Re: Why do you want to confuse people about your gender? | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2015-10-13 | My "How to be a Gender Confusion" series bring up many questions from my audience. I respond to the most common one in this video.Post about the asexuality collab: http://trisarahtopsasaurus.tumblr.com/post/130887399657/aces-call-for-submissionsIdentity Collab: youtu.be/1J9h0e6bnz8_My pronouns: they/themInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrash
Chatting sex work and decriminalization with Jade Blair! 🌸 Milo Stewart 2023-07-24 | I'm so grateful to Jade for joining me on this video! Please share some love and follow her socials: beacons.ai/jadeblairxoxFind me online: https://linktr.ee/GenderThrashMilo's pronouns: they/them/theirs
Doing OnlyFans until I... *checks notes* get out of burnout Milo Stewart 2023-06-23 | Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, TikTok and Twitter: @genderthrashFind all of my links here: https://linktr.ee/GenderThrashFind the TikTok I cited: tiktok.com/t/ZT8JVfE1x
an autistic day in the life, where we have hope for trans rights ♾🏳️⚧️⚧️ Milo Stewart 2022-06-10 | AHH my guided journal is available for preorder! Get yours here: https://mango.bz/books/trans-futures-now-by-milo-stewart-2156-bOr here: amazon.com/Trans-Futures-Now-Community-Acceptance/dp/1642508462/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1WGU4U4UUJOE6&keywords=trans+futures+now+milo+stewart&qid=1654823344&sprefix=trans+futures+now+milo+stewart%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1✨ Listen to the episode of Gender Reveal mentioned!: open.spotify.com/episode/04IdYjm5ma46y7lv84Bgz7?si=509134a11d654deb✨ Subscribe to my side channel of nerdy s3x stuff: youtube.com/channel/UCh5Q_4aOJsq66iixEa7R4SQ✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
this is your sign to be a gender major! 💫 ~pink haired enby edition~ Milo Stewart 2022-02-02 | be the SJW transtrender academic baddie of your dreams! Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash
I felt pressure to be polyamorous and it sucked 😭😭 Milo Stewart 2021-12-19 | Relationships are complicated!✨ Subscribe to my side channel of nerdy s3x stuff: youtube.com/channel/UCh5Q_4aOJsq66iixEa7R4SQ✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartChapters00:00-04:16 intro04:16-12:53 Is polyamory more queer than monogamy?12:53-20:37 Can you switch between polyamory and monogamy?
he didnt tell me hes CIS! (first date dos and donts) Milo Stewart 2021-11-18 | ✨ get 10% off Starsi from Early to Bed with the code* "MILO10" early2bed.com/starsi.html/?ref=milostewart✨ Subscribe to my side channel of nerdy sex stuff: youtube.com/channel/UCh5Q_4aOJsq66iixEa7R4SQ✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart* indicates affiliate code (I get a small commission on sales at no extra cost to you)Chapters00:00-01:40 introduction01:40-05:17 disclosing my transness05:17-09:52 telling dates I'm ace (not in bio)09:52-16:30 bringing up sex interests (and I launched a new channel!)16:30-19:12 embarrassed by my YouTube channel
calling out toxic traits based on your 🍂nonbinary fall aesthetic🍂 Milo Stewart 2021-11-04 | ✨You can get 10% your purchase with the code "10MILOSTEWART" from dossier.co✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart✨ Chapters00:00-00:51 intro00:51-2:16 Dossier collaboration02:16-02:47 idk I had fun editing this02:47-10:09 outfits!Music used: youtu.be/hdZLNZBZFlYStock footage background: youtu.be/qm_ztm9V5zg
Trans Sex 101 🏳️⚧️ How to choose a sex toy! Milo Stewart 2021-10-16 | You can get 10% your order at Enby with the code "MILO10" or using my link: shopenby.com/?ref=na6phnj1ru✨ Toys I talked aboutRomp Wave: shopenby.com/products/romp-wave-mint?ref=na6phnj1ruKip by Dame: shopenby.com/products/kip-dame-products-yellow/?ref=na6phnj1ru✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart✨ ResourcesErika Lynae has a ton of videos that have helped me understand sex toys!Her material guide: youtu.be/BHbR2fNNNncHer video on Adam and Eve: youtu.be/igXU3OMvTWAHer video on avoiding toxic materials: youtu.be/PT9QsSde4sQUnderstanding phallo: youtu.be/7L2tCmYTkckKade Cooks makes amazing resources on sex advice specific to trans men and trasmasc folks: youtube.com/channel/UCKlxi-E_4EHJL8byf8-B5dgChapters00:00-02:09 intro02:09-07:34 knowing what you want + trans needs07:34-11:52 material safety11:52-15:18 rumbly v. buzzy15:18-19:55 Romp Wave review19:55-23:50 Dame Kip review
