Uploaded August 2020 | Updated September 2026, 15 minutes ago
Welcome to the Cemetery Confessions Baby Bat 101 crash course! Whether you’re 12 or 85, you’ve come to the right place. Our curated guide features guests from across the spectrum from long time well known DJ to shiny new goth moth and everywhere in between. We’ll chat about music, clubbing, dating, identity, politics and more!
Our guests this month are Scary Lady Sarah, Nadja, and Nat!
If you enjoy the podcast, consider supporting us on Patreon: patreon.com/cemeteryconfessions
The website will always have the most up to date show note: http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2020/7/31/getting-into-goth-cemetery-confessions
Politics:
-Post Punk Politics amazon.com/Post-Punk-Politics-Pleasure-Palgrave-Subcultures/dp/1137497793
-Sexism and Industrial http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2018/9/4/toxic-masculinity-and-sexism-in-our-scene-cemetery-confessions
-Assimilate amazon.com/Assimilate-Critical-History-Industrial-Music/dp/0199832609
Music: 41:40
-Goth Comp obscuraundead.bandcamp.com/album/unobscured-vol-1-comp-1-2019
-Some Wear Leather, Some Wear Lace amzn.to/3k6Wbrd
-25 Years in the Reptile House amzn.to/3k5fml1
-80’s Goth Wasn’t Just About Music youtube.com/watch?t=1768s&v=eu63P2Sxlpo
-The Value of Music to Identity youtube.com/watch?t=1829s&v=Syt38LDSJxQ
-Darkly: Black History and America’s Gothic Soul amazon.com/Darkly-Black-History-Americas-Gothic/dp/1912248549
-2019 Goth Albums obscuraundead.com/our-picks
-Post-Punk.com post-punk.com
-Goth Music History youtube.com/watch?v=3GbgQBjBfPA
-Origin of the term ‘Goth’ scathe.ndonet.com/histgoth.htm
Fashion and Makeup: 1:01:47
-Gothic Lamb gothiclamb.com
-Ghoulish Girls ghoulishgirls.com/collections/clothes
-ipso facto ipso-facto.com
-Queen of Darkness queen-of-darkness.com
-Heavy Red heavyred.com
-Plastik Wrap plastikwrap.com
-Versatile Fashions versatilecorsets.com
-Lip Service lip-service.com
-Shrine of Hollywood shrinestore.com
-Wonderland 13 wonderland13.com
-Kambriel kambriel.com/home.html
-Dark Angel Co thedarkangel.com
-Kaufen Apparel kaufenapparel.com
-Luciferothica luciferothica.com
-Junkyard Bat junkyardbat.com/collections/goth-necklaces
-the pretty cult: theprettycult.com
-Rise From Your Grave: facebook.com/Rise-from-yr-grave-resale-618192605506068
-Die with Your Boots on: https://diewithyourbootson.shop/
-Haute Couture http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2020/1/29/haute-couture-cemetery-confessions
-My DIY Tutorial 1 http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2015/11/1/how-to-diy-deathrock-jacket
-My DIY Tutorial 2 http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2016/7/15/how-to-diy-deathrock-vest
-How to do a Deathhawk youtu.be/c8LfxsVp2KM
Clubbing and Socializing 1:21:17
-So you want to start a local scene http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2017/10/8/so-you-want-to-build-a-local-goth-scene
-The Etiquette Guide to Goth Clubs youtube.com/watch?v=MlTs4Oipw7o
-Goth Club Tips youtube.com/watch?v=_LULe97nahM
Dating 1:43:30
-Goth Guide to Valentine’s Day youtube.com/watch?v=RWJbCp7i4Bc
-What’s wrong with Wanting a Goth GF? http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2018/12/5/whats-wrong-with-wanting-a-goth-gf
-Dating in the Goth Scene youtube.com/watch?v=-U1yYuZUAOY
Identity: 1:52:00
-What is Goth? http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2019/1/27/what-is-goth-cemetery-confessions
-The Philosophy of Goth youtube.com/watch?t=4s&v=CebuWs_s8aQ
-Aging in Goth http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2020/5/26/ageing-in-goth-cemetery-confessions
Further Reading:
-My Goth Library facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10208222801520652&type=3
Welcome to the Cemetery Confessions Baby Bat 101 crash course! Whether you’re 12 or 85, you’ve come to the right place. Our curated guide features guests from across the spectrum from long time well known DJ to shiny new goth moth and everywhere in between. We’ll chat about music, clubbing, dating, identity, politics and more!
