Uploaded March 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago

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My guest today is Brook Urick, the author of Wink Wink Nudge Nudge, a book that exposes the secrets of the sugar baby industry. Brook spoke to me about her experiences as a sugar baby, and also as a PR agent for the website Seeking Arrangements. We discussed the false way in which the industry is represented, the tricks used to lure young women into becoming sugar babies, the legal grey area these websites inhabit, and the ways in which sex positive feminism carries water for the sex industry.

02:57 How Brook came across seeking arrangements
06:46 Atmosphere modelling
10:32 Getting scammed
16:26 The girlfriend experience
18:02 Demographics of the women
35:03 Terms of use

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