I love bottom growth | nonbinary HRT Milo Stewart 2021-10-09 | ✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashPatreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart✨ ResourcesTransmasc pump from Early2Bed (code "MILO10" for 10% off*): early2bed.com/transmasc-pump.html/?ref=milostewartPump from Wet for Her ("MILO" for 10% off)*: wetforher.com/trans-masc-pump.html?rfsn=5859760.ef3d0fbShotpocket stroker from Early2Bed (code "MILO10" for 10% off)*: early2bed.com/shotpocket.html/?ref=milostewartArticle on clitorolphallus development: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/338346321986 HRT study: link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF015422202016 HRT study: academic.oup.com/jcem/article/101/11/4260/2765000Finasteride and dutasteride study: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5818776Kade's stroker guide: youtu.be/SOvTfX2B9tAKade's pumping guide: youtu.be/ZvqHDJYw6yEBig clit energy card: etsy.com/listing/896463506/big-clit-energy-gay-card-queer-lgbtqia?ref=yr_purchases* affiliate links✨ Chapters00:00-02:49 Intro02:49-05:23 What is bottom growth like?05:23-11:04 Gender euphoria and dysphoria11:04-12:46 Sex with growth12:46-21:19 Intimacy with cis people v. T4T
Trender Reacts to Wholesome Trans and Nonbinary TikToks Milo Stewart 2021-09-15 | ✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashSupport me on Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash✨ TikToks I watched@category_fury0: tiktok.com/@category_fury0/video/7007344573785607429?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@will.is.pretty: tiktok.com/@will.is.pretty/video/7007421458565664005?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@jasperjhonston4: tiktok.com/@jasperjohnston4/video/7002208709636066566?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@phantom_sigh: tiktok.com/@phantom_sigh/video/7005998450449878277?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@gia.sed: tiktok.com/@gia.sed/video/7006092912568126725?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@9tailsthequeen: tiktok.com/@9tailsthequeen/video/7007117217305218309?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@slurpyprincess: tiktok.com/@slurpyprincess/video/7006757757286239494?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373and: tiktok.com/@slurpyprincess/video/7004819055479753989?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@edsonmountaineggroll: tiktok.com/@edsonmountaineggroll/video/6997849377196854534?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@hugomongous: tiktok.com/@hugomongous/video/7004942727171394821?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@shmelk: tiktok.com/@shmekl/video/7007202003667619077?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373and: tiktok.com/@shmekl/video/7002234691247983878?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@coltdeadbolt: tiktok.com/@coltdeadbolt/video/6998149733516725510?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@dabygunn: tiktok.com/@dabygunn/video/7004986348633427206?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@hrt_monitor: tiktok.com/@hrt_monitor/video/7004303117751799045?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@puffdaughtery: tiktok.com/@puffdaughtery/video/7006849181151153414?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@nasa_shirt_friend: tiktok.com/@nasa_shirt_friend/video/7001911845036543238?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@transmasc: tiktok.com/@transmasc/video/7003855463943048453?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@emilymcsings: tiktok.com/@emilymcsings/video/6987530811893419269?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@superknovemusic: tiktok.com/@superknovamusic/video/6998183760592129285?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373@leo_tenxr: tiktok.com/@leo_tenxr/video/7000217434296749318?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373
YES, they/them can be misgendering! Milo Stewart 2021-08-16 | ✨ I want to hear from you! Here's a Google Form to submit community contributions to an upcoming project: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe6sXBhndL69Zsrqcom6j-t83_Vhf04c9s9uX_-P_wP9gdxjA/viewform?usp=sf_linkIf you missed my last video, you can watch it here: youtu.be/XnKBSxen0cA✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash✨ResourcesGracie's TikTok: tiktok.com/@gracie_chaos/video/6984498036223397126?is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373Lena Wilson's video: slate.com/human-interest/2018/05/using-gender-neutral-pronouns-could-actually-misgender-people.html✨Sections00:00-04-04 Introduction04:04-08:52 What is misgendering? 08:52-13:04 gender neutrality as gendering13:04-19:16 calling strangers 'they/them'19:16-23:01 degendering examplesbackground: youtu.be/Oqx0ODjUo_k
