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As a man, are you worried that being emotional around a woman will completely turn her off? This is a myth that needs to go away because women actually want a man who is emotionally intelligent and vulnerable around them. Here's why society has led you to believe this lie and why it's so harmful.

"A Call to Men" by Tony Porter (TED Talk)
youtube.com/watch?v=td1PbsV6B80

TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - Do women hate when men are vulnerable?
0:41 - The rules around acceptable masculinity
1:50 - Why some women don't like emotional men
3:29 - Who should men open up to?

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