Debra Soh on Why Men and Women Are Drifting Apart, Dating Apps, and Gen Z @skepticmagazine
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Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
The Michael Shermer Show # 597

Fewer people are having sex, fewer are forming lasting relationships, and many feel more isolated than ever. Why?

Michael Shermer sits down with neuroscientist and author Debra Soh to discuss her new book Sextinction: The Decline of Sex and the Future of Intimacy. They talk about the so-called sex recession, why modern dating feels so broken, and how social media, pornography, AI companions, and changing expectations between men and women are reshaping intimacy.

The discussion also touches on Gen Z mental health, dating apps, the manosphere, marriage, and the broader social consequences of a culture that increasingly substitutes screens for real human connection.

Debra Soh is a neuroscientist who specializes in human sexuality and biological explanations for behavior. She received her PhD from York University in Toronto and worked as a scientific researcher for eleven years. As a journalist, Soh writes about technology, health, and the politicization of science.

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