how to have a 🔥 Hot Trans Summer 🔥 Milo Stewart 2021-07-25 | ✨ I want to hear from you! Here's a Google Form to submit community contributions to an upcoming project: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe6sXBhndL69Zsrqcom6j-t83_Vhf04c9s9uX_-P_wP9gdxjA/viewform?usp=sf_linkIf you missed my last video, you can watch it here: youtu.be/KKt0XQLWk1c✨Check out Outplay swimwear with the code "Milo10" for 10% off: outplaybrand.comHigh-waited boardshorts I wore: billabong.com/sol-searcher-fixed-waist-2%22-boardshorts-194843545269.html#cgid=women_swim_boardshorts&start=1&hitcount=10✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash✨ Sections00:00-02:58 Intro02:58-05:36 You can feel joy05:36-08:13 Trans bubbles08:13-13:36 Practical tips13:36-16:39 Un-gender summer16:39-19:36 You don't have to make cis people comfortable19:36-22:02 thot 4 thot22:02-22:33 Announcements
Demi Lovato, misgendering can suck, actually! Milo Stewart 2021-07-17 | ✨ I want to hear from you! Here's a Google Form to submit community contributions to an upcoming project: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe6sXBhndL69Zsrqcom6j-t83_Vhf04c9s9uX_-P_wP9gdxjA/viewform?usp=sf_link✨If you missed my last video, you can watch it here: youtu.be/TjZ_V5jsGgI✨Demi's Insta post: instagram.com/p/CRRfOA5LUYD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_linkEricka's post: instagram.com/p/CRUoyDAjJJK/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash✨Video sections00:00-03:38 Introduction03:38-09:25 Celebrity Culture and Nonbinary Representation09:25-12:35 Respectability Politics in Enby/Trans Communities12:35-18:04 Understating the Harm of Misgendering18:04-19:06 Announcements
I thought I miscarried... after starting birth control | Trans Birth Control Milo Stewart 2021-07-12 | ✨Thanks to Atlas VPN for sponsoring this video! Try Atlas VPN for $1.39 a month:https://atlasv.pn/MiloUse this site to see all the Netflix shows/movies you could unlock with Atlas VPN: unogs.com✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash✨Resources #BleedingWhileTransAll birth control options with pros/cons: plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-controlWhat to do if you miss a combined pill: nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/miss-combined-pillWhat to do if you miss a mini pill: nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/miss-progestogen-only-pillTeen Vogue Article: teenvogue.com/story/things-to-know-about-birth-control-trans-non-binaryAcademic article on testosterone and birth control: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30997955Decidual cast TikTok: vm.tiktok.com/ZMdXQW4osGet $10 off your purchase of THINX (period underwear) at this link or use code "milo"*: shethinx.com/miloThe menstrual cup I use is the Moon Cup*: mooncup.co.uk/?ref=2515* indicates affiliate link (I get a commission on all sales at no extra cost to you!)✨Video sections00:00-01:33 Introduction01:33-04:03 Why do some trans people use birth control?04:03-06:08 Atlas VPN06:08-10:15 Is taking HRT and the combined pill safe?10:15-12:26 My experiences on the pill12:26-18:41 Miscarriage scare18:41-22:34 Why is this important?Royalty free background: youtu.be/YPqv9J6wFwE
My problem with “transmasculine” (And can we talk about AFAB/AMAB, too?) Milo Stewart 2021-06-19 | These labels are put onto me, and I think that causes harm. Let's talk about it!✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewartFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash✨ ResourcesVIn's article: medium.com/@transstyleguide/alternatives-to-afab-and-amab-d7cf8fe20a72Transmasc wiki: https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/TransmasculineTransmasc Healthline Article: healthline.com/health/transmasculine#changes-over-timeTransfem wiki: https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/TransfeminineTransfem Healthline article: healthline.com/health/transfeminineAFAB/AMAB wiki: https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Sexes#Assigned_female_at_birth"Transfeminine!!!" by Jane Nance: archive.org/details/tvtstapestry47unse/page/30/mode/2up?q=transfeminine✨Video SectionsIntro: 00:00-02:11History and usage: 02:11-06:35Criticisms: 06:35-12:47My relationship to 'transmasc': 12:47-15:34Alternatives and community: 15:34-21:56Rainbow background: youtube.com/watch?v=pCJp-7HkMF4
