Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
For years, men have been saying they're walking away from dating, marriage, and modern relationships.
Most of the media ignored it.
Some mocked it.
Others dismissed it as bitterness or insecurity.
Now... they're finally noticing.
In this video, we break down two mainstream articles from the New York Post and USA TODAY that ask why more men are checking out and why women may be "losing out."
We'll discuss:
Why men are quietly walking away from relationships.
The rise of "heteropessimism" and what it means.
The double standards surrounding marriage and dating.
Why culture often seems interested in men's concerns only after they begin affecting women.
And the question almost nobody has been asking: Why did men leave in the first place?
Whether you agree with every conclusion or not, this conversation matters.
Because you can't solve a problem if you're unwilling to understand what caused it.
Sources
Madison Colombo
New York Post
"Growing trend of hating men seems to backfire as anti-marriage movement leaves single women losing out"
Read the article
Ingrid Jacques
USA TODAY
"Divorce 'glow ups'? Man-hating books? I worry about marriage."
Read the article
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Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
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For years, men have been saying they're walking away from dating, marriage, and modern relationships.
Most of the media ignored it.
Some mocked it.
Others dismissed it as bitterness or insecurity.
Now... they're finally noticing.
In this video, we break down two mainstream articles from the New York Post and USA TODAY that ask why more men are checking out and why women may be "losing out."
We'll discuss:
Why men are quietly walking away from relationships.
The rise of "heteropessimism" and what it means.
The double standards surrounding marriage and dating.
Why culture often seems interested in men's concerns only after they begin affecting women.
And the question almost nobody has been asking: Why did men leave in the first place?
Whether you agree with every conclusion or not, this conversation matters.
Because you can't solve a problem if you're unwilling to understand what caused it.
Sources
Madison Colombo
New York Post
"Growing trend of hating men seems to backfire as anti-marriage movement leaves single women losing out"
Read the article
Ingrid Jacques
USA TODAY
"Divorce 'glow ups'? Man-hating books? I worry about marriage."
Read the article
If you enjoy thoughtful discussions about men's issues, relationships, fatherhood, family court, and the cultural conversations shaping modern society, consider subscribing. New videos every week.
👀 Watch This Next:
🔴 Join me LIVE every Wednesday from 4:00-5:30pm ET over on @TheBoyMeetsSquirrelShow where my partner Lindsay aka @squirrelygirl1988 talk about the issues men and boys face in today's modern society. Come be part of the conversation, have a few laughs and learn more about how you can help bring change to the world
Here are links to even more great stuff!
📘 Check Out My Best Selling Book: Unveiling The Forgotten: The Plight of Male Victims of Domestic Violence & How We Can Help Them
Here: unveilingtheforgotten.com
👬 Join the Brotherhood of Men: Our Private Members Only Community Where You'll Get Access to Exclusive Videos & More Here: patreon.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
⚡ Support The Channel & Get Cool Merch: men-need-to-be-heard.creator-spring.com
🕸️ Visit Our Website: menneedtobeheard.com
Connect with Me On Social Media:
📱 Tik Tok: tiktok.com/@menneedtobeheard3
📱 Instagram: instagram.com/menneedtobeheard
📱 Twitter: twitter.com/MenNeed2BeHeard
📱 Facebook: facebook.com/MenNeedToBeHeard
📱 Rumble: rumble.com/user/MenNeedToBeHeard
This video was created & edited using Filmora: Get a Free Trial and 10% off by clicking here: filmora.wondershare.com/fission/invite?share_code=1Tiu4i6F0qY&referral_id=365
Men Need To Be Heard, is dedicated to bringing awareness to the issues men and boys face in today's society. Our goal is to help break the double standards and myths that surround boys and end the bias against them.
Disclosure: The information provided on this website or in any video does not, and is not intended to, constitute legal or therapeutic advice. It is my opinion and/or that of my guests and should not be construed as anything more.
Disclaimer: Any views, thoughts, and opinions expressed by the Guests on this show are solely that of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies, or position of this program.
Please Note: Some of these links go to one of my websites and some are affiliate links where I'll earn a small commission if you make a purchase at no additional cost to you.
