-141513152
#BlackFriday #IntentionalShopping #MindfulSpending
📌 Videos mentioned:
Which type of sale shopper are you?
youtu.be/GiuPIn7RRX8
Budget with me for Black Friday video:
patreon.com/posts/budget-with-me-141513152
📌 If you'd like extra content, join Club Adagio on
Patreon:
patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
📌 The makeup I'm wearing in this video:
(Affiliate links)
ABH | Water-Resistant Eye Primer
go.shopmy.us/p-26601690
ESTÉE LAUDER | Double Wear Stay-In-Place Liquid Foundation
go.shopmy.us/p-26602108
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Magic Vanish (Shade 2, Medium)
go.shopmy.us/p-26602306
LANCOME | Teint Idole Ultra Wear All Over Full Coverage Concealer
go.shopmy.us/p-26602427
KEVYN AUCOIN | The Contrast Stick (Shape)
go.shopmy.us/p-26602642
WESTMAN ATELIER | Face Trace Contour Stick
go.shopmy.us/p-26602703
TOM FORD | Shade Illuminate Contour Duo
go.shopmy.us/p-26602809
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Hollywood Flawless Filter
go.shopmy.us/p-26603079
Custom Blush Palette based on:
MAKE UP FOR EVER | HD Skin Blush & Glow Longwear Cream Face Palette
go.shopmy.us/p-26603304
HUDA BEAUTY | Easy Bake Loose Baking & Setting Powder:
go.shopmy.us/p-26603515
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Beauty Glow Palette
Discontinued
HUDA BEAUTY | Pretty Grunge Eyeshadow Palette
go.shopmy.us/p-26605631
CLINIQUE | High Impact Mascara (Black Honey)
go.shopmy.us/p-24780845
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Hot Lips 2.0 (JK Magic)
go.shopmy.us/p-26604035
CHARLOTTE TILBURY | Lip Cheat Lip Liner (Iconic Nude)
go.shopmy.us/p-26605455
ABH | Brow Wiz (Taupe)
go.shopmy.us/p-21913983
MAC Liquidlast 24 Hour Waterproof Liquid Eyeliner (Coco Bar)
go.shopmy.us/p-20831298
📌 The microphone I use:
(Affiliate link)
amzn.to/3Q2JPkO
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro – How to Stay Sane During Black Friday Sales
01:18 What Sales Really Are (and Why They’re Not for You)
03:03 The Power of a Written Budget – and Why It Actually Works
05:19 Make a List Like a Pro – Your Budget as a Puzzle Game
07:23 Budget for Spontaneity – How to Enjoy Sales Without Regret
08:44 Shop Strategically – Avoid the Black Friday Marketing Traps
10:24 Adjust as You Go – The Secret to Sticking to Your Plan
12:17 Use Sales Intentionally – Spend Less, Enjoy More
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
📌 Links & Discount Codes
If you shop through my affiliate links & use my codes, my channel makes a small commission. It's a great way to support me if there's something that you plan to buy. But keep in mind: makeup is just dirt, and skincare is just soothing goop. The true joy comes from using what we have. 😉 ♡
♡ SALT NY: go.shopmy.us/p-11974406
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
♡ CALECIM: calecimprofessional.com/discount/StumbleInStyle
Use code StumbleInStyle on Calecim's site for 15% off your order
♡ ZEESEA COSMETICS: zeeseacosmetics.com/?ref=TheStyleStumbler
Use code StumbleInStyle at Zeesea for 15% off your order
♡ QUEEN MUSIA: go.shopmy.us/p-4373006
Use code StumbleInStyle on QM's site for 10% off your order
♡ UNIWIGS Top hair pieces: go.shopmy.us/p-9344075
Use code TSS15 on the Uniwigs site for 15% off your order
♡ INH HAIR: fbuy.io/insertnamehere/stephanie245
Using this INH link gives you 25% off orders over USD 100.
♡ ESUM Cosmetics: esumcosmetics.com/?aff=99
♡ NIRA at home laser treatment 25%-off link: nira.refr.cc/ReferralProgam/u/thestylestumbler
♡ SLEEP & GLOW Beauty Pillows: go.shopmy.us/p-18622066
Use code StumbleInStyle for $/€/£15 off pillows & blankets and 10% off the rest of the catalogue
♡ Would you like to make your own affiliate links? Use the following link to join ShopMy: shopmy.us/join/thestylestumbler
📌 Links to my style profiles:
Instagram: instagram.com/thestylestumbler
