Uploaded September 2022 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Francesca of Neurodivergent Franchfries on YouTube shares her perspective on the issue of non-speaking autistic individuals and who gets to speak for them, with thoughts about autistic advocates and parents.
This interview was conducted as part of a video project on the conversation around who is "allowed" to "speak for" non-speaking autistic people. You can find the overall video here: youtube.com/watch?v=Gep2opzHyG8
Find Francesca Online:
youtube.com/channel/UC1Bj6fQNKPAR-EB0RpwEaQw
instagram.com/planet_franchfries
Spanish Channel: youtube.com/channel/UCS_liB_5WDl14kVKq7EOESg
https://linktr.ee/Planetfranchfries
Timestamps:
00:00 Can you tell me a bit about yourself and your upbringing?
19:42 How well do you feel your family/parents understand you (and you them) & What role have they played in your life regarding autism?
34:46 Do you typically feel a strong understanding for other autistic people who are non-speaking or may have higher support needs than you? Why/why not?
51:53 Feelings About Parents in Autism World & Do you think that parents/family are their child's voice?
59:24 What do you think about the conversation around who gets to speak or advocate for nonspeaking autistic people?
01:06:18 Do you have any other thoughts you'd like to share?
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Francesca of Neurodivergent Franchfries on YouTube shares her perspective on the issue of non-speaking autistic individuals and who gets to speak for them, with thoughts about autistic advocates and parents.
This interview was conducted as part of a video project on the conversation around who is "allowed" to "speak for" non-speaking autistic people. You can find the overall video here: youtube.com/watch?v=Gep2opzHyG8
Find Francesca Online:
youtube.com/channel/UC1Bj6fQNKPAR-EB0RpwEaQw
instagram.com/planet_franchfries
Spanish Channel: youtube.com/channel/UCS_liB_5WDl14kVKq7EOESg
https://linktr.ee/Planetfranchfries
Timestamps:
00:00 Can you tell me a bit about yourself and your upbringing?
19:42 How well do you feel your family/parents understand you (and you them) & What role have they played in your life regarding autism?
34:46 Do you typically feel a strong understanding for other autistic people who are non-speaking or may have higher support needs than you? Why/why not?
51:53 Feelings About Parents in Autism World & Do you think that parents/family are their child's voice?
59:24 What do you think about the conversation around who gets to speak or advocate for nonspeaking autistic people?
01:06:18 Do you have any other thoughts you'd like to share?
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![Autistic Masking in Females: My Experience
I wanted to share some about autistic masking in females and share some of my personal experience with it. I originally was going to make this solely about the behavior modeling aspect of it, but realized it fell under masking and decided to start here.
I hope this helps you understand a bit more about it and maybe relate if you are also a female on the spectrum. Hope you enjoyed!
This video is also shared on my website here: https://www.stephaniebethany.com/blog/autistic-masking-in-females-my-experience to help those who process better with a text format. Regardless, this is my original content and my own personal experiences and examples.
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![Autism Criteria Checklist and Further Guidance (More Examples!)
I thought Id sit down and go over this document with you all, which is further guidance for professionals regarding diagnosing autism spectrum disorder in accordance with the DSM-V. I think this will be helpful for a stricter adherence to the actual criteria for diagnosis while giving more examples and explanations. This was published on the University of Washingtons server, so it is not officially a piece from the DSM-V, but I am comfortable with this as a reputable assistance for professionals in how to interpret the DSM-V criteria for patients. I think this will also be helpful for those looking into possible diagnosis to see if they should proceed in pursuit of diagnosis or perhaps aid in compiling their traits with life examples to bring to practitioners as to why they feel they fit the criteria for being on the autism spectrum.
This is a screening tool.
Melt Like Icecream book
Request autographed by Sarah version: https://www.facebook.com/theautisticOT/posts/3092877360840005
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Guidelines: https://depts.washington.edu/dbpeds/Screening%20Tools/DSM-5%28ASD.Guidelines%29Feb2013.pdf
Videos I mentioned I would link:
DSM-5 Criteria: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiXTEDguAe0
Flat Affect: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7rCU8VfWQI
Eye Contact: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWMuQ7MODvk
Theory of Mind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQfIisooqDc
Echolalia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTBAkxcVdZ8
Stimming: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BZ2u72D1bmw
Autism Levels on IndieAndys channel: https://youtu.be/DYf6-lEh2fI
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![Does Infant Therapy Prevent Autism? | Reviewing New Research
News outlets like The Telegraph, BBC News, and more shared recently about a pre-diagnosis intervention therapy that supposedly prevents autism or lowers the risk by 2/3rds. I decided to look into this research to help bring understanding to what is actually being shown in the study and push past sensationalized headlines.
IndieAndy: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR-fiMOz0Ot2x3bwA mS0A
Sez Francis: https://www.youtube.com/c/SezFrancis1
References
Bowler, J. (2021, September 21). A Landmark Autism Intervention Study Has Shown Dramatically Reduced Diagnosis Rates. ScienceAlert. Retrieved September 21, 2021, from https://www.sciencealert.com/landmark-autism-study-on-intervention-for-babies-reduces-clinical-diagnosis-by-two-thirds
Roxby, P. (2021, September 20). Early baby therapy could reduce autism diagnoses. BBC News. https://www.bbc.com/news/health-58626945
Sher-Censor, E., Dolev, S., Said, M., Baransi, N., & Amara, K. (2017). Coherence of Representations Regarding the Child, Resolution of the Child’s Diagnosis and Emotional Availability: A Study of Arab-Israeli Mothers of Children with ASD. Journal of Autism & Developmental Disorders, 47(10), 3139–3149. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10803-017-3228-8
van ’t Hof, M., Tisseur, C., van Berckelear-Onnes, I., van Nieuwenhuyzen, A., Daniels, A. M., Deen, M., Hoek, H. W., & Ester, W. A. (2021). Age at autism spectrum disorder diagnosis: A systematic review and meta-analysis from 2012 to 2019. Autism, 25(4), 862–873. https://doi.org/10.1177/1362361320971107
Video-feedback intervention to promote positive parenting and sensitive discipline (VIPP-SD). (n.d.). Retrieved September 21, 2021, from https://tavistockandportman.nhs.uk/care-and-treatment/treatments/video-feedback-intervention-promote-positive-parenting-vipp/
Whitehouse, A. J. O., Varcin, K. J., Pillar, S., Billingham, W., Alvares, G. A., Barbaro, J., Bent, C. A., Blenkley, D., Boutrus, M., Chee, A., Chetcuti, L., Clark, A., Davidson, E., Dimov, S., Dissanayake, C., Doyle, J., Grant, M., Green, C. C., Harrap, M., … Hudry, K. (2021). Effect of Preemptive Intervention on Developmental Outcomes Among Infants Showing Early Signs of Autism: A Randomized Clinical Trial of Outcomes to Diagnosis. JAMA Pediatrics, e213298. https://doi.org/10.1001/jamapediatrics.2021.3298
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