Uploaded November 2015 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
►My favorite Jad T. Jones video. The most POWERFUL presence I've ever seen on a youtube video: youtu.be/6TLODb6kIDs
►Interview I did on Jad's channel: youtu.be/uEPQgWCrl70
►My friend Shogo has awesome conversational skills videos: youtube.com/shogogarcia
►Here's the Jad video that I clipped in this video: youtu.be/1086Uio47RQ
Listening skills and curiosity are very important.
The next step to be an interesting conversationalist would be to LIVE AN INTERESTING LIFE. And then just naturally you'll have more interesting things to talk about.
An interesting life could simply be a person who enjoys reading books. Books are an amazing way to arouse great conversation material. I love books.
Another tip would be to just say what you are thinking and focusing on just enjoying the conversation. Talk about what you want to talk about. Say whatever you want to say. Say whatever you feel like saying. Enjoyment is one of the most important things for conversation.
Also, realize this video is just very basic. It's important to really feel the energy of the other person. Just an example, I remember that back when I was a teen I used to absolutely hate talking with adults. Most adults just seemed to ask me the same boring questions. I appreciated the effort, but always avoided those conversations and did not enjoy them.
Meanwhile, there were just a few adults who were able to steer the conversation to a topic I would enjoy talking about. They showed curiosity about me, but also were able to feel my vibes and try to find something we could both enjoy chatting about. Or make the conversation more interesting or playful somehow, etc. I really liked that.
However at times too, it's really nice when people can sense if you just want to be left alone. So to give them space / not talk to them.
And at times, it is best to do lots or almost all the talking. Some people just enjoy listening at times, especially if you have something interesting to talk about.
Just randomly flowing some more thoughts here in the description.. haha. but hope you liked the video and you got some value out of it! :-)
The main point I wanted to make in this video is just how people really appreciate if you put a sincere effort in trying to get to know them, just being with them, noticing them, etc. Even if you are awkward haha, people can just sense the good intention and really appreciate you taking your time to simply be present with them and give them some undivided attention.
Checkout my social anxiety playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYy6GDb6c3Mrm4AjwBmQ80-VPEzMmYu_o
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Website: GoldJacketLuke.com
Regarding all the messages I have ever given, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to test the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Everyone has their own individualization process. You may be an "outlier". Also, there appears to be a yin and a yang for everything (except God maybe?) that go together. Maybe you'll find some concept that will work awesome for you now, and then in the future you'll find that the polar opposite of that concept is what feels true for you. What matters is are you afraid of truth? Are you being real? Are your actions hurting others? And are you coming from a truly good place?
►Thanks for watching! I'd appreciate it if you LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, & check out my other videos! :)
►My favorite Jad T. Jones video. The most POWERFUL presence I've ever seen on a youtube video: youtu.be/6TLODb6kIDs
►Interview I did on Jad's channel: youtu.be/uEPQgWCrl70
►My friend Shogo has awesome conversational skills videos: youtube.com/shogogarcia
►Here's the Jad video that I clipped in this video: youtu.be/1086Uio47RQ
Listening skills and curiosity are very important.
The next step to be an interesting conversationalist would be to LIVE AN INTERESTING LIFE. And then just naturally you'll have more interesting things to talk about.
An interesting life could simply be a person who enjoys reading books. Books are an amazing way to arouse great conversation material. I love books.
Another tip would be to just say what you are thinking and focusing on just enjoying the conversation. Talk about what you want to talk about. Say whatever you want to say. Say whatever you feel like saying. Enjoyment is one of the most important things for conversation.
Also, realize this video is just very basic. It's important to really feel the energy of the other person. Just an example, I remember that back when I was a teen I used to absolutely hate talking with adults. Most adults just seemed to ask me the same boring questions. I appreciated the effort, but always avoided those conversations and did not enjoy them.
Meanwhile, there were just a few adults who were able to steer the conversation to a topic I would enjoy talking about. They showed curiosity about me, but also were able to feel my vibes and try to find something we could both enjoy chatting about. Or make the conversation more interesting or playful somehow, etc. I really liked that.
However at times too, it's really nice when people can sense if you just want to be left alone. So to give them space / not talk to them.
And at times, it is best to do lots or almost all the talking. Some people just enjoy listening at times, especially if you have something interesting to talk about.
Just randomly flowing some more thoughts here in the description.. haha. but hope you liked the video and you got some value out of it! :-)
The main point I wanted to make in this video is just how people really appreciate if you put a sincere effort in trying to get to know them, just being with them, noticing them, etc. Even if you are awkward haha, people can just sense the good intention and really appreciate you taking your time to simply be present with them and give them some undivided attention.
Checkout my social anxiety playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYy6GDb6c3Mrm4AjwBmQ80-VPEzMmYu_o
►SUBSCRIBE!: youtube.com/user/GoldJacketLuke?sub_confirmation=1
Like on Facebook: facebook.com/LukeEilers
(I frequently share lots of random and personal thoughts, insightful quotes, awesome videos from other people, cool articles, etc. on FB)
Follow on Twitter: twitter.com/EilersLuke
Website: GoldJacketLuke.com
Regarding all the messages I have ever given, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to test the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Everyone has their own individualization process. You may be an "outlier". Also, there appears to be a yin and a yang for everything (except God maybe?) that go together. Maybe you'll find some concept that will work awesome for you now, and then in the future you'll find that the polar opposite of that concept is what feels true for you. What matters is are you afraid of truth? Are you being real? Are your actions hurting others? And are you coming from a truly good place?
►Thanks for watching! I'd appreciate it if you LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, & check out my other videos! :)
