Uploaded July 2024 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago

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If you're hoping your ex will break up with their current partner, here's how to avoid frustration when they reconcile and what you can do to win them back, so they choose you instead.

TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - Intro
0:27 - Why they keep going back
1:56 - Friendship at a distance
3:14 - Never bad mouth their ex
4:29 - Build dating social proof
5:06 - Don't let them settle for you

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