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Dr. Ben discusses theories for quiet players for ttrpgs (Episode #183). #dnd #pathfinder #ttrpg #wfrp
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This video breaks down five reasons a player might go quiet at your table, learned helplessness, locus of control, evaluation apprehension, processing lag, and simply being a quiet-engaged player, plus a diagnostic guide for telling them apart before you try to fix any of them. Includes research from Seligman and Maier's learned helplessness studies, Rotter's locus of control theory, Cottrell's evaluation apprehension research, and current work on neurodivergent conversational timing.
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00:00 Intro
01:05 Learned Helplessnes
04:01 Locus of Control
09:37 Social Anxeity & Evauluation Apprehension
15:44 Processing Lag
20:56 Quiet but Engaged Player
25:41 Other Causes
28:24 Pitfalls
30:42 Step by Step Guide
38:04 Thoughts
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Works Cited
Appleton, James J., Sandra L. Christenson, and Michael J. Furlong. "Student Engagement with School: Critical Conceptual and Methodological Issues of the Construct." Psychology in the Schools, vol. 45, no. 5, 2008, pp. 369-386.
Botha, Ferdi, and Sarah C. Dahmann. "Locus of Control, Self-Control, and Health Outcomes." SSM - Population Health, vol. 25, 2024, article 101566.
Cottrell, N. B., D. L. Wack, G. J. Sekerak, and R. H. Rittle. "Social Facilitation of Dominant Responses by the Presence of an Audience and the Mere Presence of Others." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 9, no. 3, 1968, pp. 245-250.
Darley, John M., and Bibb Latané. "Bystander Intervention in Emergencies: Diffusion of Responsibility." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 8, no. 4, 1968, pp. 377-383.
Fusaroli, Riccardo, Christopher Cox, Ethan Weed, Balázs István Szabó, Deborah Fein, and Letitia Naigles. "The Development of Turn-Taking Skills in Typical Development and Autism." Cognitive Science, vol. 49, no. 7, 2025, e70082.
Haidari, Sayed Masood, Ayhan Koçoğlu, and Sedat Kanadlı. "Contribution of Locus of Control, Self-Efficacy, and Motivation to Student Achievement: A Meta-Analytic Structural Equation Modelling." Journal on Efficiency and Responsibility in Education and Science, vol. 16, no. 3, 2023, pp. 245-261.
Levinson, Stephen C. "Turn-Taking in Human Communication: Origins and Implications for Language Processing." Trends in Cognitive Sciences, vol. 20, no. 1, 2016, pp. 6-14.
Maier, S. F., and M. E. P. Seligman. "Learned Helplessness at Fifty: Insights from Neuroscience." Psychological Review, vol. 123, no. 4, 2016, pp. 349-367.
Rotter, J. B. "Generalized Expectancies for Internal Versus External Control of Reinforcement." Psychological Monographs, vol. 80, no. 1, 1966, pp. 1-28.
Seligman, M. E. P., and S. F. Maier. "Failure to Escape Traumatic Shock." Journal of Experimental Psychology, vol. 74, no. 1, 1967, pp. 1-9.
Uziel, Liad. "Individual Differences in the Social Facilitation Effect: A Review and Meta-Analysis." Journal of Research in Personality, vol. 41, no. 3, 2007, pp. 579-601.
Wang, Ming-Te, et al. "Introversion and Social Engagement: Scale Validation, Their Interaction, and Positive Association With Self-Esteem." Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 11, 2020, article 573183.
