Uploaded May 2021 | Updated September 2026, 5 days ago
Ever wonder how people found suitable strangers to date in the Victorian Age? Well, wonder no longer! In this video, I talk about Matrimonial Advertisements: what they were, what was behind the phenomena and how society viewed them. Also, you'll learn step-by-step how to find love through matrimonial ads, just in case you're ever transported back to 19th century. And importantly, we'll delve into some *intriguing* marriage ad examples from both British and American newspapers from the 1800s.
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π°Watching Guide
00:00 How to Online Date the Victorian Era Way [Intro]
00:51 What is a Matrimonial Advertisement?
03:21 Reasons to Advertise
07:12 Society's Response to Newspaper Romance
08:25 How to Guide to Placing an Ad
10:31 How to Write a Personal Ad
13:01 Eligible British Gentlemen's Ads
16:45 British Bachelorettes
19:29 American Men Looking for Love
21:45 American Ladies Seeking Romance
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π Books and Movies Mentioned
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Cocks, H. (2013). The cost of marriage and the matrimonial agency in late Victorian Britain. Social History, 38(1), 66β88. doi.org/10.1080/03071022.2012.759774
The Marriage Brokers of London. (1888, September 5). Pall Mall Gazette.
The matrimonial news and special advertiser. (1869). C. G. Horton & Co.
The Matrimonial Post and Fashionable Marriage. (1888, December 8). Runcorn Examiner.
N, Q. P., & CORRESPONDENCE. (1835). Correspondence of a Lieutenant in His Majesty's Navy, in search of a wife: arising from a matrimonial advertisement in a late number of The Bristol Mirror. Second edition. [The letters, the first excepted, signed: Q.P.N.]. Bristol: Rose & Son.
PHEGLEY, J. (2013). Victorian Girls Gone Wild: Matrimonial Advertising and the Transformation of Courtship in the Popular Press. Victorian Review, 39(2), 129-146. Retrieved April 29, 2021, from jstor.org/stable/24497074
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Ever wonder how people found suitable strangers to date in the Victorian Age? Well, wonder no longer! In this video, I talk about Matrimonial Advertisements: what they were, what was behind the phenomena and how society viewed them. Also, you'll learn step-by-step how to find love through matrimonial ads, just in case you're ever transported back to 19th century. And importantly, we'll delve into some *intriguing* marriage ad examples from both British and American newspapers from the 1800s.
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π°Watching Guide
00:00 How to Online Date the Victorian Era Way [Intro]
00:51 What is a Matrimonial Advertisement?
03:21 Reasons to Advertise
07:12 Society's Response to Newspaper Romance
08:25 How to Guide to Placing an Ad
10:31 How to Write a Personal Ad
13:01 Eligible British Gentlemen's Ads
16:45 British Bachelorettes
19:29 American Men Looking for Love
21:45 American Ladies Seeking Romance
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π Books and Movies Mentioned
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
Novel go.magik.ly/ml/1u43m
1940 Movie: amzn.to/43uQwBy
1995 Miniseries (Colin Firth Version): amzn.to/42zFoSm
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Audiobook read by Rosamund Pike: amzn.to/3MTE1Iy
π§ Learn More
Cocks, H. (2013). The cost of marriage and the matrimonial agency in late Victorian Britain. Social History, 38(1), 66β88. doi.org/10.1080/03071022.2012.759774
The Marriage Brokers of London. (1888, September 5). Pall Mall Gazette.
The matrimonial news and special advertiser. (1869). C. G. Horton & Co.
The Matrimonial Post and Fashionable Marriage. (1888, December 8). Runcorn Examiner.
N, Q. P., & CORRESPONDENCE. (1835). Correspondence of a Lieutenant in His Majesty's Navy, in search of a wife: arising from a matrimonial advertisement in a late number of The Bristol Mirror. Second edition. [The letters, the first excepted, signed: Q.P.N.]. Bristol: Rose & Son.
