Does The Stuff You “Hate” Turn You On? | Carolyn Lovewell @AubreyMarcusPod
Does The Stuff You “Hate” Turn You On? | Carolyn Lovewell  @AubreyMarcusPod
Uploaded June 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Carolyn Lovewell is not only the world famous author of the book Existential Kink, she matches her psychological prowess with profound magickal knowledge. In this podcast we dive deep on all aspects of shadow work, helping to reveal the hidden turn-on underneath our own repeating negative patterns. With that awareness, using tools like Internal Family Systems, you can start to literally transform the association and necessity to continue repeating patterns that no longer serve your highest calling.

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Chapters
00:00 Intro
03:04 Existential Kink: The Power of Victimhood
05:51 Shadow Work: Embracing the Dark Within
09:07 The Role of the Soul in Healing
12:00 The Dance of Power and Disempowerment
15:01 The Kink of Pain: Finding Pleasure in Suffering
18:05 Transformative Stories: Personal Journeys of Kink
21:04 The Alchemy of Humiliation and Fertility
24:08 Navigating Public Scrutiny and Personal Truths
51:14 The Cost of Generosity and Risky Ventures
54:56 The Duality of Stress and Creativity
59:00 Seeking Approval from the Divine
01:02:10 Inner Dialogue and Self-Discovery
01:05:01 Connecting with the Inner Child
01:10:12 Unlocking Creative Potential
01:15:06 The Beauty of Creativity and Transformation
01:18:22 Wholeness and Inner Parts
01:19:36 The Power of Integration and Authority
01:22:15 Bridging Wisdom Traditions
01:24:11 Navigating the New Paradigm
01:28:02 Post-Tragic Consciousness
01:29:31 The Hermaphrodite and Sacred Union
01:32:50 The Role of Meaning in Magic
01:36:31 The Path Forward: Embracing Wholeness
01:37:15 The Buffalo Gift and Responsibility
01:49:28 Rituals and the Power of Protection
02:01:13 The Pentagram and Divine Creation

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