Top Surgery Uncertainty and Femininity Milo Stewart 2021-05-15 | I got top surgery last July! This video shows my results and talks about how I knew I wanted top surgery.✨ My Things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart✨Video Sections00:00-04:00 intro04:00-12:56 how i knew i wanted top surgery12:56-14:20 info about my surgery14:20-18:39 anxiety about regret18:39-26:23 analyzing predictions that I will detransition26:23-31:48 how I feel about my femininity31:48-33:35 announcements✨I believe all citations have the full title and authors in the video except for the article by Talia Mae Bettcher. That's titled "Trapped in the Wrong Theory: Rethinking Trans Oppression and Resistance."✨ The song at the beginning is "Guyliner" by Dorian Electra
I survived anti-SJW YouTube Milo Stewart 2021-04-09 | I survived an online harassment campaign in 2016. Anger at my political opinions was turned into transphobic abuse. Here's my story. ✨ If you're struggling with your mental health, please seek help! Trans Lifeline: translifeline.orgUS number: (877) 565-8860Canada: (877) 330-6366✨ Twitter thread by Kat Blaque on implicit biases: twitter.com/kat_blaque/status/1358544872676884480?s=20✨ Support survivors of online harassment: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDz6AP8ieCe6_nTumMvYw8VYdVSLcIzYR✨ An interesting article covering the harassment I faced and my reactions to it at the time: dailydot.com/upstream/milo-stewart-trans-youtube-trolls✨ I made a playlist of some of my videos from 2016-2017 that I reference in this video: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDz6AP8ieCe4waxZMui6PfgfCcprf8M17✨ If you're struggling to get into therapy, BetterHelp is a great way to get connected with a therapist within a day! I have personally used the service BetterHelp and recommend it!BetterHelp*: tryonlinetherapy.com/milostewart ✨ "The Power of Now" is a book that greatly helped me emotionally handle the harassment. I definitely recommend it for anyone interested in mindfulness! ✨ My things!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart* indicates affiliate linkSectionsintro: 00:00rise to infamy: 03:52do I still think all white people are racist? 15:3776 genders and memes 22:16mental health talks: 29:50how I handle harassment now: 41:06what now?: 49:18
Asexual because of trauma? (and can ace-allo relationships work?!) Milo Stewart 2021-03-28 | Let's get into the gritty of what it's like to date as an ace person!Hannah Witton's video on the difference between desire, arousal and attraction: youtu.be/E9VG82JA1NQToys I talk about in the video:Cuddly bird*: http://go.osuga.com/milo_birdG-spa*: http://go.osuga.com/milo_gspaDiscount code: Milo10If you're struggling with intimacy, I highly recommend bringing that up in therapy. I have personally used the service BetterHelp and recommend it to all my friends!BetterHelp*: tryonlinetherapy.com/milostewart *Indicates affiliate linkPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
No, my asexuality wasnt a phase Milo Stewart 2021-01-23 | [CW: brief mention of sexual violence] I've publicly gone through different many stages of understanding my asexuality, so I wanted tot talk through what these labels meant to me at different times. Here are the ace creators I mentioned who have started conversations about sex and asexuality!Evie Lupine: youtu.be/L6R1wIEYlJ4Aaron Ansuini: youtu.be/HUFLnpoPtTARowan Ellis: youtu.be/2YJFXqipVOIPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
Should trans women be in womens prisons? Re: Blaire White Milo Stewart 2021-01-03 | [CW: vague discussion of sexual violence] An abolitionist responds to Blaire White's arguments for putting trans people in trans prison units. Listen to the voices of currently/formerly incarcerated folks! (I'm not formerly incarcerated)Comrade Alyssa: twitter.com/comradealyssaThe Marshall Project's Life Inside series: themarshallproject.org/tag/life-insideDominique Morgan (executive director of Black and Pink): youtu.be/fxxIqFifCt0Parole for Joe vanderford, an incarcerated trans man: docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbuDIWksKrigRbK52FJGjzkdItq9DxDEsz4P9gMEsfztRxPA/viewform?fbclid=IwAR0dmQWGrnWwoahJniS3gAutonty5AmhsxMHvekjy_GZWBYQG8wXyJPtUG4Citations and Resources:No-touch policy: shadowproof.com/2019/09/30/trans-behind-bars-homophobia-persists-at-shakopee-prison-after-end-to-no-touch-policyLayleen's story: washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/06/10/layleen-polanco-transgender-woman-died-her-cell-rikers-officials-provided-no-detailsOrganizing for Layleen Xtravaganza-Polanco: shadowproof.com/2020/01/14/how-layleen-xtravanganza-polancos-case-impacted-organizing-for-transgender-prisonersNBC article on how trans people are placed in prisons: nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/transgender-women-are-nearly-always-incarcerated-men-s-putting-many-n1142436California legislation: apnews.com/article/prisons-gender-identity-california-gavin-newsom-archive-14cd954b06360d21349b77233318369eTrans carceral feminism v. trans abolition: facebook.com/watch/live/?v=173023387454318&ref=watch_permalinkHow to make abolitionist reforms: abolitionanddisabilityjustice.com/reforms-to-opposeNo New Jails campaign: gothamist.com/news/what-would-no-new-jails-actually-look-likeNational Center for Transgender Equality's "Standing with LGBT Prisoners": transequality.org/sites/default/files/docs/resources/JailPrisons_Resource_FINAL.pdf"Unjust: How the broken criminal justice system fails LGBT people": lgbtmap.org/file/lgbt-criminal-justice-condensed-version.pdfVideos references:Blaire White's video: youtu.be/ublfBpy0PQsVaush's segment: youtu.be/gkIoHWDXCOoKat Blaque's video: youtu.be/zJm-LZXqrVsPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
We cant do our part out of COVID (without a stronger government response)!! Milo Stewart 2020-12-22 | Let's talk about why individualizing responsibility for stopping the pandemic isn't working!Jouelzy's video: youtu.be/i5cBjbKQMogDevon Price's article "Here's What essential Works Want People Who Work From Home to Understand": gen.medium.com/what-essential-workers-wish-work-from-homers-understood-a2524ebb2c3cRob Wallace's article on Biden's COVID plan: truthout.org/articles/bidens-covid-plan-is-better-than-trumps-but-still-far-from-sufficientCOVID-19 and Circuits of Capital: monthlyreview.org/2020/05/01/covid-19-and-circuits-of-capitalCall Your Girlfriend's "COVID Consent Conversations" episode: open.spotify.com/episode/6GwOlmd3krqe5txYT9149r?si=21FuvW24QBOBI0je06zGNARevolutionary Left Radio episode on the election results: open.spotify.com/episode/4sW7SURInQ87uIvRURyznz?si=JgPJ1HjtQDub7qqUdUO5qgRed Menace podcast episode with a good conversation about COVID: open.spotify.com/episode/5kUTpzJ3OqiyA5nM6gpMKv?si=HKhfizn0RgGfdflJUMz_pAMy pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
Why did I stop dating cis people? Milo Stewart 2020-12-05 | Let's get into the tmi of my dating life!!! Kat Blaque's video: youtu.be/esEAgjNJwikPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
I reacted to my old videos about gender... (and it was ok! 💞) Milo Stewart 2020-08-05 | I've been very confident in who I am for a while, but I wanted to reflect on when I wasn't so sure.(The first two videos I reacted to are set to private)Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram, Twitter and Tiktok: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
I tried free bleeding in period underwear #BleedingWhileTrans Milo Stewart 2020-06-26 | CW: menstruationI tested out three kinds of period underwear as the main method of managing me flow. #BleedingWhileTransTry the period underwear I tested:Thinx (link for $10 off your first order)*: shethinx.com/miloRuby Love: rubylove.com/period-loungewearModibodi*: https://t.cfjump.com/69213/t/43611?Url=https%3a%2f%2fwww.modibodi.com%2fcollections%2fheavy-overnight-absorbency* indicates affiliate linkPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
Yes, Abolish Police and Prisons Milo Stewart 2020-06-16 | CW: Brief mentions of sexual violenceLOTS OF INFO ABOUT ABOLITION BELOW:Support these!Fund black and indigenous GNC communities impacted by incarceration: chuffed.org/project/support-black-and-indigenous-people-behind-bars?fbclid=IwAR2PJDnMATSpjF1jAUWme3oPyHajgz2Y684nnUlQSa1adD8crWWoLIh5bIU#/supportersBlack and Pink: blackandpink.orgNational Alliance Against Racist and Political Repression: naarpr.orgMoms United Against Violence and Incarceration: facebook.com/MomsUnitedChiSurvived and Punished: survivedandpunished.orgReading and resources!Abolition 101 FAQs answered in an interview series with Dean Spade and Reina Gusset: http://bcrw.barnard.edu/videos/reina-gossett-dean-spade-part-1-prison-abolition-prefiguring-the-world-you-want-to-live-in/People who cause harm are not monsters: youtu.be/NLVvskzF3qIWhat is accountability: youtu.be/HyOYWjmyO-cWhat is transformative justice: youtu.be/U-_BOFz5TXoHow to help people be accountable: youtu.be/AhANo6wzBAARacist Roots of Policing: theconversation.com/the-racist-roots-of-american-policing-from-slave-patrols-to-traffic-stops-112816Recidivism Rates: bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/18upr9yfup0514.pdf and bjs.gov/index.cfm?ty=tp&tid=17Restorative Justice Community Court: aboutrsi.org/court-adr-across-illinois/programs/restorative-justice-community-court-cook-countyFollow Gerald Reed's case: abc7chicago.com/gerald-reed-case-murder-conviction-overturned/5931990Are Prisons Obsolete: feministes-radicales.