How to Deal with Anger and Frustration @BentinhoMassaro
How to Deal with Anger and Frustration  @BentinhoMassaro
Uploaded February 2024 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
In this video, Bentinho explores the connections between anger, safety, vulnerability, and the emotional guidance system. Anger serves as a protective mechanism in response to perceived threats or loss of safety. However, you can retrain your mind to adopt behaviors that are beneficial to yourself and others, such as recognizing and pausing before reacting to anger, observing interactions objectively, and creating distance from negative impulses by slowing down your thoughts and becoming aware of every nanosecond.

In this way, you can become present to the micro choices you’re making in each moment, as well as the judgements you're placing on any given situation. By becoming aware of these micro, second-to-second choices, you elevate your freedom and the desire to choose that which is most beneficial. This greatly increases the probability that you will choose an empowered trajectory full of healing and learning.

Bentinho also explains the function of the “gremlin” (or “ego," as most people relate to the term). The gremlin is a mechanism that perpetuates limiting beliefs, thus preventing you from experiencing and embodying the qualities of truth—such as unity, awareness of God, connection to all aspects of life, and innate freedom and joy. These beliefs, fueled by fear and shame, can be difficult to let go of, due to their deeply ingrained nature and the psychological reinforcement each negative belief perpetuates.

By prioritizing the recognition of such moments, and by being willing to slow down and investigate limiting beliefs, you may effectively challenge and overcome them.

May you prioritize the willingness to learn and to direct your focus towards your soul/true essence. May you prioritize authenticity, and embrace a light-hearted and playful approach towards life. May you become free from restraining beliefs, and in so doing, benefit yourself and the whole of humanity.

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ABOUT BENTINHO MASSARO

Bentinho has dedicated his life to humanity’s awakening. Everything he does—whether or not it’s understood at face value—springs from that intention. His taboo-breaking approach and non-dogmatic style are integral to his teaching, helping to expose and uproot the unexamined opinions and deeply-held beliefs that limit people's ability to think freely, honorably and grow at a faster pace.

Bentinho’s teachings guide seekers into the same recognition of Source and devotion to service that he embodies. In addition to teaching Self-Realization with unprecedented clarity and efficiency, he also delves into the more confronting work of becoming honorable: purifying your character from selfish, limiting intention and sourcing your life directly from Oneness.


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