Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
In this video, I’m sharing my heart as a single Christian woman 💛
How I navigate singleness, the desire for marriage, and why I still choose to read romance books.
If you’ve ever felt the ache of waiting, wondered if it’s okay to enjoy romance while you’re single, or struggled with loneliness as a Christian woman—you are not alone.
This is not advice, just my personal experience and what God has been teaching me through this season.
✨ In this video, I talk about:
- Being a single Christian woman in my 30s
- Wanting marriage and learning to trust God’s timing
- How I read romance books while single
- When romance feels encouraging… and when it hurts
- Finding peace, joy, and hope in a season of waiting
📖 BIBLE VERSES MENTIONED:
Genesis 2:18, 22-23
Psalm 5:1–3
Isaiah 54:5–6
💛 If you’re in a season of waiting, I hope this encourages you:
God sees you. He has not forgotten you. And your desire for marriage is not wrong.
The Q and A video this came from:youtu.be/E2dCcQw6Tg4
⌚Timestamps
00:00 my heart for this video
1:37 you are not alone, I see you
3:26 Bible verses to encourage
7:42 bring your discontentment to Jesus
8:24 please be kind to each other
8:48 why do I read romance?
10:26 when romance hits too close to home
12:00 I pray and I read a thriller
12:50 unfollow people you are jealous of
13:46 being single is a blessing
14:17 God will not forget if you embrace His peace
18:11 Romance is fun and I have hope
20:05 life with God is good
📹Videos you may have missed this month:
My Spice Testimony: youtu.be/Plo-9EJ_jos?si=hJ88PmnS7XY39hOz
Christian Booktubers I recommend: youtu.be/2CIqNyUxMNY?si=5F0sNHq7XzcA6pNU
Reset for Christian women: youtu.be/MO6wZVx2vPY
TEENS this is for you: youtu.be/Hgpy-WkBJrM?si=U3OyVnh-fC8afGq4
Christian books to grow your faith: youtu.be/pz8usGrxPLk
✅My social links where you can follow me and support: https://linktr.ee/oceanareadscolinks
‼️2026 Reading Challenge: youtu.be/LfqPVPGCIWQ?si=-rwiktWra1pE36Tl
‼️2026 Book Club: youtu.be/lAz8Aae29pU?si=8NrzqU9rXl9VRY3
❗JOIN ME ON FABLE:
fable.co/oceana-reads-co-242566345979?referralID=8qoxUBYYpf
📖For Business Inquiries: oceanareadsco@gmail.com
💛Ways to Support Me & Affiliate Codes💛
Jesus in Silver jewelry: jesusinsilver.com/pages/oceana-reads-co
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Sign up to Everand for audiobooks: go.everand.com/lyga7wyjioud
Check out this wall decor shop: oppositewall.com
Discount code: OCEANA
Book Outlet referral: bookoutlet.ca/loyalty/referral/KfgTgt4w?c=url
Amazon storefront: amazon.ca/shop/oceanagottareademall
* I make commission if you buy through this link!
💕Oceana's Book Wishlist: amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/1ZKS3AK16VNXR?ref_=wl_share
💐ABOUT ME:
I’ve been creating bookish content for ten years, reviewing, and recommending Christian fiction, no spice romance, and young adult books across all genres. I read mostly from the library and I focus on faith-based romance books, no spice, and entertaining stories. My channel is all about helping parents, teens, and romance readers discover great books that are fun, well-written, and honour God.
If you’re looking for Christian romance books, clean book recommendations, or young adult fiction that is age-appropriate, you’re in the right place. I’ll always mention any content warnings, including language or romance details, so you can trust my reviews to be honest and thoughtful.
Check out my playlists for all my Christian romance recommendations, clean reads, wrap-ups, and favorite authors.
💐
Oceana (pronounced O-Sheena)
📚 KEYWORDS:
single christian woman, christian singleness, waiting for marriage christian, christian dating advice, can christians read romance, clean romance books, faith and singleness, christian lifestyle, trusting god in waiting season
In this video, I’m sharing my heart as a single Christian woman 💛
How I navigate singleness, the desire for marriage, and why I still choose to read romance books.