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/Angela-Davis-Are_Prisons_Obsolete.pdfJoy James lecture: youtube.com/watch?v=z9rvRsWKDx0Interview with Ruth Wilson Gilmore: nytimes.com/2019/04/17/magazine/prison-abolition-ruth-wilson-gilmore.htmlCharlene Caruthers, Kimberly Foster and Derecka Purnell on abolition: youtu.be/f4ofj__h7ssGolden Gulag by Ruth Wilson Gilmore: cominsitu.files.wordpress.com/2018/08/gilmore-ruth-wilson-golden-gulag-2007.pdfFrank Chapman's autobiography: goodreads.com/en/book/show/51285707-the-damned-don-t-cryFeminist Accountability: goodreads.com/book/show/39884315-feminist-accountability?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=4XWFRMTgt2&rank=2Unapologetic by Charlene Carruthers: goodreads.com/book/show/37507272-unapologetic?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=p2TdkL7Tc3&rank=3Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: patreon.com/genderdeceiverclubWant to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
social justice books Im reading in 2020 | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2020-01-18 | Let's chat about 6 books I put on my TBR list for 2020!Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrash
coming into my non-binary style (sustainably?) | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2020-01-05 | This is my sustainable (anti-haul) haul celebrating the clothes that I already own.Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram and Twitter: @genderthrash Facebook: facebook.com/genderthrash
so I started grad school... | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2019-12-21 | A week in my life as I start going to school for my Master's. #WithCaptionsPronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram and Twitter: @genderthrash Facebook: facebook.com/genderthrash Second Channel: youtube.com/c/BirchieRants
True Transsexuals | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2019-08-31 | Do you need dysphoria to be trans? A transsexual tells all. #TransDepathTranscript and MLA Citations:docs.google.com/document/d/1k1UfwIvGKU42AFzcECsIYyH-zJI-2M-2UmjPDF0qohM/edit?usp=sharingResisting Trans Medicalization Playlist:youtube.com/watch?v=EdvM_pRfuFM&list=PLDz6AP8ieCe5hJFwXXtrLdh39nTOp3Y0QSo many thanks to everyone who helped make this happen!Script Supervisor: ReneVoice Actors:Renée Yoxon: http://www.reneeyoxon.comPaul Roth: youtube.com/PaulRothPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashWant to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceriv...Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: ko-fi.com/milostewart
finals week as a peace studies major + top surgery consult Milo Stewart 2019-07-03 | I decided to film my finals week this past spring quarter, including my experience with getting a top surgery consultation - I'm a mess. [CW: weight loss and disordered eating talk from 8:30-9:30]Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/c/BirchieRants
Stopping Testosterone ≠ Detransitioning | My HRT Journey Milo Stewart 2019-01-14 | I started testosterone over two years ago, but it's been a wild ride. In this video, I talk about my choices and changes I experienced along the way. I don't emphasize enough in this video that it's also okay to not be sure if HRT is right for you! If that's you, the trans people in your life are a great research or therapy if you have access to it.Pronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/c/BirchieRants
A Trans Guide to Menstruation Milo Stewart 2018-11-25 | CW: discussion of periods, blood, high school bathroomsUse the code "milo" or go to shethinx.com/milo to get $10 off your purchase.* #THINXLeadersBody safe menstrual cups:Moon Cup*: mooncup.co.uk/?ref=2515Merula Cup: https://www.merula-cup.de/en/Diva Cup: divacup.comLily Cups*: click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=Nh/jFnp3vxw&offerid=433030.2&type=3&subid=0"*Affiliate links#BleedingWhileTransPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/c/BirchieRants
