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How do we approach the raising of our children in Game B?
From the Jim Rutt show
Full Conversation: youtu.be/a2mZqs3g5ks
Edited by Lorcan McSharp
Parenting what does game be have to think about how children are rate
law how they relate to their parents and how spouses relate to each
other.
So here's to us.
I think it's probably the easiest pizza.
I mean play a game or I'm just going to try to say the thing that I
think is the most fundamental and not do a lot.
What is it a lot.
So if you have an intuitive sense that the relationship between parent
and child has a strong fundamental asymmetry like it's a it's a
relationship between master and student relationship between boss and
employee then game be would we'll have some surprises for you that
weed in the game be contact.
There are Rumours humility and super important.
There is a deep deep awareness of the degree to which really effective
parenting as a sense of symmetry which is to say and here's the way
that I've said it to people and I have a 1 year old daughter for this
is like very concrete for me.
I am aware.
That she is a fully-realized show at least as rich and fully realized
as I might as a human being we are equal.
I happen to have been in a body that's going around the Sun many more
times than her particular body.
So when it comes to a lot of the kinds of things that have to do with
our bodies in the new Grinch time and space.
I've got a lot more experience and so I play a particular role of
asymmetry in terms of supporting her building the capacity in herself
to become more capable of being in the world and there's no way what I
said, they're supporting her and seeing herself.
I don't mean I'm pressing the things that I've learned on her
proposition Lee top down cuz that gets in the way.
That's what a teacher a bad teacher does to a student.
You're not learning how to fish.
I'm just giving you the fish in this metaphor.
What is at the same time?
I certainly have noticed that in terms of my own developmental Journey
my own building an Integrity in myself in my own learning and growing.
She has much to teach me the truth is like liminality.
She's the master living out with your shoe really is coming with a
child's mind to reality.
And so if I look at that, it's a while so it's really happening here.
So we are teaching each other this question of meaningfulness, and I'm
opening myself up to the possibility of of How Deeply she can change
me and honoring the responsibility.
I have a puppy cuz she's opening herself up for the pasta how much I
can change her and we are now peers collaborating in this crazy
shitshow of parenting child family and reality.
That's a game b way of looking at that problem.
How do we approach the raising of our children in Game B?
From the Jim Rutt show
Full Conversation: youtu.be/a2mZqs3g5ks
Edited by Lorcan McSharp
Parenting what does game be have to think about how children are rate
law how they relate to their parents and how spouses relate to each
other.
So here's to us.
I think it's probably the easiest pizza.
I mean play a game or I'm just going to try to say the thing that I
think is the most fundamental and not do a lot.
What is it a lot.
So if you have an intuitive sense that the relationship between parent
and child has a strong fundamental asymmetry like it's a it's a
relationship between master and student relationship between boss and
employee then game be would we'll have some surprises for you that
weed in the game be contact.
There are Rumours humility and super important.
There is a deep deep awareness of the degree to which really effective
parenting as a sense of symmetry which is to say and here's the way
that I've said it to people and I have a 1 year old daughter for this
is like very concrete for me.
I am aware.
That she is a fully-realized show at least as rich and fully realized
as I might as a human being we are equal.
I happen to have been in a body that's going around the Sun many more
times than her particular body.
So when it comes to a lot of the kinds of things that have to do with
our bodies in the new Grinch time and space.
I've got a lot more experience and so I play a particular role of
asymmetry in terms of supporting her building the capacity in herself
to become more capable of being in the world and there's no way what I
said, they're supporting her and seeing herself.
I don't mean I'm pressing the things that I've learned on her
proposition Lee top down cuz that gets in the way.
That's what a teacher a bad teacher does to a student.
You're not learning how to fish.
I'm just giving you the fish in this metaphor.
What is at the same time?
I certainly have noticed that in terms of my own developmental Journey
my own building an Integrity in myself in my own learning and growing.
She has much to teach me the truth is like liminality.
She's the master living out with your shoe really is coming with a
child's mind to reality.
And so if I look at that, it's a while so it's really happening here.
So we are teaching each other this question of meaningfulness, and I'm
opening myself up to the possibility of of How Deeply she can change
me and honoring the responsibility.
I have a puppy cuz she's opening herself up for the pasta how much I
can change her and we are now peers collaborating in this crazy
shitshow of parenting child family and reality.
That's a game b way of looking at that problem.