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Dr. Ben discusses theories for quiet players for ttrpgs (Episode #183). #dnd #pathfinder #ttrpg #wfrp
Bystander Effect youtu.be/rhMi6Ob52VI
Website rpgphd.com
Discord discord.gg/e49rJVQCwW
RPG PHD swag!!! rpg-phd.myspreadshop.com
Facebook facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089593636905
Instagram instagram.com/rpg_phd
Bluesky @rpg-phd.bsky.social
Special thanks to Evelina for the thumbnail template, much appreciated!! 😊
Description
This video breaks down five reasons a player might go quiet at your table, learned helplessness, locus of control, evaluation apprehension, processing lag, and simply being a quiet-engaged player, plus a diagnostic guide for telling them apart before you try to fix any of them. Includes research from Seligman and Maier's learned helplessness studies, Rotter's locus of control theory, Cottrell's evaluation apprehension research, and current work on neurodivergent conversational timing.
Tags
learned helplessness ttrpg, locus of control dnd, quiet player d&d, dnd player engagement, gm advice, ttrpg psychology, evaluation apprehension, social anxiety gaming, neurodivergent ttrpg, autism dnd, adhd tabletop gaming, dnd gm tips, tabletop rpg psychology, session zero, ttrpg design theory, seligman learned helplessness, rotter locus of control, quiet player fix, disengaged player dnd, rpg phd
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00:00 Intro
01:05 Learned Helplessnes
04:01 Locus of Control
09:37 Social Anxeity & Evauluation Apprehension
15:44 Processing Lag
20:56 Quiet but Engaged Player
25:41 Other Causes
28:24 Pitfalls
30:42 Step by Step Guide
38:04 Thoughts
--------------------------------------------
Works Cited
Appleton, James J., Sandra L. Christenson, and Michael J. Furlong. "Student Engagement with School: Critical Conceptual and Methodological Issues of the Construct." Psychology in the Schools, vol. 45, no. 5, 2008, pp. 369-386.
Botha, Ferdi, and Sarah C. Dahmann. "Locus of Control, Self-Control, and Health Outcomes." SSM - Population Health, vol. 25, 2024, article 101566.
Cottrell, N. B., D. L. Wack, G. J. Sekerak, and R. H. Rittle. "Social Facilitation of Dominant Responses by the Presence of an Audience and the Mere Presence of Others." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 9, no. 3, 1968, pp. 245-250.
Darley, John M., and Bibb Latané. "Bystander Intervention in Emergencies: Diffusion of Responsibility." Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 8, no. 4, 1968, pp. 377-383.
Fusaroli, Riccardo, Christopher Cox, Ethan Weed, Balázs István Szabó, Deborah Fein, and Letitia Naigles. "The Development of Turn-Taking Skills in Typical Development and Autism." Cognitive Science, vol. 49, no. 7, 2025, e70082.
Haidari, Sayed Masood, Ayhan Koçoğlu, and Sedat Kanadlı. "Contribution of Locus of Control, Self-Efficacy, and Motivation to Student Achievement: A Meta-Analytic Structural Equation Modelling." Journal on Efficiency and Responsibility in Education and Science, vol. 16, no. 3, 2023, pp. 245-261.
Levinson, Stephen C. "Turn-Taking in Human Communication: Origins and Implications for Language Processing." Trends in Cognitive Sciences, vol. 20, no. 1, 2016, pp. 6-14.
Maier, S. F., and M. E. P. Seligman. "Learned Helplessness at Fifty: Insights from Neuroscience." Psychological Review, vol. 123, no. 4, 2016, pp. 349-367.
Rotter, J. B. "Generalized Expectancies for Internal Versus External Control of Reinforcement." Psychological Monographs, vol. 80, no. 1, 1966, pp. 1-28.
Seligman, M. E. P., and S. F. Maier. "Failure to Escape Traumatic Shock." Journal of Experimental Psychology, vol. 74, no. 1, 1967, pp. 1-9.
Uziel, Liad. "Individual Differences in the Social Facilitation Effect: A Review and Meta-Analysis." Journal of Research in Personality, vol. 41, no. 3, 2007, pp. 579-601.
Wang, Ming-Te, et al. "Introversion and Social Engagement: Scale Validation, Their Interaction, and Positive Association With Self-Esteem." Frontiers in Psychology, vol. 11, 2020, article 573183.
Music and Sounds:
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