Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
FOR GETTING YOUR $$$ TOGETHER, WE PERSONALLY ENDORSE:
-Budgeting: Monarch: bit.ly/Holly211VideoMonarch
-Investing: Betterment: bit.ly/Holly211VideoBetterment
-Financial advisory: Advisor: bit.ly/Holly211VideoAdvisor
We’ve talked for years about the “adult toddler husband” dynamic — and why so many women end up carrying the mental and emotional load at home. In this video, TFD Creative Director Holly Trantham breaks down the green flags that helped her feel confident she wasn’t marrying an adult toddler, from shared domestic labor to financial and emotional self-sufficiency. This conversation was filmed back in August, before Holly's maternity leave (she's back now!). If you’ve ever wondered what actually predicts a more equal partnership — especially before kids — this video is for you!
Holly's Good Husband Guide Newsletter Series:
-How I Knew I Actually Wanted To Have A Kid: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-how-i-knew-i-actually-wanted-to-have-a-kid
-5 Rules We Follow So We Never Fight About Money: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-5-rules-we-follow-so-we-never-fight-about-money
-8 Things I Will Not Be Doing As A New Mom: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-8-things-i-will-not-be-doing-as-a-new-mom
-12 Reasons I Knew I Wouldn't Be Marrying An Adult Toddler: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-12-reasons-i-knew-i-wouldn-t-be-marrying-an-adult-toddler
FOR GETTING YOUR $$$ TOGETHER, WE PERSONALLY ENDORSE:
-Budgeting: Monarch: bit.ly/Holly211VideoMonarch
-Investing: Betterment: bit.ly/Holly211VideoBetterment
-Financial advisory: Advisor: bit.ly/Holly211VideoAdvisor
We’ve talked for years about the “adult toddler husband” dynamic — and why so many women end up carrying the mental and emotional load at home. In this video, TFD Creative Director Holly Trantham breaks down the green flags that helped her feel confident she wasn’t marrying an adult toddler, from shared domestic labor to financial and emotional self-sufficiency. This conversation was filmed back in August, before Holly's maternity leave (she's back now!). If you’ve ever wondered what actually predicts a more equal partnership — especially before kids — this video is for you!
Holly's Good Husband Guide Newsletter Series:
-How I Knew I Actually Wanted To Have A Kid: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-how-i-knew-i-actually-wanted-to-have-a-kid
-5 Rules We Follow So We Never Fight About Money: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-5-rules-we-follow-so-we-never-fight-about-money
-8 Things I Will Not Be Doing As A New Mom: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-8-things-i-will-not-be-doing-as-a-new-mom
-12 Reasons I Knew I Wouldn't Be Marrying An Adult Toddler: thefinancialdiet.beehiiv.com/p/the-good-husband-guide-12-reasons-i-knew-i-wouldn-t-be-marrying-an-adult-toddler