I met Laverne Cox... Milo Stewart 2018-10-07 | Yara Shahidi and Eighteenx18's #WeVoteNext Summit last weekend taught me a lot about being an organizer. This video lists 5 things I took away from the summit!Subtitles to come before the end of the day I uploaded.See your state's deadline to register and find out how to register: nytimes.com/2018/10/06/us/politics/state-voter-registration-deadlines.htmlSupport the National Voter Protection Action Fund: nvpactionfund.org/donatePronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/c/BirchieRants
Making My Name LEGIT™ | Non-binary Name Change?! Milo Stewart 2018-09-04 | It's long been the name I've gone by online, but is Milo my "rEaL nAmE"?! This video will hopefully clear up a lot of confusion! #WithCaptions - any mistakes in captions will be fixed shortly after uploadingTJLP: http://tjlp.org/services/name-change-mobilizationPronouns: they/them/theirsInstagram and Twitter: @genderthrashFacebook: facebook.com/genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/c/BirchieRants
Am I still asexual?! Whats my sexual orientation? Milo Stewart 2017-11-21 | I'm coming out.Email video responses to doingbiswithmilo@gmail.comMy Instagram and Twitter: genderthrash
Accepting Help for Your Mental Health Milo Stewart 2017-08-19 | If you're like me, reach out for help before you dip too low that you're unable to get the services you need. Check out BetterHelp: tryonlinetherapy.com/milostewartThis video is sponsored by BetterHelp. By using my BetterHelp referral link you are supporting this channel. I receive a commission on any sales, but I only promote products I believe in.Trans-run suicide hotline: US: (877) 565-8860 Canada: (877) 330-6366_Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
Online Dating for Trans/Non-Binary People Milo Stewart 2017-08-09 | Joe doesn't have public social media, so leave them some love in the comments!_My Pronouns: they/themInstagram and Twitter: genderthrash
Continuing the Conversation [Re: dysphoria and asexuality] Milo Stewart 2017-07-04 | Where my t-shirt is from: outcrytees.comOutro song: Rat-Boy by Punk Rock OperaIntro song: The Bad Plants by Punk Rock Opera_Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
Can asexuals have sex? Milo Stewart 2017-06-28 | Use the code MILO at adamandeve.com for 50% any one item and free shipping within the USA and Canada.Email video responses to doingbiswithmilo@gmail.comEvie Lupine's channel (ace + kink education): youtube.com/channel/UCHExB-d5s0zBcbsaHEUy91QProducts I discuss:Rock Hard Nipple Clamps: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/nipple-toys/sp-rock-hard-nipple-clamps-92858.aspxUnder The Bed Restraint System: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/kinky-bondage/sp-under-the-bed-restraint-system-11112.aspxA&E Magic Massager Deluxe: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/wand-massagers/sp-ae-magic-massager-deluxe-x-99190.aspx3-In-1 Untouched Massage Candle: http://www.adameve.com/sex-lubes/massage-oils/sp-in-suntouched-massage-candle-92328.aspxEvoke Strapless Strap-On: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-evoke-strapless-strap-on-102653.aspxPleasure Tape: http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/kinky-bondage/sp-pleasure-tape-10767.aspxSources:The Trevor Project on asexuality: http://www.thetrevorproject.org/pages/asexuality#AVEN's definition: http://www.asexuality.org/?q=overview.htmlOutro song: Rat-Boy by Punk Rock OperaIntro song: The Bad Plants by Punk Rock Opera_Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrash
My Non-Binary Dysphoria Milo Stewart 2017-06-15 | Hopefully this helps clear up some confusion about non-binary people with dysphoria. :)Email video responses to doingbiswithmilo@gmail.comMusic: Rat-Boy by Punk Rock Opera and The Bad Plants by Punk Rock OperaCheck out BetterHelp: tryonlinetherapy.com/milostewartBetterHelp is an online therapy service. By using my BetterHelp referral link you are supporting this channel. I receive a commission on any sales, but I only promote products I believe in._Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
Growth, Change, and an Apology Milo Stewart 2017-05-19 | I've been changing, I'd like to think for the better.I have made my video about implicit biases unlisted, but you can view it here: youtu.be/E5Brqo0vSNE_Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