PHEGLEY, J. (2013). Victorian Girls Gone Wild: Matrimonial Advertising and the Transformation of Courtship in the Popular Press. Victorian Review, 39(2), 129-146. Retrieved April 29, 2021, from jstor.org/stable/24497074
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Austen, J. (2010). Pride and prejudice : an annotated edition (P. M. Spacks, Ed.). Belknap Press of Harvard University Press.
4 booksellers catalogues.Β (1819).Β United Kingdom:Β (n.p.).
Byrne, P. (2013). The real Jane Austen : a life in small things (First Harper Perennial edition). HarperPerennial.
Byron,Β G.Β G.Β B.Β (1818).Β Childe Harolds Pilgrimage: Canto the Fourth.Β United Kingdom:Β John Murray, Albemarle-Street.
The Critical Review: Or, Annals of Literature.Β (1813).Β United Kingdom:Β R[ichard]. Baldwin, at the Rose in Pater-noster-Row.
Devine, D. (2005, September/October). How long is a generation. Ancestry, 23(5), 51β53.
Faulds, D. (2012, November 21). The art of bookbinding. ScholarBlog Sandbox. https://scholarblogs.emory.edu/woodruff-sandbox/2012/11/21/the-art-of-bookbinding/
Ferguson, S. (2024, March 11). A statement of invoice from Roger Payne (1739β1797), English bookbinder. Notabilia: A Blog about Rare Books. https://blogs.princeton.edu/notabilia/2024/03/11/a-statement-of-invoice-from-roger-payne-1739-1797-english-bookbinder/
Hayes, L. (2018, May). Boards and their attachment. University of Adelaide Library. https://www.adelaide.edu.au/library/collections-archives/ua/media/565/rb-webpage-boards-and-their-attachment.pdf
Jackson, T. V. (1999). British Incomes Circa 1800. The Economic History Review, 52(2), 257β283. http://www.jstor.org/stable/2599939
Raven,Β J.Β (2007).Β The business of books : booksellers and the English book trade, 1450-1850.Β United Kingdom:Β Yale University Press.
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![Which Jane Austen Book Should You Read First? Her Best Books Ranked
Do you want to start reading Jane Austens novels but have no clue where to start? Well, in this video I break down each of her six major novels and share some reasons you my like (or dislike!) each one. That way, you can choose which Jane Austen book to read based on YOUR interests.
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00:00 Which Jane Austen Book Should You Read First? [Intro]
01:13 Who should read Pride and Prejudice?
05:36 What is Jane Austens Emma about?
09:16 Persuasion by Jane Austen Review
11:11 What does Sense and Sensibility mean?
14:38 What is Northanger Abbey about?
19:12 Who should read Mansfield Park?
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![A Refined Ladys Guide to Flirting and Virtue: 18th Century Tips
Are you a refined lady looking to upgrade your flirting skills? Then this video is for you! We cover top tips from 18th century romance guides on how to respond to pick up lines and marriage proposals. We also dive into how to manage your virtues and fend off all those Georgian era rakes and players.
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01:03 How to Respond to Pick Up Lines
03:35 How to Deal With Players
06:25 How to Reject Rakes
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![Is Your Culture Like the Regency Era? Jane Austens Cultural Dimensions vs American Culture
Do you think your culture has anything in common with Jane Austens world? Well in this video we analyze the Regency Era culture of Pride and Prejudice both as an iceberg and also on four basic cultural dimensions. Ill also be comparing and contrasting the early 1800s society with modern American culture as an example. But you can also see how Elizabeth Bennets culture matches up against your culture.
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Baird, R. (2004). Mistress of the house: Great ladies and grand houses, 1670-1830. London: Phoenix.
Honan, P. (2007). Jane Austen: Her life.
In Jones, B., Bandy, S.-L., Mroz, M., Ortiz, A., Weidner, D., & International TEFL Academy,. (2017). The fundamentals of teaching English as a foreign language.
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