Uploaded May 2022 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
How would you know if you were in a cult?
If not a cult, then at least under undue influence?
The truth is: we're all under some form of undue influence. The question is: to what degree and to what extent we’re aware of this influence — which is exacerbated by social media. In an era of likes, followers, and echo chambers, how can we become aware of undue influence and gain sovereignty over our minds?
Our guest this week is Dr. Steven Hassan, an expert on undue influence, brainwashing, and unethical hypnosis. He’s the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center (freedomofmind.com/) — a coaching, consulting, and training organization dedicated to helping people freely consider how they want to live their lives. Dr. Hassan was himself a member of a cult: the Unification Church (also known as the Moonies), which was developed in Korea in the 1950's. Since leaving the Moonies, Dr. Hassan has helped thousands of individuals and families recover from undue influence.
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Freedom of Mind website: (freedomofmind.com/) The website for Dr. Hassan’s Freedom of Mind Resource Center, which includes resources such as his Influence Continuum (freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/influence-continuum/) , BITE model (freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model/) of authoritarian control, and Strategic Interactive Approach (freedomofmind.com/strategic-interactive-approach/) for alleviating people of undue influence
The Influence Continuum with Dr. Steven Hassan: (podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-influence-continuum-with-dr-steven-hassan/id1603773245) Dr. Hassan’s podcast exploring how mind-control works, and how to protect yourself from its grips
Reckonings: (https://www.reckonings.show/) A podcast that told the stories of people who’ve transcended extremism, expanded their worldviews, and made other kinds of transformative change. Start with episode 17 (https://www.reckonings.show/episodes/17) featuring a former paid climate skeptic, or episode 18 (https://www.reckonings.show/episodes/18) featuring the former protégé of Fox News chairman Roger Ailes
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Can Your Reality Turn on a Word? Guest: Anthony Jacquin: humanetech.com/podcast/34-can-your-reality-turn-on-a-word
The World According to Q. Guest: Travis View: humanetech.com/podcast/21-the-world-according-to-q
The Cure for Hate. Guest: Tony McAleer: humanetech.com/podcast/11-the-cure-for-hate
Your Undivided Attention is produced by the Center for Humane Technology (humanetech.com/) . Follow us on Twitter: @HumaneTech_ (twitter.com/humanetech_)
How would you know if you were in a cult?
If not a cult, then at least under undue influence?
The truth is: we're all under some form of undue influence. The question is: to what degree and to what extent we’re aware of this influence — which is exacerbated by social media. In an era of likes, followers, and echo chambers, how can we become aware of undue influence and gain sovereignty over our minds?
Our guest this week is Dr. Steven Hassan, an expert on undue influence, brainwashing, and unethical hypnosis. He’s the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center (freedomofmind.com/) — a coaching, consulting, and training organization dedicated to helping people freely consider how they want to live their lives. Dr. Hassan was himself a member of a cult: the Unification Church (also known as the Moonies), which was developed in Korea in the 1950's. Since leaving the Moonies, Dr. Hassan has helped thousands of individuals and families recover from undue influence.
RECOMMENDED MEDIA
Freedom of Mind website: (freedomofmind.com/) The website for Dr. Hassan’s Freedom of Mind Resource Center, which includes resources such as his Influence Continuum (freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/influence-continuum/) , BITE model (freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model/) of authoritarian control, and Strategic Interactive Approach (freedomofmind.com/strategic-interactive-approach/) for alleviating people of undue influence
The Influence Continuum with Dr. Steven Hassan: (podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-influence-continuum-with-dr-steven-hassan/id1603773245) Dr. Hassan’s podcast exploring how mind-control works, and how to protect yourself from its grips
Reckonings: (https://www.reckonings.show/) A podcast that told the stories of people who’ve transcended extremism, expanded their worldviews, and made other kinds of transformative change. Start with episode 17 (https://www.reckonings.show/episodes/17) featuring a former paid climate skeptic, or episode 18 (https://www.reckonings.show/episodes/18) featuring the former protégé of Fox News chairman Roger Ailes
RECOMMENDED YUA EPISODES
Can Your Reality Turn on a Word? Guest: Anthony Jacquin: humanetech.com/podcast/34-can-your-reality-turn-on-a-word
The World According to Q. Guest: Travis View: humanetech.com/podcast/21-the-world-according-to-q
The Cure for Hate. Guest: Tony McAleer: humanetech.com/podcast/11-the-cure-for-hate
Your Undivided Attention is produced by the Center for Humane Technology (humanetech.com/) . Follow us on Twitter: @HumaneTech_ (twitter.com/humanetech_)
![Esther Perel on Artificial Intimacy (rerun)
[This episode originally aired on August 17, 2023] For all the talk about AI, we rarely hear about how it will change our relationships. As we swipe to find love and consult chatbot therapists, acclaimed psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel warns that there’s another harmful “AI” on the rise — Artificial Intimacy — and how it is depriving us of real connection. Tristan and Esther discuss how depending on algorithms can fuel alienation, and then imagine how we might design technology to strengthen our social bonds.
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Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel (https://www.estherperel.com/books)
Esthers debut work on the intricacies behind modern relationships, and the dichotomy of domesticity and sexual desire
The State of Affairs by Esther Perel (https://www.estherperel.com/books)
Esther takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of infidelity
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel (https://www.estherperel.com/podcast)
Listen in as real couples in search of help bare the raw and profound details of their stories
How’s Work? with Esther Perel (https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/hows-work-with-esther-perel/id1497580407)
Esther’s podcast that focuses on the hard conversations were afraid to have at work
Lars and the Real Girl (2007) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0805564/)
A young man strikes up an unconventional relationship with a doll he finds on the internet
Her (2013) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1798709/)
In a near future, a lonely writer develops an unlikely relationship with an operating system designed to meet his every need
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CORRECTION: Esther refers to the 2007 film Lars and the Real Doll. The title of the film is Lars and the Real Girl.
Your Undivided Attention is produced by the Center for Humane Technology (https://www.humanetech.com/) . Follow us on Twitter: @HumaneTech_ (https://twitter.com/humanetech_) Esther Perel on Artificial Intimacy (rerun)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/plkTbnN1GUY/mqdefault.jpg)