Our guests this month are Scary Lady Sarah, Nadja, and Nat!
If you enjoy the podcast, consider supporting us on Patreon: patreon.com/cemeteryconfessions
The website will always have the most up to date show note: http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2020/7/31/getting-into-goth-cemetery-confessions
Politics:
-Post Punk Politics amazon.com/Post-Punk-Politics-Pleasure-Palgrave-Subcultures/dp/1137497793
-Sexism and Industrial http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2018/9/4/toxic-masculinity-and-sexism-in-our-scene-cemetery-confessions
-Assimilate amazon.com/Assimilate-Critical-History-Industrial-Music/dp/0199832609
Music: 41:40
-Goth Comp obscuraundead.bandcamp.com/album/unobscured-vol-1-comp-1-2019
-Some Wear Leather, Some Wear Lace amzn.to/3k6Wbrd
-25 Years in the Reptile House amzn.to/3k5fml1
-80’s Goth Wasn’t Just About Music youtube.com/watch?t=1768s&v=eu63P2Sxlpo
-The Value of Music to Identity youtube.com/watch?t=1829s&v=Syt38LDSJxQ
-Darkly: Black History and America’s Gothic Soul amazon.com/Darkly-Black-History-Americas-Gothic/dp/1912248549
-2019 Goth Albums obscuraundead.com/our-picks
-Post-Punk.com post-punk.com
-Goth Music History youtube.com/watch?v=3GbgQBjBfPA
-Origin of the term ‘Goth’ scathe.ndonet.com/histgoth.htm
Fashion and Makeup: 1:01:47
-Gothic Lamb gothiclamb.com
-Ghoulish Girls ghoulishgirls.com/collections/clothes
-ipso facto ipso-facto.com
-Queen of Darkness queen-of-darkness.com
-Heavy Red heavyred.com
-Plastik Wrap plastikwrap.com
-Versatile Fashions versatilecorsets.com
-Lip Service lip-service.com
-Shrine of Hollywood shrinestore.com
-Wonderland 13 wonderland13.com
-Kambriel kambriel.com/home.html
-Dark Angel Co thedarkangel.com
-Kaufen Apparel kaufenapparel.com
-Luciferothica luciferothica.com
-Junkyard Bat junkyardbat.com/collections/goth-necklaces
-the pretty cult: theprettycult.com
-Rise From Your Grave: facebook.com/Rise-from-yr-grave-resale-618192605506068
-Die with Your Boots on: https://diewithyourbootson.shop/
-Haute Couture http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2020/1/29/haute-couture-cemetery-confessions
-My DIY Tutorial 1 http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2015/11/1/how-to-diy-deathrock-jacket
-My DIY Tutorial 2 http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2016/7/15/how-to-diy-deathrock-vest
-How to do a Deathhawk youtu.be/c8LfxsVp2KM
Clubbing and Socializing 1:21:17
-So you want to start a local scene http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2017/10/8/so-you-want-to-build-a-local-goth-scene
-The Etiquette Guide to Goth Clubs youtube.com/watch?v=MlTs4Oipw7o
-Goth Club Tips youtube.com/watch?v=_LULe97nahM
Dating 1:43:30
-Goth Guide to Valentine’s Day youtube.com/watch?v=RWJbCp7i4Bc
-What’s wrong with Wanting a Goth GF? http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2018/12/5/whats-wrong-with-wanting-a-goth-gf
-Dating in the Goth Scene youtube.com/watch?v=-U1yYuZUAOY
Identity: 1:52:00
-What is Goth? http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2019/1/27/what-is-goth-cemetery-confessions
-The Philosophy of Goth youtube.com/watch?t=4s&v=CebuWs_s8aQ
-Aging in Goth http://www.thebelfry.rip/blog/2020/5/26/ageing-in-goth-cemetery-confessions
Further Reading:
-My Goth Library facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10208222801520652&type=3