NO FEMMES ALLOWED - Andie Meadows Take on Chicagos Gayborhood Milo Stewart 2016-12-07 | In which Andie Meadows discusses the visual structures in Chicago's gayborhood called Boystown and the work that she's doing to deconstruct them. Produced and edited by Milo Stewart.You can find Andie at: http://www.andiemeadows.comAnd on Instagram: instagram.com/concise_indulgence_Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
Re: Ari Fitz on the Fear of Androgyny | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-11-07 | Ari's video: youtu.be/A8_rsnfncaMHow to be a Gender Confusion Playlist: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDz6AP8ieCe6SidAJ6H4Q4SodhxaVDSFSMy physical assault story: [video now private]_Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4gIntro song: "Cute and Canny" from this site: http://www.megatrax.com/browse-details.php?id=502348
#BlackLivesMatter isn’t Anti-LGBT+ | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-08-17 | Good videos on #BlackLivesMatter: youtube.com/watch?v=RB21XJkPZKM&index=1&list=PLDz6AP8ieCe5gF0mePRlEpI-NCT43ettZOn Rae'Lynn Thomas: mic.com/articles/151406/rae-lynn-thomas-ohio-transgender-woman-killed-by-mom-s-ex-who-called-her-satan#.WlmIjD1FRStats on LGBT+ violence: http://www.avp.org/storage/documents/2013_ncavp_hvreport_final.pdfTiffany speaking at the vigil: youtube.com/watch?v=Ge9pHidD8scMore on the vigil: http://www.advocate.com/youth/2016/6/17/time-two-white-gay-men-heckled-latina-pulse-vigilOn Toronto pride: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/pride-parade-toronto-1.3662823On Stonewall: http://www.history.com/this-day-in-history/the-stonewall-riotSylvia Rivera: youtu.be/9QiigzZCEtQCurrent anti-LGBT police misconduct/violence ex: news.vice.com/article/why-carrying-condoms-in-nyc-might-get-you-arrested_Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4gIntro song: "Cute and Canny" from this site http://www.megatrax.com/browse-details.php?id=502348
Dealing with Transphobia and Self-Hatred | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-08-11 | I can deal with transphobic comments, but I worry about how others receive them._Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
HOW TO MAKE A RESPONSE VIDEO | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-07-30 | In which I continue the conversation about harassment on YouTube and how to make a response video without inciting harassment.Check out Meghan Tonjes because she makes good response / calling out videos: youtube.com/user/tonjesml_Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrash
YOUTUBE, LET ME HELP YOU TO HELP ME | My Experiences with Harassment Milo Stewart 2016-07-23 | [TW: discussion of harassment, mentions of suicide and death threats] TheNotAdam's video: youtu.be/J9K1ySVOUkwskylarkelevefn's video: youtu.be/l5l91M6eoPMmarinashutup's video: youtu.be/cLPqIGdf7G8Megan Mackay's video: youtu.be/ugq00FnQ0AwPew Research Center study: http://www.pewinternet.org/2014/10/22/online-harassmentGLSEN report: http://www.glsen.org/press/study-finds-lgbt-youth-face-greater-harassment-online_Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrash
#ProudToBe Non-Binary and Asexual | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-06-22 | I've come a long way to be as comfy being me as I am._Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
Anti-Trans Bathroom Bills | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-03-27 | [TW: discussion of transphobia] A lot of transphobic legislation has been up for discussion lately. What are the arguments against trans rights and just how false are they? #JusticeForElliotProof that trans people aren't dangerous: http://mediamatters.org/research/2015/06/03/17-school-districts-debunk-right-wing-lies-abou/203867Proof that conservatives are: http://mediamatters.org/blog/2013/08/19/this-is-what-conservative-media-think-a-transge/195448Fight for trans rights in Houston: http://www.houequality.comFind gender neutral bathrooms near you: http://www.refugerestrooms.orgIntro song: "Cute and Canny" by Megatraxhttp://www.megatrax.com/browse-details.php?id=502348_Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter: genderthrash
How to be a Gender Confusion 2 | Milo Stewart Milo Stewart 2016-01-01 | [TW: food, q-slur (censored in captions)] If you've ever wanted to confuse people about your gender, this video will give you all of the tips you need to be a gender confusion. Special thanks to Jasmine, Chris, and Noah for inspiring me.Part 1: youtu.be/6BW3YMLbJ6YRe: "Why do you want to confuse people about your gender?": youtu.be/GmRMh685xl8_Instagram and Twitter: genderthrashSecond Channel: youtube.com/channel/UC_qM07dUtRS5iV-ppigKi4g
