Uploaded May 2024 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
I sat down with my mentor and executive coach, Joe Hudson, to discuss two topics close to my heart – business and parenting.
We covered how to empower employees and children by fostering autonomy, the importance of trusting people's natural drive to do great work, and the value of allowing kids to define themselves without harsh discipline.
This conversation got very vulnerable, so buckle up! It includes occasional use of strong language.
Joe's signature program, the Art of Accomplishment Master Class, is currently accepting applications for the upcoming cohort. Check it out here: artofaccomplishment.com/course/masterclass
🎯 Learn more about Joe's courses and programs: artofaccomplishment.com
🎧 Listen to the Art of Accomplishment podcast: artofaccomplishment.com/podcast
📹 Watch Joe on YouTube: youtube.com/@ArtofAccomplishment
📕 Check out the "Listen" parenting book: handinhandparenting.org/sg-products/listen-five-simple-tools-to-meet-your-everyday-parenting-challenges
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - 07:06 Empowerment and Energetic Exchange
07:06 - 14:00 Enjoyment as the Best Metric of Efficiency
14:00 - 17:44 Guilt, control and endurance
17:44 - 19:38 Enjoyment and founder's Interests
19:48 - 21:30 Enjoyment and compromising
21:30 - 25:42 Authority, solution criteria and creativity
25:42 - 27:28 Alignment and enjoyment
27:28 - 31:01 Discipline, rebellion. and will
31:01 - 34:07 Will and body
34:07 - 36:15 Body, emotions, and safety
36:15 - 40:04 How to feel emotions
40:04 - 45:20 Parental control vs trust
45:20 - 50:58 "Stay close and insist"
50:58 - 52:05 Anger, sadness and motivation
52:05 - 54:03 Kids get Trapped into the identity we give them
54:03 - 58:03 Kids are "connection machines"
58:03 - 1:02:00 Boundaries vs discipline
1:02:00 - 1:04:50 Naming emotions with kids
1:04:50 - 1:05:32 Where to find Joe
1:05:32 - 1:05:54 Blooper
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I sat down with my mentor and executive coach, Joe Hudson, to discuss two topics close to my heart – business and parenting.
We covered how to empower employees and children by fostering autonomy, the importance of trusting people's natural drive to do great work, and the value of allowing kids to define themselves without harsh discipline.
This conversation got very vulnerable, so buckle up! It includes occasional use of strong language.
Joe's signature program, the Art of Accomplishment Master Class, is currently accepting applications for the upcoming cohort. Check it out here: artofaccomplishment.com/course/masterclass
🎯 Learn more about Joe's courses and programs: artofaccomplishment.com
🎧 Listen to the Art of Accomplishment podcast: artofaccomplishment.com/podcast
📹 Watch Joe on YouTube: youtube.com/@ArtofAccomplishment
📕 Check out the "Listen" parenting book: handinhandparenting.org/sg-products/listen-five-simple-tools-to-meet-your-everyday-parenting-challenges
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - 07:06 Empowerment and Energetic Exchange
07:06 - 14:00 Enjoyment as the Best Metric of Efficiency
14:00 - 17:44 Guilt, control and endurance
17:44 - 19:38 Enjoyment and founder's Interests
19:48 - 21:30 Enjoyment and compromising
21:30 - 25:42 Authority, solution criteria and creativity
25:42 - 27:28 Alignment and enjoyment
27:28 - 31:01 Discipline, rebellion. and will
31:01 - 34:07 Will and body
34:07 - 36:15 Body, emotions, and safety
36:15 - 40:04 How to feel emotions
40:04 - 45:20 Parental control vs trust
45:20 - 50:58 "Stay close and insist"
50:58 - 52:05 Anger, sadness and motivation
52:05 - 54:03 Kids get Trapped into the identity we give them
54:03 - 58:03 Kids are "connection machines"
58:03 - 1:02:00 Boundaries vs discipline
1:02:00 - 1:04:50 Naming emotions with kids
1:04:50 - 1:05:32 Where to find Joe
1:05:32 - 1:05:54 Blooper
-----------------------
💌 Join our weekly newsletter for more productivity tips and resources fortelabs.com/subscribe
📚ORDER MY BEST-SELLING BOOKS
🧠 Building a Second Brain: A Proven Method to Organize Your Digital Life and Unlock Your Creative Potential: [buildingasecondbrain.com/book](https://www.buildingasecondbrain.com/book#order-now)
📂The PARA Method: Simplify, Organize, and Master Your Digital Life: buildingasecondbrain.com/para
👩🎓 TAKE MY SELF-PACED COURSES
1️⃣ Pillars of Productivity: buildingasecondbrain.com/pop
2️⃣ BASB Foundation: buildingasecondbrain.com/foundation
🤓 TEST YOUR PRODUCTIVITY POTENTIAL
Take our Productivity Pulse Check to evaluate your daily habits and find out where you can make improvements. Take the quiz now: fortelabs.typeform.com/pulsecheck?utm_source=youtube
👋 CONNECT WITH ME
📬 My weekly newsletter: fortelabs.com/subscribe
👩💻 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tiagoforte
🌐 My website: buildingasecondbrain.com
💌 My blog: fortelabs.com/blog
🐦⬛ X: http://x.com/fortelabs
🟦 Facebook: facebook.com/fortelabs
🤳Instagram: instagram.com/fortelabsco
