Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
How do we raise kids who don't give up the moment things get hard? It starts with how we show up during the small struggles—like a stuck toy or a tricky shoe.
In today’s deep dive, I’m reacting to a beautiful example of "supportive struggle." I’ll show you why "not pushing" and "not rescuing" is the sweet spot for raising capable, confident children. If you want to move from "fixing" to "coaching," this video is for you.
Key Takeaways:
-Building Frustration Tolerance: The bridge between helplessness and mastery.
-Secure Attachment in Action: Staying close enough to be safe, but far enough to let them try.
-The PedsDocTalk Framework: Practical ways to model resilience daily.
Podcast Resource: Check out my full episode "Six Ways to Raise a Resilient Kid" for a deeper dive.
Shop Dr. Mona's favorite products: shopmy.us/shop/pedsdoctalk?tab=collections (paid link)
How do we raise kids who don't give up the moment things get hard? It starts with how we show up during the small struggles—like a stuck toy or a tricky shoe.
In today’s deep dive, I’m reacting to a beautiful example of "supportive struggle." I’ll show you why "not pushing" and "not rescuing" is the sweet spot for raising capable, confident children. If you want to move from "fixing" to "coaching," this video is for you.
Key Takeaways:
-Building Frustration Tolerance: The bridge between helplessness and mastery.
-Secure Attachment in Action: Staying close enough to be safe, but far enough to let them try.
-The PedsDocTalk Framework: Practical ways to model resilience daily.
Podcast Resource: Check out my full episode "Six Ways to Raise a Resilient Kid" for a deeper dive.
Shop Dr. Mona's favorite products: shopmy.us/shop/pedsdoctalk?tab=collections (paid link)










