Gifted and ADHD: The twice-exceptional struggle nobody talks about | ADHD Aha! @UnderstoodOrg
Gifted and ADHD: The twice-exceptional struggle nobody talks about | ADHD Aha!  @UnderstoodOrg
Uploaded September 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
A former boss once described their first meeting this way: “She showed up late and disheveled, and I hired her anyway.” That’s Sabrina Caluori in a nutshell.

Sabrina is the chief marketing officer at Chief, the largest private network for ambitious women. Diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, she describes herself as a contradiction: “High achieving and a hot mess in equal measure” — a leader who can hold an entire company’s strategy in her head but can’t manage her own calendar.

Sabrina shares what it’s like to be gifted with ADHD — twice exceptional — and how that experience bonds her to her 2e child. She gets into ADHD burnout, self-doubt, and how the things she once considered character flaws turned out to make her exceptional at reading people and leading teams.

For more on this topic
Listen: Twice exceptional: Raising a gifted son with ADHD (Emily’s story) understood.org/en/podcasts/adhd-aha/twice-exceptional-adhd-gifted
Read: ADHD and burnout understood.org/en/articles/adhd-burnout
Watch: The ADHD burnout cycle youtube.com/shorts/6TrnVxipTEI

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