Uploaded April 2025 | Updated September 2026, 4 hours ago
Enabling is not the same as love. Rescuing, helping, assisting, and serving can sometimes be unloving and damaging. In this insightful episode, Dr. Ray explains the principle of enabling and emphasizes why it's essential for leaders, parents, and friends to understand this concept. Enabling is not love. Rescuing, helping, assisting, and serving can be unloving and damaging. In this exciting episode, Dr Ray Self explains the principle of enabling and why it's so important for leaders, parents, and friends to understand this concept.
Galatians 6:5 For each one shall bear his own load.
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Show host bio -
Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
Enabling is not the same as love. Rescuing, helping, assisting, and serving can sometimes be unloving and damaging. In this insightful episode, Dr. Ray explains the principle of enabling and emphasizes why it's essential for leaders, parents, and friends to understand this concept. Enabling is not love. Rescuing, helping, assisting, and serving can be unloving and damaging. In this exciting episode, Dr Ray Self explains the principle of enabling and why it's so important for leaders, parents, and friends to understand this concept.
Galatians 6:5 For each one shall bear his own load.
Help Dr. Self continue this show - partner at icmcollege.org/donate
Answer your call by enrolling with the International College of Ministry at icmcollege.org/enroll
Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Visit amazon.com to purchase.
Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website - icmcollege.org/selftalk.
Purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, at amazon.com.
Purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeeming Your Past and Finding Your Promised Land, at .amazon.com.
Or our new podcast website at buzzsprout.com/2249804
For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at drrayself@gmail.com
Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry - icmcollege.org/freelessons
Show host bio -
Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.
