Khadija Mbowe | For the boys, psychological patriarchy & toxic masculinity explained | Khadija Mbowe @KhadijaMbowe | Uploaded November 2020 | Updated October 2024, 5 days ago.
Hello and welcome to another video, this one is for the boys. We’re talking toxic masculinity but more broadly, patriarchy. The difference between political and psychological patriarchy, the factors that contribute to our patriarchal socialization and some empathy towards men.
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Love Khadija

Time Stamps:
Prologue 00:00
Intro 1:20
Chapter 1 Toxic Masculinity 5:56
Chapter 2 The Patriarchy 7:45
Chapter 3 Middle Adolescence 10:28
Chapter 4 Parental Units 14:23
Chapter 5 Performance 17:29
Chapter 6 Partners 20:24
Chapter 7 “Power” 24:30
Epilogue 31:35

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The land I record my videos on is the traditional territory of the Mississaugas of the Credit, the Anishnabeg, the Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat peoples.

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Ways to help:
19 organizations supporting Black Canadians
ellecanada.com/culture/society/9-organizations-supporting-black-canadians-to-donate-to

15 indigenous Human rights organizations to follow
humanrightscareers.com/issues/indigenous-human-rights-organizations




Resources for our dude friends:
Therapy for black men
therapyforblackmen.org

Heads up guys
headsupguys.org

Black men heal
blackmenheal.org





Some interesting reads:
Books (Available on audio platforms)
How can I get through to you?- Terrence Reel
The will to change: Men, masculinity, and love- Bell Hooks
A new Earth- Eckhart Toll
The Four Agreements- Don Miguel Ruiz


Articles
What is Toxic Masculinity
nytimes.com/2019/01/22/us/toxic-masculinity.html

The problem with a fight against Toxic Masculinity
theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/02/toxic-masculinity-history/583411

Psychology Has a New Approach to Building Healthier Men
theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/01/traditional-masculinity-american-psychological-association/580006

APA Guidelines
apa.org/about/policy/boys-men-practice-guidelines.pdf

How Toxic Masculinity Harms Men and Society As A Whole
focusforhealth.org/how-toxic-masculinity-harms-men-and-society-as-a-whole






Videos:
Boosie Badazz | Hotboxin with Mike Tyson
youtube.com/watch?v=BK3T_6iA9TI

Toxic Masculinity In Boys Is Fuelling An Epidemic Of Loneliness | Think | NBC News
youtube.com/watch?v=RbX76n6A160


Why I'm done trying to be "man enough" | Justin Baldoni
youtube.com/watch?v=Cetg4gu0oQQ&t=979s






MUSIC USED
Ach ich fühl’s - W.A. Mozart

Chaconne, Partita No. 2 BWV 1004- J.S. Bach


The Endless by Kevin MacLeod
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Investigations by Kevin MacLeod
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Hidden Agenda by Kevin MacLeod
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The Path of the Goblin King v2 by Kevin MacLeod
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Umbrella Pants by Kevin MacLeod
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