Uploaded September 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Wife School continues — and today's professor is about to become my sister-in-law. 👯♀️
Katie Voetberg married a Voetberg son before I did, so she's graciously agreed to give me a little training before I officially join the family. She and her husband, Elisha, live in a barn in North Idaho with their six children, host the Now That We're a Family podcast, help run Voetberg Music Academy, and just celebrated ten years of marriage. This episode gets extremely practical: how to create peace in your home, stop micromanaging your husband, stay on top of the never-ending laundry, run a household smoothly, host a giant dinner, and figure out what actually matters when you're building a family.
Thank you to our sponsors!
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Our Guest:
Katie Voetberg
Katie's Links:
Instagram: instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily
YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCupN3rKBa8YJW1k1dKLSVDg
Podcast: nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10
Website: nowthatwereafamily.com
Newsletter: nowthatwereafamily.com/top-5-tuesday-newletter
Substack: elishaandkatievoetberg.substack.com
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Intro
3:07 All About Katie: The First Family Member On The Show
9:36 Her First Impression Of Vance
10:51 What Is Her Family's Mission?
11:46 Stereotypes On Large Christian Families
12:35 How They Decided To Be Podcasters
15:55 An Assumption She Got Wrong In Marriage
17:23 What To Do To Repair Distant Marriages
19:15 Ads: SAVA, CrowdHealth
22:32 How To Overcome Conflict Without Always Compromising
25:08 Enneagrams For Christians?
27:47 "The Get It All Done Club": Katie's House-Running System
33:43 How To Avoid Micromanaging Your Husband
37:08 Ads: Lovebird, A'Del Natural Cosmetics
40:46 Rhythms vs. Strict Schedules
42:20 Sleep Training Debate: Vance's Opinions
44:12 Simplifying vs. Optimizing The Home
46:13 Overcoming Boredom During the Winter Months
48:20 The Importance of A Useful Home
52:08 How To Host Big Groups of People
55:52 Ads: Puori, Birthright
58:41 Rapid Fire Questions
1:10:41 Voetberg Music Academy
1:13:09 Where To Find Katie & Elisha's Podcast
1:14:23 One Remedy To Heal A Sick Culture
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Wife School continues — and today's professor is about to become my sister-in-law. 👯♀️
Katie Voetberg married a Voetberg son before I did, so she's graciously agreed to give me a little training before I officially join the family. She and her husband, Elisha, live in a barn in North Idaho with their six children, host the Now That We're a Family podcast, help run Voetberg Music Academy, and just celebrated ten years of marriage. This episode gets extremely practical: how to create peace in your home, stop micromanaging your husband, stay on top of the never-ending laundry, run a household smoothly, host a giant dinner, and figure out what actually matters when you're building a family.
Thank you to our sponsors!
SAVA: Use code "ALEXCLARK" for 15% off at savanutrition.com
CROWDHEALTH: Use code “CULTURE” to get your first three months for only $99/month at joincrowdhealth.com
LOVEBIRD: Use code 'ALEX20' for 20% off your purchase at lovebirdfoods.com/collections/lovebird-cereal-variety-pack
A'DEL NATURAL COSMETICS: Use code "ALEX" for 25% off first time orders at adelnaturalcosmetics.com
PUORI: Use code "ALEX" for 32% off Puori Creatine+ when you start a subscription at puori.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoo5oW7qvHsFEVEC9tdsQajWNQa4cUSWYra7jo-mudUoI7oOLVxt
BIRTHRIGHT: Use code "ALEX" for 15% off your first order birthright.co
Our Guest:
Katie Voetberg
Katie's Links:
Instagram: instagram.com/nowthatwereafamily
YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCupN3rKBa8YJW1k1dKLSVDg
Podcast: nowthatwereafamily.com/podcasts/now-that-we-re-a-family-10
Website: nowthatwereafamily.com
Newsletter: nowthatwereafamily.com/top-5-tuesday-newletter
Substack: elishaandkatievoetberg.substack.com
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Intro
3:07 All About Katie: The First Family Member On The Show
9:36 Her First Impression Of Vance
10:51 What Is Her Family's Mission?
11:46 Stereotypes On Large Christian Families
12:35 How They Decided To Be Podcasters
15:55 An Assumption She Got Wrong In Marriage
17:23 What To Do To Repair Distant Marriages
19:15 Ads: SAVA, CrowdHealth
22:32 How To Overcome Conflict Without Always Compromising
25:08 Enneagrams For Christians?
27:47 "The Get It All Done Club": Katie's House-Running System
33:43 How To Avoid Micromanaging Your Husband
37:08 Ads: Lovebird, A'Del Natural Cosmetics
40:46 Rhythms vs. Strict Schedules
42:20 Sleep Training Debate: Vance's Opinions
44:12 Simplifying vs. Optimizing The Home
46:13 Overcoming Boredom During the Winter Months
48:20 The Importance of A Useful Home
52:08 How To Host Big Groups of People
55:52 Ads: Puori, Birthright
58:41 Rapid Fire Questions
1:10:41 Voetberg Music Academy
1:13:09 Where To Find Katie & Elisha's Podcast
1:14:23 One Remedy To Heal A Sick Culture
FOLLOW ALEX:
Instagram | instagram.com/realalexclark
Instagram | instagram.com/cultureapothecary
YouTube | youtube.com/@RealAlexClark
Facebook | facebook.com/realalexclark
X | https://x.com/yoalexrapz
Spotify | open.spotify.com/show/7M0C7cl5Fobejy7gbT5GB2?si=4c1abfaf22314ff8
Apple Podcasts | podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-spillover-with-alex-clark/id1507839530
🌿 Culture Apothecary WEBSITE/NEWSLETTER: realalexclark.com
Join the Cuteservatives Facebook group to connect with like minded friends who love America and all things health and wellness! facebook.com/groups/1234544066933796
🌿 Subscribe to ‘Culture Apothecary’ on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
New episodes drop 6pm PST/ 9pm EST every Monday and Thursday.
DISCLAIMER: This content is for informational purposes only and is not medical advice. Always talk to a qualified healthcare professional for any health-related questions or decisions.
#Parenting #Homeschooling #HealthandWellness #HealthyLiving #HealthyLifestyle #ChristianFamily #ChristianLiving