If you’ve ever felt the ache of waiting, wondered if it’s okay to enjoy romance while you’re single, or struggled with loneliness as a Christian woman—you are not alone.
This is not advice, just my personal experience and what God has been teaching me through this season.
✨ In this video, I talk about:
- Being a single Christian woman in my 30s
- Wanting marriage and learning to trust God’s timing
- How I read romance books while single
- When romance feels encouraging… and when it hurts
- Finding peace, joy, and hope in a season of waiting
📖 BIBLE VERSES MENTIONED:
Genesis 2:18, 22-23
Psalm 5:1–3
Isaiah 54:5–6
💛 If you’re in a season of waiting, I hope this encourages you:
God sees you. He has not forgotten you. And your desire for marriage is not wrong.
The Q and A video this came from:youtu.be/E2dCcQw6Tg4
⌚Timestamps
00:00 my heart for this video
1:37 you are not alone, I see you
3:26 Bible verses to encourage
7:42 bring your discontentment to Jesus
8:24 please be kind to each other
8:48 why do I read romance?
10:26 when romance hits too close to home
12:00 I pray and I read a thriller
12:50 unfollow people you are jealous of
13:46 being single is a blessing
14:17 God will not forget if you embrace His peace
18:11 Romance is fun and I have hope
20:05 life with God is good
📹Videos you may have missed this month:
My Spice Testimony: youtu.be/Plo-9EJ_jos?si=hJ88PmnS7XY39hOz
Christian Booktubers I recommend: youtu.be/2CIqNyUxMNY?si=5F0sNHq7XzcA6pNU
Reset for Christian women: youtu.be/MO6wZVx2vPY
TEENS this is for you: youtu.be/Hgpy-WkBJrM?si=U3OyVnh-fC8afGq4
Christian books to grow your faith: youtu.be/pz8usGrxPLk
✅My social links where you can follow me and support: https://linktr.ee/oceanareadscolinks
‼️2026 Reading Challenge: youtu.be/LfqPVPGCIWQ?si=-rwiktWra1pE36Tl
‼️2026 Book Club: youtu.be/lAz8Aae29pU?si=8NrzqU9rXl9VRY3
❗JOIN ME ON FABLE:
fable.co/oceana-reads-co-242566345979?referralID=8qoxUBYYpf
📖For Business Inquiries: oceanareadsco@gmail.com
💛Ways to Support Me & Affiliate Codes💛
Jesus in Silver jewelry: jesusinsilver.com/pages/oceana-reads-co
Code: oceana
Sign up to Everand for audiobooks: go.everand.com/lyga7wyjioud
Check out this wall decor shop: oppositewall.com
Discount code: OCEANA
Book Outlet referral: bookoutlet.ca/loyalty/referral/KfgTgt4w?c=url
Amazon storefront: amazon.ca/shop/oceanagottareademall
* I make commission if you buy through this link!
💕Oceana's Book Wishlist: amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/1ZKS3AK16VNXR?ref_=wl_share
💐ABOUT ME:
I’ve been creating bookish content for ten years, reviewing, and recommending Christian fiction, no spice romance, and young adult books across all genres. I read mostly from the library and I focus on faith-based romance books, no spice, and entertaining stories. My channel is all about helping parents, teens, and romance readers discover great books that are fun, well-written, and honour God.
If you’re looking for Christian romance books, clean book recommendations, or young adult fiction that is age-appropriate, you’re in the right place. I’ll always mention any content warnings, including language or romance details, so you can trust my reviews to be honest and thoughtful.
Check out my playlists for all my Christian romance recommendations, clean reads, wrap-ups, and favorite authors.
💐
Oceana (pronounced O-Sheena)
📚 KEYWORDS:
single christian woman, christian singleness, waiting for marriage christian, christian dating advice, can christians read romance, clean romance books, faith and singleness, christian lifestyle, trusting god in waiting season
