Uploaded July 2024 | Updated September 2026, 10 hours ago
Is the constant power struggle leaving you drained? This week, Layne and Jess look at old-school methods of parenting that rely on fear and force to control children's behavior. We dive into how fear hinders internal motivation and discuss ways to foster cooperation. Jess shares her journey raising a strong-willed child, finding leadership without resorting to dominance.
We discuss:
The long-term effects of fear-based parenting on adults
Why compliance shouldn't be our ultimate parenting goal
How fear-based discipline impacts a child's decision-making skills
How to maintain parental authority while fostering internal motivation
And ya, we talk a little bit about spanking.
Join us as we share personal struggles, insights, and practical tips for becoming the strong, compassionate leader your child needs.
Previous episodes we mentioned:
Less Gentle Parenting
youtu.be/eVukMraSGtE?si=RBT8iA2zzTAUVcaW
Our best toddler advice so far:
youtu.be/VeFbpVbffuU?si=B4FKSU10qmLc5uJt
Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com
Join to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month):
verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/spaces/9301123/feed
Find us on Instagram:
@jess_hover
Layne - @Enquiryco
Check out our new store at:
verygoodmothersclub.com
@verygoodmothersclub
See you on instagram!
@verygoodmothersclub
__________________
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Is the constant power struggle leaving you drained? This week, Layne and Jess look at old-school methods of parenting that rely on fear and force to control children's behavior. We dive into how fear hinders internal motivation and discuss ways to foster cooperation. Jess shares her journey raising a strong-willed child, finding leadership without resorting to dominance.
We discuss:
The long-term effects of fear-based parenting on adults
Why compliance shouldn't be our ultimate parenting goal
How fear-based discipline impacts a child's decision-making skills
How to maintain parental authority while fostering internal motivation
And ya, we talk a little bit about spanking.
Join us as we share personal struggles, insights, and practical tips for becoming the strong, compassionate leader your child needs.
Previous episodes we mentioned:
Less Gentle Parenting
youtu.be/eVukMraSGtE?si=RBT8iA2zzTAUVcaW
Our best toddler advice so far:
youtu.be/VeFbpVbffuU?si=B4FKSU10qmLc5uJt
Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com
Join to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month):
verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/spaces/9301123/feed
Find us on Instagram:
@jess_hover
Layne - @Enquiryco
Check out our new store at:
verygoodmothersclub.com
@verygoodmothersclub
See you on instagram!
@verygoodmothersclub
__________________
Baby Products you might like:
Swaddles:
muslin swaddle: bit.ly/2GPOIOu
Baby Clothes:
Mebie Baby (Double zipper/zips from the bottom): bit.ly/315DwE3
Pacifiers:
Pacifier: bit.ly/3gNuQur
Clip: bit.ly/2SRkPzJ
Diapers, Wipes & Shampoo:
Hello Bello Diapers ($15 OFF): https://hellobello.com/?smile_ref=eyJ...
Car seat:
Uppa Baby Mesa: amzn.to/2RnwyWP
Winter seat cover: amzn.to/2TUl1Q7
Nursing Spot:
Rocking Chair: amzn.to/2P0PKcb
Boppy Pillow: amzn.to/3aBJAY8
Nursing Bra: bit.ly/2H75AQA
Place for the baby to hang out:
Swing: amzn.to/30LYs1I
Bouncer: amzn.to/36mnJAH
Snuggle Me Organics Lounger: bit.ly/340ZIkV
Baby Bed:
Snoo: amzn.to/2tK8Ri8
More affordable bassinet: amzn.to/36idhKl
Baby Newborn Kit:
amzn.to/2sXNwSc
Bottles:
Dr. Browns: amzn.to/36fNVNm
Como Tomo: amzn.to/2GfeNT8
Breast Pump:
Haakaa: amzn.to/2uwlxZW
Portable Electric Pump: amzn.to/36qHQNX
Cheaper Electric Pump: amzn.to/2usof2V
Baby Monitor:
Owlet (Wifi camera): amzn.to/37nNl1h
Eufy: amzn.to/2Y1mr
Nanit: amzn.to/2vkI9xb
Baby Bath: amzn.to/2urtbFe
Griper Water: amzn.to/2NVtX3Z
Stroller: amzn.to/2RkSxgY
Carriers:
Ergo 360 baby carrier: amzn.to/2OJMwc
Ring Sling: amzn.to/2MILDhT
Swado swaddle: amzn.to/2rUYd6Q
Halo sleep sack: amzn.to/2rR4fWe
Zipadeezip: amzn.to/365jhqp
Portable Sound Machine: bit.ly/3rl3teW
Baby Toys: KiwiCo: kiwico.com/jess_hover
